I was with my FWB last night and we got a little drunk. We’ve been doing this since late May/June btw. He was holding my hand while in the Uber ride home. We start making out (fully clothed btw) and then he turns to me, looks at me and says, ( I can’t remember if he said just love or in love) “can you just act like you love me for the next few minutes?”. It really threw me off and because we were drunk I thought I heard him incorrectly so I repeated it back to him. He said it again.
Backstory:
We were doing things like going to the beach with his sister, mini golf, picnics, took me out for my bday etc. so I decided to have a talk about what was going on if I’m hanging around his family because the lines seemed to have gotten a little blurred. He said because his life was unstable (he was living out of his car when he was living on the other coast) and he was going to go back. He said he wouldn’t want to put me through the uncertainty of his life because his life is so unstable right now, when I on the other hand have everything grounded. He said it wasn’t about sex for him but we agreed to keep it casual. Which I was cool with because I had gotten of a LTR before this. Then 2 months later he said he liked me a lot and said he didn’t want casual.
Sooo why did he ask for me to act like I loved him? Did he just request for me to act like I love him for an ego stroke? It just seems very odd...
Backstory:
We were doing things like going to the beach with his sister, mini golf, picnics, took me out for my bday etc. so I decided to have a talk about what was going on if I’m hanging around his family because the lines seemed to have gotten a little blurred. He said because his life was unstable (he was living out of his car when he was living on the other coast) and he was going to go back. He said he wouldn’t want to put me through the uncertainty of his life because his life is so unstable right now, when I on the other hand have everything grounded. He said it wasn’t about sex for him but we agreed to keep it casual. Which I was cool with because I had gotten of a LTR before this. Then 2 months later he said he liked me a lot and said he didn’t want casual.
Sooo why did he ask for me to act like I loved him? Did he just request for me to act like I love him for an ego stroke? It just seems very odd...