Continue gaming to keep a woman?

[Epic Days]

Again I have been going through the past threads here. There is a theme that I want to address.
“You can’t stop gaming your girlfriend/wife”

Who the fuk came up with this garbage? Some of you passive guys buy into this garbage. Why?

I will tell you why. You use this false information in the hope that you can get good enough to nullify everything in this forum and make everything “glow” right and true in the special relationship you are longing and aching for.

That blue pill programming is rearing its ugly head again. You can not circumvent or nullify her basic instincts. How arrogant and condescending you must be.

The only real solution is understanding the feminine imperative completely and realizing what you are up against. Your only defense is a strategy based on your understanding of her basic nature. There is not one thing you have been raised with that will help you.

Get rid of your fantasies and face and confront the world you were raised in. This world, as it exists, was designed and engineered to reduce you and nullify you into a passive little taxation and resource cuck. A woman’s Cuck.

Your only workable solution is the evolution of that man in you that is idling and waiting. It’s a dragster with a high performance engine just wasting fuel as it sits at the lights. You are going to have to slam the throttle down and stop being a little Peter Pan tip toeing through the tulips deep inside of you.

You don’t Game her in an LTR/marriage. You lead her. What you don’t realize yet, is that you acquire all those skills and thoughts and dynamic abilities are already in you. Unplug for real now.

Get rid of your skirts and ballerina shoes. Stop trying to find those workarounds where you can keep those oh, so precious beliefs and ideas that are so sacred to you and still get little miss adorable in your life.

It doesn’t work. She is going to munch your arse and mangle you like the weak man you are. Weak because of your beliefs not because you are actually weak. It’s disgusting.

 

[Epic Days]

There is something even more important in this condition. The real destructive part to this is that you suppress your rage at living a lie. The mental/spiritual damage you do to yourself.

It’s socially unacceptable to express anger/rage. Another social engineering ploy. If you do blow a gasket, it can be used to show that men are “dangerous”.

You are still trying to work within the imperative. Follow half the rules and thus unplug right up to the point of those precious dream world lies that you are so desperately hanging onto.

Go buy a punching bag and knock the hell out of it. You are destroying yourselves. Your only way out of this is through it. Bear the pain you gutless wonder.
Who told you that you and your feelings are more precious than anyone else’s? What makes your head more valuable? Did mommy tell you that? My mother said the same thing. It’s a lie. You earn your right to keep that head of yours off the chopping block.

 

[SH03C]

Again I have been going through the past threads here. There is a theme that I want to address.
“You can’t stop gaming your girlfriend/wife”

Who the fuk came up with this garbage? Some of you passive guys buy into this garbage. Why?

I will tell you why. You use this false information in the hope that you can get good enough to nullify everything in this forum and make everything “glow” right and true in the special relationship you are longing and aching for.

That blue pill programming is rearing its ugly head again. You can not circumvent or nullify her basic instincts. How arrogant and condescending you must be.

The only real solution is understanding the feminine imperative completely and realizing what you are up against. Your only defense is a strategy based on your understanding of her basic nature. There is not one thing you have been raised with that will help you.

Get rid of your fantasies and face and confront the world you were raised in. This world, as it exists, was designed and engineered to reduce you and nullify you into a passive little taxation and resource cuck. A woman’s Cuck.

Your only workable solution is the evolution of that man in you that is idling and waiting. It’s a dragster with a high performance engine just wasting fuel as it sits at the lights. You are going to have to slam the throttle down and stop being a little Peter Pan tip toeing through the tulips deep inside of you.

You don’t Game her in an LTR/marriage. You lead her. What you don’t realize yet, is that you acquire all those skills and thoughts and dynamic abilities are already in you. Unplug for real now.

Get rid of your skirts and ballerina shoes. Stop trying to find those workarounds where you can keep those oh, so precious beliefs and ideas that are so sacred to you and still get little miss adorable in your life.

It doesn’t work. She is going to munch your arse and mangle you like the weak man you are. Weak because of your beliefs not because you are actually weak. It’s disgusting.

I’m a noob here. Can you explain what blue pill and red pill is? I’ve seen these terms many times but haven’t found a definition..

