Men have to prove they are worth it to women.

[Trump]

Ok, so what does it mean when a guy invests in a girl, she burns him and he decides that in the future he’s just going to use girls for sex?

It doesn’t mean anything. It’s lesson learned for the guy. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.

The girl he treats that way, knowing that he treated other girls better in the past, what should she think of that?

She should think “ok, if I want him not to just use me for sex, I should go find the girl who burned him and have her apologize to him and admit she did wrong.”

 

[Spaz]

The burden of performance will always be with men. Most women feel this way... this one just admits it.

The way you counter this is not to worship women. Go ahead and be the best man you can, not to get chicks, but because that is the best way for a man to go through life and really the only thing that brings you long term happiness. The positive side-effect to chicks will find you.

Very clever Mike.

And very true.

 

[AJ84]

It doesn’t mean anything. It’s lesson learned for the guy. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.



She should think “ok, if I want him not to just use me for sex, I should go find the girl who burned him and have her apologize to him and admit she did wrong.”

I assume you’re being sarcastic lol. In reality she would just go find a guy who treats her better.

 

[Robert28]

I assume you’re being sarcastic lol. In reality she would just go find a guy who treats her better.

Lol no she wouldn’t. Well, maybe she would but she’d “let’s just be friends” him after a couple months of fake dating to get him hooked on her. Then she’s got all the attention she needs, a new orbiter buying her things and taking her out and spending money on her until Chad comes along again. Women aren’t fooling anyone, they don’t want anyone to “treat them better”. Not today’s women anyways.

 

[Poonani Maker]

 

[AJ84]

Lol no she wouldn’t. Well, maybe she would but she’d “let’s just be friends” him after a couple months of fake dating to get him hooked on her. Then she’s got all the attention she needs, a new orbiter buying her things and taking her out and spending money on her until Chad comes along again. Women aren’t fooling anyone, they don’t want anyone to “treat them better”. Not today’s women anyways.

I have to disagree with you there. Yes. Some women may prefer the douchbag treatment, but most women prefer not to be used, like most guys prefer the same I would imagine.

Women who prefer being treated like that tend to be women who in turn treat men badly. They are also not likely to appreciate decent men. Water seems it own level, that’s a phrase that’s been repeated here, and for good reason.

I really do feel that the average, normal, decent man and women prefers to be with someone who isn’t going to hurt them.

 

[Robert28]

I have to disagree with you there. Yes. Some women may prefer the douchbag treatment, but most women prefer not to be used, like most guys prefer the same I would imagine.

Women who prefer being treated like that tend to be women who in turn treat men badly. They are also not likely to appreciate decent men. Water seems it own level, that’s a phrase that’s been repeated here, and for good reason.

I really do feel that the average, normal, decent man and women prefers to be with someone who isn’t going to hurt them.

I know women want guys who aren’t going to hurt them, those are the same men they give the “let’s be friends” line too. Who women date and who they “let’s be friends” are two different types of men. Women want to date men that cause drama in their lives because they confuse it with excitement. They don’t want stability and anytime you hear a woman say “I feel safe and comfortable with you”, prepare yourself to be friends with her cause that’s all you’re going to be. They don’t date “safe and comfortable”.

 

[Vice]

Look at her bio:

Andrea is a Thirty-Something freelance writer living in the suburbs of Vancouver, Canada with her ridiculous ginger tabby, Jagger. She first discovered her passion for writing at the age of 10 when she began filling notebooks with poetry. She's a cliche lover of wine, sushi, all things Parisian and spiking her coffee with Baileys.

She's past her prime, not a lot of guys who are looking for relationships want her, so she flips it around and makes it sound like her noble choice.

Kind of like red pill mgtow types...

Agreed. The bio also betrays her deathly boring and predictable personality. My interaction with her would consist of me putting on a thin veneer of friendliness and interest while I think about my perpetually college-aged girlfriends.

 

[The Duke]

I don't see where a self-respecting MAN of value would ever entertain a woman like her. This is what she doesn't understand. By putting her pu$$y on a pedestal she filters out some of the best men.

Don't forget women are also famous for making up all of these silly rules to protect themselves from their own bad judgement, then as soon as Mr. Perfect with some charm walks in they quickly forget them.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Quote:



Honestly that article says it all:
She just enjoyed the c0ck carousel way too much and now she's hitting the wall around 30..

Her options is quickly narrowing down and she is therefore more picky about who she dates with and don't want to waste too much of time is left with "Mr.Badboy" because time is ticking and she is still hoping for "Mr.right" (Betabuck) to come along as Captain Save-A-Hoe with with a 6-inch d|ck and 6 figure income to match it, while she takes one of the last rides on the c0ck carousel, while the worrying increases for that she will end up as crazy cat lady.

She prolly is a single mom too, looking for a beta fool to support her and her offspring too.

