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Master Don Juan
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Haven't had a new thing in months because I have to rely on Tinder and Bumble trash...
Haven't had a new thing in months because I have to rely on Tinder and Bumble trash...
Yeah but Tinder sucks. I'm a good looking guy and all but I've had a decent number of girls assume I'm fake and their interest just fades away when I try to set something up to hang out and meet up.This is one period of time where online dating should be your primary method of meeting women.
Bars aren’t the same. Nobody is mingling at bars right now, you kind of just stay around your group. Understandably so.
Take that as a complimentYeah but Tinder sucks. I'm a good looking guy and all but I've had a decent number of girls assume I'm fake and their interest just fades away when I try to set something up to hang out and meet up.
Not a happy time for me.
Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.
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The women you would find at bars/out and about are on those apps too. Let's not be delusional.Title.
Haven't had a new thing in months because I have to rely on Tinder and Bumble trash...
Not doing it right.Title.
Haven't had a new thing in months because I have to rely on Tinder and Bumble trash...
100% agreed but due to the algorithm, most guys are not even showing up on the girls radar. As in, she doesn't see OPs pics because of a 1/10 app rating. Combine it with the females entitlement in 2020. Unless he boosts via £££ he doesn't even get viewed especially by girls he wants. The setup is not ideal. I am not saying don't use it but it definitely shouldn't be the only funnel.The women you would find at bars/out and about are on those apps too. Let's not be delusional.
^^^^this^^^^If I were single I'd be doing more approaches in stores, even with masks on. All you have to base her on is her body, so it's not all bad. Might be fun not revealing each others face until the first date.
At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.
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Quality problem to have, dude. I have resorted to filters and apps to make me look better.Yeah but Tinder sucks. I'm a good looking guy and all but I've had a decent number of girls assume I'm fake and their interest just fades away when I try to set something up to hang out and meet up.
Not a happy time for me.
lol at this.....thanks for the laugh OPYeah but Tinder sucks. I'm a good looking guy and all but I've had a decent number of girls assume I'm fake and their interest just fades away when I try to set something up to hang out and meet up.
Not a happy time for me.
Why do that to yourself. There's a better Use of time. A series of stories that involve the same experiment are everywhere. Note, 5s & 6s are coming. Women looking to optimise vjj and piss away youth. The ROI is garbage. 3 approaches a day. Source on apps periodically just cause but don't make it your best source of acquisition. Fellas like Denton aka Karisma king or James Tusk got game and are attractive. Aesthetics and game is money.Quality problem to have, dude. I have resorted to filters and apps to make me look better.
I doubt you're "too" good looking though. I created a fake profile with a pro model, and 5-6's were delusional enough to think they had a shot at the guy. He was absolutely inundated with girls opening. Pretty jealous of him tbh, haha.
If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.
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This is where I think Tinder can hurt some people's real life game. When you are inundated with matches with 6s and 7s you can start to think that those girls are your level, especially when a lot of the really hot girls just use it for validation and rarely message back when you match. I used Tinder a lot last year and went out a lot too, and the quality of women I was pulling IRL was significantly higher than online, and I have good photos and am considered good looking.Quality problem to have, dude. I have resorted to filters and apps to make me look better.
I doubt you're "too" good looking though. I created a fake profile with a pro model, and 5-6's were delusional enough to think they had a shot at the guy. He was absolutely inundated with girls opening. Pretty jealous of him tbh, haha.
Problem is I live in Delaware, we have very few options for going out and none of them are particularly close. I feel like it would be pretty lame to just drive 20 minutes to a busy street and just walk up and down it trying to find girls to talk to. I did that kinda stuff at the mall when I was first learning to talk to girls, and while it worked once it wasn't really worth the time investment.Night time street game in bar areas is good if you are comfortable doing street approaches. You're right, bars are hopeless now. What I've found interesting, where I am in Sydney, are there are huge groups of girls on Girls Nights Out sitting at big tables, looking bored as hell, and giving out strong IOI's.
I would if it weren't getting in the way of me meeting some women. I don't know how many truly think that since the amount that have TOLD me this is relatively small. But for every one that tells me they think I'm fake there's probably another 3-5 that swipe left because they assume it.Take that as a compliment
They are but my strength is that I don't care about rejection so I can go up and talk to anyone and usually make a night out of it. The girls on Tinder and Bumble are largely there for validation or to try to get simps to follow them on Instagram or pay them on Venmo. I remember standing in line at the bar once and this girl was talking to her girlfriends about how she matched with a guy she didn't like because she just wanted to see if he liked her. It might be the same people but it's definitely not the same thing...The women you would find at bars/out and about are on those apps too. Let's not be delusional.
This. Yeah I know how Tinder is. I have extremely low expectations and rather high standards. I'm not willing to pay for it either. I'm just disappointed because my strength (approaching) is pretty much taken away from me since the only places I really met women were out at the bars here. Delaware is pretty lame in that respect. And even with the college towns right now UD is just having everything online and people just sit in their dorms.100% agreed but due to the algorithm, most guys are not even showing up on the girls radar. As in, she doesn't see OPs pics because of a 1/10 app rating. Combine it with the females entitlement in 2020. Unless he boosts via £££ he doesn't even get viewed especially by girls he wants. The setup is not ideal. I am not saying don't use it but it definitely shouldn't be the only funnel.
I know I'm a good looking guy, but I agree that I'm probably not "impossible" good looking, I'm just saying I've had some girls voice suspicion about me because they think I'm a catfish or fake. That being said, I don't get a lot of openers because I'm picky with my matches. Statistically guys swipe right on like 40% of women I think they said? I swipe right on maybe 5%.Quality problem to have, dude. I have resorted to filters and apps to make me look better.
I doubt you're "too" good looking though. I created a fake profile with a pro model, and 5-6's were delusional enough to think they had a shot at the guy. He was absolutely inundated with girls opening. Pretty jealous of him tbh, haha.
Not sure what's funny, but you're welcome.lol at this.....thanks for the laugh OP
I don't want to quote both your replies so I'll respond to this one. I agree with the point on 6s and 7s...I have a friend who's crushing it, but I wouldn't swipe on half the girls he's banging. I think I have pretty high standards and I don't like to let them go just for some booty. My results IRL are also generally better because I'm looking at what I'm interested in rather than hoping the person online is who I hope they are.This is where I think Tinder can hurt some people's real life game. When you are inundated with matches with 6s and 7s you can start to think that those girls are your level, especially when a lot of the really hot girls just use it for validation and rarely message back when you match. I used Tinder a lot last year and went out a lot too, and the quality of women I was pulling IRL was significantly higher than online, and I have good photos and am considered good looking.
I've done the same thing in the past and just recently on several sites, including a couple of Christian ones. I copied my profile word from word, and used stock photos of 8-9 guy. I had 6's and below messaging, where-as with my profile none. But then again, I'm average myself, I and am a fat fuk right now. I need to get in shape. But it was interesting seeing who flocked to that profile and how the women initiated contact.Quality problem to have, dude. I have resorted to filters and apps to make me look better.
I doubt you're "too" good looking though. I created a fake profile with a pro model, and 5-6's were delusional enough to think they had a shot at the guy. He was absolutely inundated with girls opening. Pretty jealous of him tbh, haha.
Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.
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