A friend of mine (45) just got dumped for the second time by the same girl (around the same age). They were dating for about 9 months. Traveled to quite a few places. Girl is cute, built, fun, outgoing and honestly one of the most intelligent women that I have ever encountered. Sharp witted, multilingual, great job and plays pretty much any musical instrument that you could put in front of her. Unfortunately, I could also tell that she was not a keeper. With all of the positives, I could also tell that she was a party girl.
He got jealous of her at one point and the argument ended in a break up. I run into them together a week or so later out partying, having gotten back together. She had taken a strong liking to me and I kept myself in bros before hoes mode to avoid any issue with my friend. So, later that night she confirmed what I thought. I was sitting back to the bar and she comes up to talk to me. As we talked and joked, she was literally humping and grinding on my knee. I re positioned and brought someone else close by into the conversation to defuse things.
I saw him again and they had broken up and gotten back together yet again. He was telling me that she said that there is no way that he loves her, she is the biggest slut of a woman that he would ever meet and she can't believe the nice things that he does for her are genuine. He had replied that he could do her *ss if that's what she wanted and he is just a nice guy. He actually is one of the nicest people that I know. He won't go out of his way to please people, but is generous, considerate and would help anyone in need in an instant. I consider him a solid friend.
Fast forward to last week. I run into him and he tells me that they just broke up with tears in his eyes, saying that he loved her. Later he tells me that he needs a friend to talk with and suggests that we get together for a few beers. I know what I'm going to hear. The question is: Do I tell him the REAL situation (she is a party girl, not good for him and she was humping my leg) or do I just keep my mouth shut and let him vent? I have seen situations where friendships ended over this kind of stuff.
He got jealous of her at one point and the argument ended in a break up. I run into them together a week or so later out partying, having gotten back together. She had taken a strong liking to me and I kept myself in bros before hoes mode to avoid any issue with my friend. So, later that night she confirmed what I thought. I was sitting back to the bar and she comes up to talk to me. As we talked and joked, she was literally humping and grinding on my knee. I re positioned and brought someone else close by into the conversation to defuse things.
I saw him again and they had broken up and gotten back together yet again. He was telling me that she said that there is no way that he loves her, she is the biggest slut of a woman that he would ever meet and she can't believe the nice things that he does for her are genuine. He had replied that he could do her *ss if that's what she wanted and he is just a nice guy. He actually is one of the nicest people that I know. He won't go out of his way to please people, but is generous, considerate and would help anyone in need in an instant. I consider him a solid friend.
Fast forward to last week. I run into him and he tells me that they just broke up with tears in his eyes, saying that he loved her. Later he tells me that he needs a friend to talk with and suggests that we get together for a few beers. I know what I'm going to hear. The question is: Do I tell him the REAL situation (she is a party girl, not good for him and she was humping my leg) or do I just keep my mouth shut and let him vent? I have seen situations where friendships ended over this kind of stuff.
