Bokanovsky
Master Don Juan
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First of all, don't automatically assume that her story about being raped is true. Now I'm not saying that it couldn't be true but it's also possible that it's made up (women make up stories like that for various reasons - to get sympathy, to excuse character flaws, etc.)Currently dating a hot 21 year old, she is amazing in every way but the sack.
She has a lot of anxiety and was raped in the past. We have had good sex in the past (mostly when she is drunk and she doesn’t remember any of it) but she never gives me head or makes the first move. She usually comes onto me when I don’t want it, admitting that the less I want her the more she wants me (not sure if this has something to do with being raped)
I’m getting tired of constantly having to come onto her. It’s literally once every 5 days that she lets me **** her and by the time I do get a chance to bang her I have performance anxiety because she’s not making me feel comfortable. I love the girl and want it to work but not sure how I can make someone less selfish in bed.
oh yeah I’ve tired talking to my fiends about it who suggest I be more “dominant and forceful”. Only little problem is they don’t seem to get it. If I have to ask a girl to suck my **** or touch me it defeats the purpose and immediately turns me off. It’s almost like paying for sexI want her to want to do it on her own.
not sure what to do fellas.
I was once dating a girl who was acting the way your girl does (she never said anything about being raped though). The solution was to act like you don't give a fvck about her. It's weird but some women are just turned on by that. Just like some dudes get turned on by weird sh!t, like being cvcked. There's not much you can do to change that.