Women and their poor choices..

[R.U.G.]

I was at the market the other day, donning my n95 mask and gloves along with my own bags to get some food to cook. Low and behold and ex-gif from a few years past comes by. She took a doubt take, but I recall the face even with the mask quite well. She turned back and said excuse me, I said yes, her name. I thought it was you. How are you, what's going on? All is good and I saw she also had her child with her. Couldn't be more than a year or so. I said I see you have a little one. Congrats, I hope you and your fam are doing okay during this crisis. She said, no, she's a single mom. My fam is helping me raise this little guy. I said, I see. Well, I wished her well and only the best for her and her little guy, and then went on my way. Man, it amazes me how some women make just really poor choices. She's 36 now I believe, we dated when she was 30/31. Still looks the same, but just, I don't know why she'd select this path in life.

Her (original) pros:
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Educated as a math and science teacher, with tenure.
Owned her own condo.
Good with money (yes, amazing, I know).
Incredibly attractive and I thought had family values.
Has younger married sister who had a child just when we started dating way back when.
Solid family with mom and dad still married.

Her cons:
=======
She selected single motherhood over family.
She's was a Hillary supporter, so probably very liberal.
Now is bringing up a child in a broken home.
Parent's raised two daughters, now raising a third grandson from their oldest daughter.

Just amazes me some of the decisions women make these days.

 

[CopperHead]

Why did you guys break up?

 

[lamath]

I was at the market the other day, donning my n95 mask and gloves along with my own bags to get some food to cook. Low and behold and ex-gif from a few years past comes by. She took a doubt take, but I recall the face even with the mask quite well. She turned back and said excuse me, I said yes, her name. I thought it was you. How are you, what's going on? All is good and I saw she also had her child with her. Couldn't be more than a year or so. I said I see you have a little one. Congrats, I hope you and your fam are doing okay during this crisis. She said, no, she's a single mom. My fam is helping me raise this little guy. I said, I see. Well, I wished her well and only the best for her and her little guy, and then went on my way. Man, it amazes me how some women make just really poor choices. She's 36 now I believe, we dated when she was 30/31. Still looks the same, but just, I don't know why she'd select this path in life.

Her (original) pros:
==============
Educated as a math and science teacher, with tenure.
Owned her own condo.
Good with money (yes, amazing, I know).
Incredibly attractive and I thought had family values.
Has younger married sister who had a child just when we started dating way back when.
Solid family with mom and dad still married.

Her cons:
=======
She selected single motherhood over family.
She's was a Hillary supporter, so probably very liberal.
Now is bringing up a child in a broken home.
Parent's raised two daughters, now raising a third grandson from their oldest daughter.

Just amazes me some of the decisions women make these days.

Emotionally driven decision making, in other word what feel good now.

Women are sheep and easily influence by things like feminism and media, making them believe that short term gratification is all thats needed.

 

[Hal9000]

Women have kids in order to feel loved by someone. Its pathetic but true. Its easier than having to actually try getting along with a man who probably isn't a Hillary supporting self loathing simp.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Emotionally driven decision making, in other word what feel good now.

Women are sheep and easily influence by things like feminism and media, making them believe that short term gratification is all thats needed.

But they are at war. So they don't view as sheep. I don't fully hate their system. Because it can be a huge asset if they used itto protect and serve the man whose part of her household. They usually use it to hobble and control that man.

 

[AttackFormation]

Women have kids in order to feel loved by someone. Its pathetic but true. Its easier than having to actually try getting along with a man who probably isn't a Hillary supporting self loathing simp.

That assumes there was any planning, let alone any sound planning, for why someone had kids... but I think in many cases it's just a result of carelessness and lack of planning. That's how I was conceived for example lol.

 

[lamath]

But they are at war. So they don't view as sheep. I don't fully hate their system. Because it can be a huge asset if they used itto protect and serve the man whose part of her household. They usually use it to hobble and control that man.