 

[zekko]

Again I have been going through the past threads here. There is a theme that I want to address.
“You can’t stop gaming your girlfriend/wife”

Who the fuk came up with this garbage? Some of you passive guys buy into this garbage. Why?

I will tell you why. You use this false information in the hope that you can get good enough to nullify everything in this forum and make everything “glow” right and true in the special relationship you are longing and aching for.

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You don’t Game her in an LTR/marriage. You lead her.

I agree with this. I have always said that no matter how good you are, no matter how well you screen, no matter how much you improve yourself, there is NO guarantee, ever, that your relationship will last forever. There is NO guarantee that at some point, she will never decide to get up and leave. Even couples who are married for 50 years can end up divorced.

One problem is the male ego. Guys here think they can learn all the tricks and become so alpha that no woman would ever leave them. This is probably connected to the "confidence" concept. Our testosterone influences us to think that we are the best so that we can go out and woo women who are looking to go home with the best possible mate. But if you listen to your ego, you run the risk of deluding yourself. PUA gurus tell you to have "delusional self confidence", but self deluding can be dangerous too. Especially if you think no woman would ever divorce you, so you go ahead and get married, thinking you're safe.

 

[Epic Days]

I agree with this. I have always said that no matter how good you are, no matter how well you screen, no matter how much you improve yourself, there is NO guarantee, ever, that your relationship will last forever. There is NO guarantee that at some point, she will never decide to get up and leave. Even couples who are married for 50 years can end up divorced.

One problem is the male ego. Guys here think they can learn all the tricks and become so alpha that no woman would ever leave them. This is probably connected to the "confidence" concept. Our testosterone influences us to think that we are the best so that we can go out and woo women who are looking to go home with the best possible mate. But if you listen to your ego, you run the risk of deluding yourself. PUA gurus tell you to have "delusional self confidence", but self deluding can be dangerous too. Especially if you think no woman would ever divorce you, so you go ahead and get married, thinking you're safe.

It is highly not advised to learn pickup before unplugging oneself from the imperative. Then of course, he won’t need pickup.

 

[highSpeed]

There is something even more important in this condition. The real destructive part to this is that you suppress your rage at living a lie. The mental/spiritual damage you do to yourself.

It’s socially unacceptable to express anger/rage. Another social engineering ploy. If you do blow a gasket, it can be used to show that men are “dangerous”.

You are still trying to work within the imperative. Follow half the rules and thus unplug right up to the point of those precious dream world lies that you are so desperately hanging onto.

Go buy a punching bag and knock the hell out of it. You are destroying yourselves. Your only way out of this is through it. Bear the pain you gutless wonder.
Who told you that you and your feelings are more precious than anyone else’s? What makes your head more valuable? Did mommy tell you that? My mother said the same thing. It’s a lie. You earn your right to keep that head of yours off the chopping block.

What really needs to happen is that the feminist controlled state needs to be broken. The feminist controlled state is at the heart of all of the problems with modern society and the west. Until that happens, we're all just p*ssing into the wind. Women have real control at this point. You honestly don't even have to marry them and have kids with them for them to ruin your life anymore. Anyone on here is a metoo moment away from losing their career and possibly even their very freedom.

This is simply socialism/communism and feminism run amok. These feminist soy boys and feminist manly women get off on denying men the ability to actually be and act like men. The very "anger" that they are afraid of, mock and use as an excuse to take away freedoms is the very tool that was used to carve society out of the wilderness. So now that they no longer need that tool, they can dispense with those that have it.

If things don't change soon, society is in for a rude awakening. Most will not make it.

 

[Epic Days]

What a man can do is be the man he was born to be and then some.
There’s nothing wrong with being really mad about the condition and state of our society.
Only men can change futures. Only men can see a single act and how it effects everything.

 

[Pogejr]

Sure, I guess you could say that.

My take: Anger is not the way. You shouldn’t advocate anger. In the end, anger will only destroy you. Anger did not let us “carve out society out of the wilderness.” That’s a lie. Man’s intellect did that. Anger is meant to be overcome.

First seek the kingdom of God in its right way and all shall be added. If you’re not Christian, this means first seek self-actualization then you shall attract what you deserve.

