FJA
Don Juan
No, 10 minutes by car, she told this, as far as I know her from the past (we were co-workers, many years a go), what she says is trueYou SEE these men going to her house and visiting her? Does she live that close to you?
No, 10 minutes by car, she told this, as far as I know her from the past (we were co-workers, many years a go), what she says is trueYou SEE these men going to her house and visiting her? Does she live that close to you?
Yeah that's what I'm going to do, she was absolutely cold when I was at her place when she asked if I could repair something in her home. And I don't want to go there, do repair work, and when I leave, another guy who she is dating comes to her.To me this is pretty cut and dried.
Do nothing, and if she contacts you again, ask her out. Escalate sexually. If she gets on board, great. If not, delete the number
Yes I was there, when I walked out she asked me for the repair, but while I was there and even flirting with her, she was cold.Wait, you were already at her house alone with her when she asked you this??? Did I miss this detail earlier? Because it is a very important one.
Then yeah I wouldn't bother then.
Cold means she was using you. Don't hang around her.Yes I was there, when I walked out she asked me for the repair, but while I was there and even flirting with her, she was cold.
I remember fixing a door for some gal - it was a rental, but she had this amazing shoe rack that was on the door that was so heavy that it made the door sag. Yes, she "paid" me for the work.Years a go I met a woman I like at my work. Last month we restarted contact and we met, in ¨dating-terms¨ yesterday (after a short meeting 3 weeks a go). No kissing yesterday and of course also no s**, she spoke about other men she´s going to see, I don´t care since I´m seeing other women. When I left she asked me if I can do some repair in her house. I didn´t answer, I was already late and in a hurry.
What would you do / tell her in this case? I never had this situation.
She is calling him a punk. Her "bytch".Oh, well yeah in that case just walk away and don't look back. That's pretty fvcking ballsy of her to pull that $hit.
I will, I already did once with a girl years a go, and she did, high quality, I proposed and she (2 days later) agreedYup, some (especially hot) women's sense of entitlement when it comes to things like this, using men for different non s3xual services are done with no shame whatsoever. But it's really not her fault when thirsty guys have enabled this kind of behavior throughout her life.
I don't let perfectly good pvssy go, but when she's being cold and doesn't respond to my advances in an isolated environment you're wasting your time and have to act accordingly.
When/if she calls, tell her you need her services before you're able to help her. Tell her you need your pipe cleaned from the inside out but you're not sure if she's qualified for the job.
Thats kinda sick that she has other dude swing thru right after you did mechanic work.Yeah that's what I'm going to do, she was absolutely cold when I was at her place when she asked if I could repair something in her home. And I don't want to go there, do repair work, and when I leave, another guy who she is dating comes to her.
That could be reality, so let's make a DJ-law: first sex, and only than we'll help women in their house, with their car, etc. No sex = no facilities from usThats kinda sick that she has other dude swing thru right after you did mechanic work.
Agree. In this DJ world if she's not fvcking you she doesn't exist.That could be reality, so let's make a DJ-law: first sex, and only than we'll help women in their house, with their car, etc. No sex = no facilities from us
my advice bro dont kiss a girl you not having sex with , especially if she aint suckin YO ****.Years a go I met a woman I like at my work. Last month we restarted contact and we met, in ¨dating-terms¨ yesterday (after a short meeting 3 weeks a go). No kissing yesterday and of course also no s**, she spoke about other men she´s going to see, I don´t care since I´m seeing other women. When I left she asked me if I can do some repair in her house. I didn´t answer, I was already late and in a hurry.
What would you do / tell her in this case? I never had this situation.
Well, first mistake was doing favours or any work for her before sex, but what's done is done, and there is no point to cry over spilled milk. But i guess you need some kind of closure with this chick. Scenario number 1. You ghost her and next her, move on with your life - but i am guessing your ego and pride are not very fond of this scenario. Other guys effortlessly won her pus.y, you won well....nothing. In my opinion not much of a closure.That could be reality, so let's make a DJ-law: first sex, and only than we'll help women in their house, with their car, etc. No sex = no facilities from us
And if a good guy try to convince her he's a bad boy, he's nothing above.Women aren't excited with nice guys.
They desire bad guys.
But would marry a good guy.
And if a bad boy happens to also be a good guy, she just hit the jackpot.
And just to confuse you nerds some more, if a good guy is trying to convince a woman he's a good guy, then he's a nice guy.
Let the confusion flow boys....
He'll turn Evil and do evil shiet.And if a good guy try to convince her he's a bad boy, he's nothing above.
Exactly.A nice guy is neither a good man nor a bad boy. More often than not, a "nice guy" is just a creep, too timid to be direct, and thinking he can negotiate what he wants, by denying his intentions, and earning it with favors.
The bad boy should not be confused with a jerk.The real badboy is probably an example of the dark triad, and nothing to aspire to, but the nice guy is just the flip side of the same coin; some psychologists may classify many "nice guys" as vulnerable narcissists.