You see the irony there?
They are at war because they are sheep and cant think for themselves so they believe the feminism and media bs.
If its on tv it must be true

 

[Robert28]

I would care a lot less about women’s stupid decisions if they didn’t effect me too.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You see the irony there?
They are at war because they are sheep and cant think for themselves so they believe the feminism and media bs.
If its on tv it must be true

A woman recently said that until the "wage inequity" is cured that woman shouldn't have to serve in the draft. It blows my mind because HR won't allow a "wage inequity" for the same job position.

Google.com recently ran a salary survey on their own company and they found that for each position, women made slightly more. And my thought is in most companies it is similar because they are fearful of being labeled....

For some of them to be still using these old positions that are untrue just is crazy.

 

[CBear]

Life takes care of itself. If someone is deserving of lets say being a single parent, such as in your example, life will inevitably make that happen based on that person's decisions. If someone works hard, is positive, and learns from past experiences, life will lead that person to where they deserve to be. Goes both ways. A guy that ignores big red flags and tries to make things work for any reason despite a bad past, worsening behavior, etc. deserves whats coming to him.

 

[lamath]

A woman recently said that until the "wage inequity" is cured that woman shouldn't have to serve in the draft. It blows my mind because HR won't allow a "wage inequity" for the same job position.

Google.com recently ran a salary survey on their own company and they found that for each position, women made slightly more. And my thought is in most companies it is similar because they are fearful of being labeled....

For some of them to be still using these old positions that are untrue just is crazy.

Completely true,but too much logic for some especially if media and other women tell them otherwise.

Ive notice women more than men around here dont hesitate to take time off if they feel like it. If those time off are not paid it will affect their annual income. Work less= less money duhhh

 

[Robert28]

Life takes care of itself. If someone is deserving of lets say being a single parent, such as in your example, life will inevitably make that happen based on that person's decisions. If someone works hard, is positive, and learns from past experiences, life will lead that person to where they deserve to be. Goes both ways. A guy that ignores big red flags and tries to make things work for any reason despite a bad past, worsening behavior, etc. deserves whats coming to him.

I don’t know if it’s always that men ignore the red flags as much as it’s women that have adapted to hiding them better. Say for instance, women will wait to friendzone you after they get you to invest in them because they know it makes it harder to walk away. They have adapted to make their mind games and weird behavior more believable to someone that isn’t full blown mgtow or red pilled.

 

[Xenom0rph]

You made the right call to go on your way..... Just think, when hyper-inflation hits in about 8 months and the cost of raising a kid goes up, she's gonna try to rope in some poor SIMP to help her support the kid.....

 

[R.U.G.]

Why did you guys break up?

Life takes care of itself. If someone is deserving of lets say being a single parent, such as in your example, life will inevitably make that happen based on that person's decisions. If someone works hard, is positive, and learns from past experiences, life will lead that person to where they deserve to be. Goes both ways. A guy that ignores big red flags and tries to make things work for any reason despite a bad past, worsening behavior, etc. deserves whats coming to him.

You made the right call to go on your way..... Just think, when hyper-inflation hits in about 8 months and the cost of raising a kid goes up, she's gonna try to rope in some poor SIMP to help her support the kid.....

Her parents didn't like me, which is weird as most parents do/did. Two, she wanted marriage, I refused, but was open to other cohabitation options. She wanted three kids, I would max out at two. So, we went our separate ways. She circled back a few weeks later, I stayed silent, as I never take the trash back into the house.

I am glad to see she stuck to her lorals. hehehe.

 

[R.U.G.]

I don’t know if it’s always that men ignore the red flags as much as it’s women that have adapted to hiding them better. Say for instance, women will wait to friendzone you after they get you to invest in them because they know it makes it harder to walk away. They have adapted to make their mind games and weird behavior more believable to someone that isn’t full blown mgtow or red pilled.

Not too sure about that. I've walked away when I knew it was over or not to proceed from many women. I guess it can also be considered to a man's conditioning. Women are nice to have, and for me to get sex, not an issue usually, but I do not need a woman. I've often times thought of just going through the legal route of getting a surrogate and having my own children w/o the BS of a woman's input. When it comes down to brass taxi, women are really only needed for sex and procreation. After that, they can become more annoying to keep around. I do not like that they do not think things through. Yea, it can be said that they start to think things through in their later years, but that does little for the women in their 20's and 30's. Looking back on their life in their 40's and beyond is irrelevant in most cases.