It's ironic that women doesn't understand how their SMV (sexual market value), decreases by the minute when they hit the wall (Usually by 30 or by just by having kids in the 20'ies drags it down tremendously), and still yet they have their huge "requirement check list for guys" that just haven't decreased, but they added even more although we guys do not want them anymore as their SMV is tanking fast...

Women ages like milk, men matures like fine wine.

It's also the irony of nature that we men have the prerogative here and we usually first hit the wall somewhere around very late 40'tes/mid 50'ties. Even then, many guys have no bigger issues getting chicks in the 20'tes etc. But women will have issues attracting men when the wall hits them and start asking "Where have all the good men gone?"...

Ha ha Quite amusing isn't it?
We all know the answer to that question, don't we brah's?

Anyways; in my opinion chicks like this, can fack off and you should steer away from them. I do and so should you.

Cheers!

 

[Brooks]

They don’t want stability and anytime you hear a woman say “I feel safe and comfortable with you”, prepare yourself to be friends with her cause that’s all you’re going to be. They don’t date “safe and comfortable”.

My girlfriend says she’s doesn’t feel safe with me. Or that she totally trusts me.

 

[Robert28]

My girlfriend says she’s doesn’t feel safe with me. Or that she totally trusts me.

That’s a good thing. I know it sounds bass ackwards but that’s women for you.

 

[dude99]

An article where a girl won’t sleep with you unless you prove you are worth it.

I'm The Girl Who Won't Sleep With You Until You Prove You're Worth It

I'm a grown woman who won't lay down until you show me you're worth it.

www.bolde.com

Does she have a point or is she out to lunch?

The only time a man would have to prove anything to a woman like that is if he was chasing her.

If you know you are the prize you don't need to chase.

If dude is spinning plates he takes this one out of his rotation. Quite simple.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

If you know you are the prize you don't need to chase.

Fuuck yeah brah!

 

[captain55]

At the end of the day you need thick skin in this game. Last week I had a 10 (in the heart of Los Angeles mind you) feeding me oysters at a restaurant kissing my ass, but I know there is a good chance I can go out and get rejected by multiple 7’s tonight.

1. Don’t judge your self worth by how many or what women find you attractive.
2. You need some narcissistic delusion to survive with hot women
3. Stay in shape, dress nice, but most importantly chase money. When you get the money you will have officially arrived. Women will start treating you differently. The Self confidence that comes from being financially successful is unbelievable, end of story. Don’t let any broke guy tell you Otherwise

 

[captain55]

Fuuck yeah brah!

Chasing is fine as long as it comes from a place of true Confidence and not desperation. And if it doesn’t take too much precious time out of your day. If I like a woman I feel entitled to her, she is mine to claim, and I will get her.

 

[Robert28]

At the end of the day you need thick skin in this game. Last week I had a 10 (in the heart of Los Angeles mind you) feeding me oysters at a restaurant kissing my ass, but I know there is a good chance I can go out and get rejected by multiple 7’s tonight.

1. Don’t judge your self worth by how many or what women find you attractive.
2. You need some narcissistic delusion to survive with hot women
3. Stay in shape, dress nice, but most importantly chase money. When you get the money you will have officially arrived. Women will start treating you differently. The Self confidence that comes from being financially successful is unbelievable, end of story. Don’t let any broke guy tell you Otherwise

You’ll learn the hard way NOT to flaunt your money because you’re just asking to attract the wrong types of women.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Honestly, she sounds like someone who got burned before, learned her mistakes, and now has decided to have better judgment and values and developed boundaries so that she can better her chances of having the kind of relationship she wants with men.

Which, if you switch genders, is literally no different than what 95.5% percent of the guys on this site are trying to do after their own bad experiences.

The reality is that both people need to earn it. If she wants his emotional investment, she needs to earn that. Some women think that just giving him sex will lead to his emotional investment and that’s not true, which is blatantly evident from many of the posts on this site. The pump and dump thing goes two ways, it’s not always the guys fault, IMO. And I think the article should have elaborated on that more, rather than make it seem like it’s just a bunch of guys being douchbags.


Like the article says, the guy should stand out among the players, so too should a woman stand out among the other women tindering it up out there.

I don’t agree with her that a woman has to put off sex until he invests in her, because I think part of him wanting to invest involves the sex. So getting to know her personality and getting to know her sexually gives him a better idea of whether she is worthy of his investment. That’s what I think but I’m not a guy so let me know if that’s off.

lol. Looks like things are in danger of going full circle. I wonder if all that traditional stuff about relationships had something to do with reality... worked out over the millennia

 

[captain55]

You’ll learn the hard way NOT to flaunt your money because you’re just asking to attract the wrong types of women.

You have the wrong mindset. A man with money is actually more attractive to the majority of women. Sure some gold diggers are only after the money itself, but most want a high status man.

One thing I will agree on, is to never spend any of it on them. Flash it, but don’t spend it. A girl can see my $7000 Rolex and Mercedes but I’m not taking her to some expensive place until she proves herself

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Most of the sentiments expressed in this thread border on the 'petite bourgeois'. lol