Young women vs Older women

rjc149

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What are your thoughts on 32-39 year old childless women?
I’m 36, in that age cohort. I prefer dating women closer to me in age. Not only are women in their 30’s easier to deal with, but I can more easily relate to them. My last two girlfriends were 2-3 years younger than me, both childless.

My issue with dating a single mother would be my inability to understand parenthood and relate to her on that level. My other issue is more primal, I guess, in that they are not appealing long-term prospects to me if they’ve already had children with another man.
 

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At the age of 36 with one child, I managed to get a 26 year old childless blonde out, this last week.

It was the worst experience of my life. Her attitude, conversation skills, and just general aura, had been destroyed by all the online validation she receives, and made her undate-able.

Ive noticed also they are power hungry, they would rather commit to a beta male who moves in their crib. and doesnt give them any hassle whatsoever so they can upload constant selfies etc to their orbiters
I agree with this,not in every case,but in general....can you expand some more on some of the things she said/did,that made you think this ? Be interested to hear
 

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Yes! Dealing with a 24 year old right now who's exactly like this. Her instagram page looks like a softcore pornstar's page, and she's always telling me, "I don't like when you don't do what I ask."

The sex is unbelievable, but I'm starting to wonder if it's all worth it. She also told me the other day in convo that she 'got her ADD medication refilled.'

Dude, that was a brand new revelation. Didn't know that about her.
"I don't like when you don't do what I ask" sounds like a sh*t test.
 

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I agree with this,not in every case,but in general....can you expand some more on some of the things she said/did,that made you think this ? Be interested to hear
noticed all the women who are starting to go out with men below them on SMV? because shes probably got a pad paid for by welfare? so hes just her little toy?

if she has no children whatsoever she will most likely belong to social media.

There jedi's aswell at what they do, to "tease" you. They think their tricks work on ALL males, but they dont they only work on un-accomplished males.

Then they wonder why they can only pull low value men.
 

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There jedi's aswell at what they do, to "tease" you. They think their tricks work on ALL males, but they dont they only work on un-accomplished males.
Cheers,and this,yes
 

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This hypergamous mating strategy is two-sided: "alpha fvcks" ie. fornicating with the strongest males for superior genetic reproduction, and "beta bux" ie. nesting with a more compliant, subservient male for his provisioning ability and long-term security for her offspring.

A feature of this broad-strokes categorization of the female gender is Rollo Tomassi's assertion that women aged 18-23, being the most fertile and sexually attractive, are the only ones with any value to men, and to society. They are also primarily pursuing the "alpha fvcks" mating strategy.

A 37-year old single mother, however, is pursuing the "beta bux" mating strategy. Thus, she is "leftover" and only seeking a beta male to bankroll her and her kids. She is therefore not only completely worthless to society, but partnering with her is self-emasculating.
This is harsh but true. Its funny you mentioned “beta bux” mating strategy.

My theory is men should have only one condition to any woman they marry. The woman cannot cash out. You take this option away, all her power is eliminated. She would then have to treat the beta male like a alpha male, because there is no light at the end of the tunnel for the woman.

On the other hand, I don’t know how men can marry. I’m not Brad Pitt, but once a woman turns 38, she starts to look like a Witch on a bugs bunny cartoon.
 

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Cheers,and this,yes
for instance things like kissing should be reciprocal, there should be no resistance, or "teasing". this one I had to kiss 4 times on the first meet, she was smiling due to being validated.

and another came back to mine later in her "pyjamas" most blue pill men would think game on....

she had no intention of letting me fck, it was all one big Dck tease......
 

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The woman cannot cash out. You take this option away, all her power is eliminated.
Unfortunately it’s very difficult to take this option away, legally, if she stands to benefit financially from divorce. The enforceability and legal effectiveness of prenuptial contracts are highly overrated. A good divorce attorney can easily throw it out, and they all have diminishing enforceability as joint assets are accrued over the course of the marriage, or as the wife becomes less and less employable as a result of dedicating her time to being a homemaker, and is thus unable to replicate the living standards of her married lifestyle on her own income.

An iron-clad prenup requires both parties to have separate legal counsel draw and negotiate a prenuptial contract before marrying. Very romantic. Great way to start happily ever after, with a divorce contract.

