She's upset you didn't ask her out for Valentine's Day is my guess unless you already told her that you had other engagements. You still need to S&D but my guess is that is what this is about.
Allow us to save some time for each of us and end the discussion here. Best of luck in your endeavors.
"Man" and "woman" is derogatory? I ask because the advice you are giving in this thread is either that you are a chick or hardcore blue pill. I am genuinely curious and not judging you at all.
And how would you feel if she is dating someone else?
I don't feel that really...I mean we were going to meet up this past Thursday and she had work stuff to deal with. Sunday is not a day she has free to meet up so that wouldn't be it.
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Oh gosh the "pill thing" ...calling a woman a plate is disrespectful. What are men "saucers" "teacups".. btw im a white pill.
I always assume unless we have had a discussion about being exclusive with each other that it's fair game so I can't really say anything if she is.
You are entitled to your beliefs - no differently than we are also entitled to our beliefs. If our use of slang bothers you, there's always loveshack. I believe I can speak for most when I say that we didn't join this site to make you feel good. We joined to help our fellow brothers.
I don't know brother. Women care about these type of things. And I have had women specifically say "oh don't worry about X I am not worried about it because I have to do Y anyway." And then get burned because I didn't do X. Maybe you are right but if you didn't do anything for Valentine's Day (especially if she thinks she is the ONLY woman you are seeing as you seem to think she does) I bet this rubbed her the wrong way after 5 months.
You have to decide what you are looking for. If she does mean something to you, then have that talk. Whats the worst that could happen, you think you'll push her away. You don't control that. If she cares or has an interest nothing would push her away. If she goes then she wasn't LTR as people say on here... material
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
It really is no more disrespectful than things women say on women's forums about men. They're just words -- slang as @Black Widow Void put it. You still haven't answered the question and that is fine. I am going to assume you are a woman because it makes a lot of sense. You are coming on here to "challenge" all of us on our views and lingo.
Okay "dainty teacup".. is it ok that i call you that? Teacup?
I'm a "cast iron frying pan" yeah that's my label
Uhhh......got it.
How long have you been seeing one another?
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
That's not a welcoming emoji.Uhhh......got it.
Not challenging, voicing an opinion like everyone else.
Almost 5 months.
I honestly don't think that is it.
