8/24/19: Pre Classes
Ok screw it. I said I wasn't updating until midterms but I want to do an update. I've been working so. I don't care how long this thing gets as long as I succeed.
In the past 3 days, I've done 9 Approaches and gotten 4 numbers. Doing my 3 a Day, Daygame is fvcking KING. I love this stuff. Honestly it's just about as fun as Night Game to me.
Approaching groups is really tough during the day. I've been trying to talk to groups using situational openers and such. But a lot of the time they would just laugh(cause I said something kinda funny) and then get back to whatever the hell they were doing. Maybe I need to ramble to the whole group more? I kind of feel like a goober rambling to a group during the day for extended periods of time. But maybe that's just my insecurities talking? I make sure to do it in a social way. You all tell me.
You know what'd be a good way for me to get involved and meet some new women? Joining clubs. That's more like social circle game at that point. I will definitely do that.
My challenge to myself was to approach 2 sorority girls at this Welcome Week Convocation that we had today but that was kind of an epic fail. I was out alone, and they were all in different cliquey groups. I absolutely must become comfortable with going out alone. I just psyched myself out I suppose. I should be able to do approaches like this, I'll just go even harder next time.
As for this friendzone bullsh*t that I've been going on about for ages... I came to a realization today. I believe it'd actually be better to use them as social proof and going out due to my own experience. A female friend came out to one of my shows and brought along a hot ass friend. I made sure to number close her. We're playing chess, not checkers here. The females think they're winning in this case by trying to use me for my nonsexual attention, but in the long run, I win. It gives me more opportunities to go out, and therefore approach new women in a social way and get some more Bangs. If she don't wanna fvck, she's dead to me. No use crying over spilt milk. I'll just use them to go places, and therefore meet new women. On top of that, pvssy attracts pvssy.
Regarding going out alone in that huge event in the plaza, I just didn't know what to do with myself. I didn't want to just circle around and randomly approach people. I just didn't really know how to handle myself. If you guys have any tips that would be great, I'll also be watching some videos on this. I'll be going out alone tonight as well cause that skill obviously needs some work.
I was mad at myself about the Daygame sh*t, so I got some Night Approaches in as well.
I'm wondering which method I should use at Night. The Dr. Nerdlove Attraction Plan: Have an opener, neg, build comfort, ramble, and then eventually introduce flirting to build attraction: or the classic Mystery Attraction->Comfort->Seduction? I like how the Mystery Method is very structured. But at the same time, using the Nerdlove Attraction Plan is very freeing and it really gets me out of my head. I remember I tried to do an approach using only M3 and it came off as very stiff, I was limited in what I could say. On the other hand, Mystery Method is an amazing book and it has so many different valid points. I'm thinking that I may just keep using the Nerdlove Method for the freedom but tailor it a bit with info from other PUAs. Like having a standard opI only worry that I may come off as a Nice Guy by starting by building Rapport. I'd like you all's opinions on this if at all possible.
Ok and NOW I'll be gone until Midterms or my 5th Bang lol. Either or.
SIDENOTE:
Also... I'm gaming as a guy who flirts at the moment, but one thing that I want to do for sure is to not come off as too 'Nice.' I'm thinking that I come off as very nice rn. The gym is one way to fix that, but I want to keep working on developing that c0cky, arrogant swag even if I do flirt. It's gonna be the key to getting what I want. Girls are extremely quick to friendzone guys who are "nice." So it's gotta fvcking go. The fastest way I can think of to get rid of the niceness is the Self Improvement. Girls like assh0les, after all.