The highest likelihood of not getting financially fleeced in a divorce is to marry a woman with similar socioeconomic status, or marry a woman with a lower probability of divorcing (culture, religion, family background etc)
 

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How do I pass this test then?
Don't do what she asks.

The test is to see if you'll do what she asks. If you do, then you're beta, and she'll know to look elsewhere for an alpha. If you make up your own mind and do what you think is right, not what she asks, then she confirms that you're alpha and it's ok to keep sleeping with you.

A sh*t test can also take the form of a statement. She could say your haircut looks funny. If you agree with her and ask her to how to make it better, then you're beta. If you reply that you like your hair the way it is, then you're alpha.

All women do this to men for their entire lives because their biggest existential fear is to sleep with a beta when they could be with an alpha. They can never admit to sh*t testing men or tell them how to be alpha because then it wouldn't count.

Of course, you'd be a complete *sshole if you never tried to make her happy, she just wants you to decide on your own to make her happy. She doesn't want to have to ask you to do it.

In spite of everything that feminism tells them, women still secretly want men to be in charge of relationships. Their social conditioning just makes that even harder to admit these days.
 
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All the confusion and questions on this site are regarding young hot women. Generally dont see men coming on here saying “She is 37 divorced and has one son, what do I do?”

How come men know instinctively know how to act with less attractive or older women, but when they are young and hot, they get confused? Her biology is the same. She is still fertile. He can still have sex with her. Why do men behave differently? It is because her value that has been artificially pumped up by society? She is more in demand? As long he is attracted he is attracted, but hes much more likely to be careful not to screw up with a 26 year old he’s attracted to than a 38 year old he’s attracted to.

Ive done it myself. Will treat older women much worse than younger ones, even though I’m attracted to both and can have kids with both.

Thoughts?

Side point here but perhaps this is a good thing - it splits men into two distinct camps. Those who get suckered into the glitz of young hot women and those who realize they are the same as the older women just in a different chronological context and therefore deserve no pedestaling.

When I interact with younger women ( although im still relatively young myself) it is pretty clear pretty quickly that even if i think they are cute/sexy that only checks one of many boxes in my head and doesnt really impress me much.

after all there is functionally infinite porn so seeing a hot girl costs $0. What else does she have to bring to the table?
 

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Agree with OP
However, most younger women today due to liberal feminism aren't feminine
Older women for all the crap they get (I'm talking 35plus) if you get one that's submissive, cooperative and feminine they will treat you like a king, throw it back for you and all that. I had a 22 year old last year who couldn't cook wouldn't clean and all she was good for was watching anime and spit shining my phallus. These younger women tend to be dull and are heavily indoctrinated in the feminist agenda and have terrible attitudes not all but most
 

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Agree with OP
However, most younger women today due to liberal feminism aren't feminine
Older women for all the crap they get (I'm talking 35plus) if you get one that's submissive, cooperative and feminine they will treat you like a king, throw it back for you and all that. I had a 22 year old last year who couldn't cook wouldn't clean and all she was good for was watching anime and spit shining my phallus. These younger women tend to be dull and are heavily indoctrinated in the feminist agenda and have terrible attitudes not all but most
the puzzle was wack?
 

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All the confusion and questions on this site are regarding young hot women. Generally dont see men coming on here saying “She is 37 divorced and has one son, what do I do?”

How come men know instinctively know how to act with less attractive or older women, but when they are young and hot, they get confused? Her biology is the same. She is still fertile. He can still have sex with her. Why do men behave differently? It is because her value that has been artificially pumped up by society? She is more in demand? As long he is attracted he is attracted, but hes much more likely to be careful not to screw up with a 26 year old he’s attracted to than a 38 year old he’s attracted to.

Ive done it myself. Will treat older women much worse than younger ones, even though I’m attracted to both and can have kids with both.

Thoughts?
37 is fertile? We have a ton of spergs due to granny's having children. Scrambled eggs and rotten.... sounds like a great time to make a kid after pissing away hee fertility.
 

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Personally I find most younger women to be boring and lacking in conversational skills.
I don't disagree with you but I don't care about conversation. 23 over 33 any day. they can't compete. Worse she's entitled and pissed off she can't get the ring after 2 decades of getting the hit and run treatment. Young women are insufferable bitches but my D wont suck itself.
 
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