I pretty much devoted my time to 22-23 years in the study. So never knew much about the girl. So, I have been a typical beta guy. I wasted my 2 years on the first girl without any physical intimacy thinking she liked me. After that 2-3 unsuccessful attempts, I started to read about PUA and the red pill. I tried PUA techniques approached around 50-60 girls without much success.
I would say I have failed too many times with women. I have been to dates with a fair amount of women like 10-15. Thinking that the girl likes me it never turns out to anything physical. After that, I came to realize I have wasted too much time chasing girls. I literally don't want to do anything with them.
But the problem I am facing I don't know how to handle it.
I feel when I ignore women they try to chase me. It happened with me 2-3 times. I go to the gym daily. I go to the library daily (pursuing a master's in computer science). I don't try to even look at any girls. But there are always a few girls like in the library or in the gym they seem to want to talk to me. In the library, this girl always comes whenever I go to the library and sit at the counter. She smiles whenever I look at her. She is a girl I know she will never talk to me directly. But she always acts in such a way that I will talk to her. And it already happening. We are already started saying hello to each other.
The same things happen in the Gym. I have literally ignored the girl countless times but still, she seems to want to talk to me.
Now I don't want to get involved. I don't have any interest of becoming either friend or anything with these girls becuase so far I had bad experience with women. I want to focus on my study. But somehow I get entangled with these girls. They take all the attention from me without giving me anything in return.
My question is How to ignore these girls? I have tried to ignore them countless times. I can't stop going to library or gym. But whenever I go to library she is always there. She even has a boyfriend so I don't even know why she is doing it.
I would say I have failed too many times with women. I have been to dates with a fair amount of women like 10-15. Thinking that the girl likes me it never turns out to anything physical. After that, I came to realize I have wasted too much time chasing girls. I literally don't want to do anything with them.
But the problem I am facing I don't know how to handle it.
I feel when I ignore women they try to chase me. It happened with me 2-3 times. I go to the gym daily. I go to the library daily (pursuing a master's in computer science). I don't try to even look at any girls. But there are always a few girls like in the library or in the gym they seem to want to talk to me. In the library, this girl always comes whenever I go to the library and sit at the counter. She smiles whenever I look at her. She is a girl I know she will never talk to me directly. But she always acts in such a way that I will talk to her. And it already happening. We are already started saying hello to each other.
The same things happen in the Gym. I have literally ignored the girl countless times but still, she seems to want to talk to me.
Now I don't want to get involved. I don't have any interest of becoming either friend or anything with these girls becuase so far I had bad experience with women. I want to focus on my study. But somehow I get entangled with these girls. They take all the attention from me without giving me anything in return.
My question is How to ignore these girls? I have tried to ignore them countless times. I can't stop going to library or gym. But whenever I go to library she is always there. She even has a boyfriend so I don't even know why she is doing it.