 

[lamath]

Her parents didn't like me, which is weird as most parents do/did. Two, she wanted marriage, I refused, but was open to other cohabitation options. She wanted three kids, I would max out at two. So, we went our separate ways. She circled back a few weeks later, I stayed silent, as I never take the trash back into the house.

I am glad to see she stuck to her lorals. hehehe.

This tells you all you need to know about her.
Bad judgement and decision making not good for ltr

 

[CBear]

I don’t know if it’s always that men ignore the red flags as much as it’s women that have adapted to hiding them better. Say for instance, women will wait to friendzone you after they get you to invest in them because they know it makes it harder to walk away. They have adapted to make their mind games and weird behavior more believable to someone that isn’t full blown mgtow or red pilled.

That's why you don't invest in them, especially early on, unless you're truly getting what you want in return. It's not hard to see through the behavior. The hard part is being honest with yourself about what's going on and what intentions are. And regardless, the guard should never be let down. If strange behavior strikes, the action of walking away should come as an instinct.

 

[logicallefty]

A woman recently said that until the "wage inequity" is cured that woman shouldn't have to serve in the draft. It blows my mind because HR won't allow a "wage inequity" for the same job position.

Google.com recently ran a salary survey on their own company and they found that for each position, women made slightly more. And my thought is in most companies it is similar because they are fearful of being labeled....

For some of them to be still using these old positions that are untrue just is crazy.

I’ve never done any research or thought much about the alleged wage gap. But what I have seen with my own eyes, many times, is women in positions that they are not qualified to be in. Particularly management. In IT This phenomenon is in every shop pretty much. Women cannot handle it in the Technical trenches so they become management managing people. People Doing things and having skills that they do not have a freaking clue about. I mean these women don’t even understand the bare basics of what’s going on, zero!! Yet some simp promoted them when he should have fired them. So the way I see it they are way overpaid, because they should be cleaning the toilets for $12 an hour and not managing departments for $120k a year!

 

[sosousage]

I was at the market the other day, donning my n95 mask and gloves along with my own bags to get some food to cook. Low and behold and ex-gif from a few years past comes by. She took a doubt take, but I recall the face even with the mask quite well. She turned back and said excuse me, I said yes, her name. I thought it was you. How are you, what's going on? All is good and I saw she also had her child with her. Couldn't be more than a year or so. I said I see you have a little one. Congrats, I hope you and your fam are doing okay during this crisis. She said, no, she's a single mom. My fam is helping me raise this little guy. I said, I see. Well, I wished her well and only the best for her and her little guy, and then went on my way. Man, it amazes me how some women make just really poor choices. She's 36 now I believe, we dated when she was 30/31. Still looks the same, but just, I don't know why she'd select this path in life.

Her (original) pros:
==============
Educated as a math and science teacher, with tenure.
Owned her own condo.
Good with money (yes, amazing, I know).
Incredibly attractive and I thought had family values.
Has younger married sister who had a child just when we started dating way back when.
Solid family with mom and dad still married.

Her cons:
=======
She selected single motherhood over family.
She's was a Hillary supporter, so probably very liberal.
Now is bringing up a child in a broken home.
Parent's raised two daughters, now raising a third grandson from their oldest daughter.

Just amazes me some of the decisions women make these days.

its funny how people blame single mothers but is it their fault for not knowing whether dad will leave them or not?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I’ve never done any research or thought much about the alleged wage gap. But what I have seen with my own eyes, many times, is women in positions that they are not qualified to be in. Particularly management. In IT This phenomenon is in every shop pretty much. Women cannot handle it in the Technical trenches so they become management managing people. People Doing things and having skills that they do not have a freaking clue about. I mean these women don’t even understand the bare basics of what’s going on, zero!! Yet some simp promoted them when he should have fired them. So the way I see it they are way overpaid, because they should be cleaning the toilets for $12 an hour and not managing departments for $120k a year!

In some management styles they PREFER that management don't know what's going on under neath them. They need to ensure head count, and that work is being done. They don't want them knowing alot of the details of the jobs.