Girl who schedules you a couple hours later on the same day.

[bat soup]

i understand your answers. i think i was to little in my context. she already did that once to me and i agreed as the beta buck i was. things didnt get better after that. So now i just say we made an agreement and she didnt kept to it, wich i found disrespectfull. Im 30 she is 23. I told her i cant do that time and said we will do this thursday at 13.00. She agreed.

Respect is everything

It sounds to me like she might have low interest, but on the other hand doing the same thing at 3pm instead of 1pm is hardly a big deal. Personally I'd have just agreed to it and tried to escalate on the date as normal, rather than making plans for another day which is even more inconvenient. I'd rather find out today if she's down than wait until Thursday.

 

[Bigpapa]

It sounds to me like she might have low interest, but on the other hand doing the same thing at 3pm instead of 1pm is hardly a big deal. Personally I'd have just agreed to it and tried to escalate on the date as normal, rather than making plans for another day which is even more inconvenient. I'd rather find out today if she's down than wait until Thursday.

If you agree with her reschedule for later it means that you are chasing her . She is more interested in seeing other people before you and even pushes your date in order to this , while you will agree with it .

dates on women’s terms is not a good deal , as she holds all the cards

 

[bat soup]

If you agree with her reschedule for later it means that you are chasing her . She is more interested in seeing other people before you and even pushes your date in order to this , while you will agree with it .

dates on women’s terms is not a good deal , as she holds all the cards

I would agree because 2 hours later hardly makes any difference to me, whilst having to do the same thing all over again on another day is a pain in the ass and she could just flake again. As long as she doesn't pull this last minute or cancel completely I wouldn't be bothered at all.

For all you know, she could actually have tried to reschedule in order to be able to spend more time with the guy and not have other things pending afterwards.

 

[Bigpapa]

I would agree because 2 hours later hardly makes any difference to me, whilst having to do the same thing all over again on another day is a pain in the ass and she could just flake again. As long as she doesn't pull this last minute or cancel completely I wouldn't be bothered at all.

For all you know, she could actually have tried to reschedule in order to be able to spend more time with the guy and not have other things pending afterwards.

the op mentioned that she had low interest from the get go , as they dated for a while and they Broked due her low interest level

 

[bat soup]

the op mentioned that she had low interest from the get go , as they dated for a while and they Broked due her low interest level

That's another issue then. Generally speaking, low interest women are not worth dealing with.

 

[darksprezzatura]

@Warpal
Too many guys in this thread are concerned about what she thinks about you and how you might appear to her.

That's a completely useless exercise. So what if she thinks you're butthurt or neurotic? She may hate your guts because you wore a green sweater, we have absolutely no idea.

Remember guys, what a woman or anyone thinks about you is absolutely none of your business.

Speak your truth and own it. The more effortless you can make this for yourself the better. Imo it sounds like low interest. Personally I don't reschedule on the same day, it throws my schedule off and you're right, it shows disrespect.

If she reschedules for the same day I'd simply say 'No I'm busy then, but I might be free later in the week.' I would let her put the effort in of rescheduling since she's the one breaking the date.

Or I might tell her where I'll be and what I'll be doing at her proposed time, basically saying 'I'm not going out of my way for you at that time, but you are free to come seduce me.'

If she doesn't reschedule or tag along with whatever I'm doing at her rescheduled time then bullet dodged, precious time saved. This is my personal style. Some guys don't mind chasing and rescheduling a million times. I do.

Gold

 

[Georgepithyou]

sometimes you have to go through this sh1t to get the p8ssy .

but for sure if you put more effort than “come to my place “ for sure you are not respecting yourself

No poosey is worth a mans self respect

 

[Bigpapa]

No poosey is worth a mans self respect

yes , but I think that people here are super sensitive and over exaggerate things .

This is way I say that first you have to accept that women will be a little bit tougher to you so they can test how you really are .

if She continue being rude or disrespectful after you brush off this a couple of times ( as it might be a test ) then you can put her to her place and walk away