A DJ should not be angry. Anger comes from the realization that you are not in control of your life. You should be in control of your life. Don’t spend your time being angry and hating on women. I love being around women. I didn’t used to because I felt very bad about the fact that I couldn’t get with the ones I liked. But once I started focusing on self growth (and I accepted the lord Jesus as my savior) I realized how much hate I had in my heart. And once I got better (job, personality, outcome independent) things got easier. Women are fickle and hypergamous but so are most men. Knowledge is the way out of the wilderness. This website provides that knowledge in the form of the DJ Bible.

Love women for what they are and nothing else. Don’t project your needs onto them, they can’t and will never live up to them. Enjoy the ride and have fun. And if you do decide to get married, I wish you the best of luck and nothing but happiness.

 

[Epic Days]

Sure, I guess you could say that.

My take: Anger is not the way. You shouldn’t advocate anger. In the end, anger will only destroy you. Anger did not let us “carve out society out of the wilderness.” That’s a lie. Man’s intellect did that. Anger is meant to be overcome.

First seek the kingdom of God in its right way and all shall be added. If you’re not Christian, this means first seek self-actualization then you shall attract what you deserve.

A DJ should not be angry. Anger comes from the realization that you are not in control of your life. You should be in control of your life. Don’t spend your time being angry and hating on women. I love being around women. I didn’t used to because I felt very bad about the fact that I couldn’t get with the ones I liked. But once I started focusing on self growth (and I accepted the lord Jesus as my savior) I realized how much hate I had in my heart. And once I got better (job, personality, outcome independent) things got easier. Women are fickle and hypergamous but so are most men. Knowledge is the way out of the wilderness. This website provides that knowledge in the form of the DJ Bible.

Love women for what they are and nothing else. Don’t project your needs onto them, they can’t and will never live up to them. Enjoy the ride and have fun. And if you do decide to get married, I wish you the best of luck and nothing but happiness.

This is false data and is the feminine imperative communist/socialist agenda.
Anger is as valid as grief or enthusiasm. Suppressing anger is the catalyst for destruction. Taking into account that destruction is not always bad. Destroying a virus that is killing your people is not bad.

Your thoughts are a leftist rational to anger. It promotes suppressing valid emotions. The learning to use anger to get through it and up into higher levels is constructive. Suppressing emotions and not using them as tools is a destructive act.
You’ve been lied to and it’s self evident that it doesn’t work.

 

[Pogejr]

This is false data and is the feminine imperative communist/socialist agenda.
Anger is as valid as grief or enthusiasm. Suppressing anger is the catalyst for destruction. Taking into account that destruction is not always bad. Destroying a virus that is killing your people is not bad.

Your thoughts are a leftist rational to anger. It promotes suppressing valid emotions. The learning to use anger to get through it and up into higher levels is constructive. Suppressing emotions and not using them as tools is a destructive act.
You’ve been lied to and it’s self evident that it doesn’t work.

Suppressing anger is not the same as overcoming it. Also, dismissing my ideas as the feminine imperative is a straw man. You actually didn’t argue against anything I said.

But if you’re content with your anger then I wish you the best of luck.

 

[highSpeed]

I agree with this. I have always said that no matter how good you are, no matter how well you screen, no matter how much you improve yourself, there is NO guarantee, ever, that your relationship will last forever. There is NO guarantee that at some point, she will never decide to get up and leave. Even couples who are married for 50 years can end up divorced.

One problem is the male ego. Guys here think they can learn all the tricks and become so alpha that no woman would ever leave them. This is probably connected to the "confidence" concept. Our testosterone influences us to think that we are the best so that we can go out and woo women who are looking to go home with the best possible mate. But if you listen to your ego, you run the risk of deluding yourself. PUA gurus tell you to have "delusional self confidence", but self deluding can be dangerous too. Especially if you think no woman would ever divorce you, so you go ahead and get married, thinking you're safe.

Couple this with the extreme amount of ruin that can be visited on a man's life with the divorce you mention and this is literally neutering men. Make no mistake, that's generally what women want, a bunch of eunuchs running around servicing their every need and emotion. Then the stud pony comes in and pounds it as they demand, they're happy. Make no other mistake, women don't want a relationship for the most part, they want a yes man. I've only recently woken up over the last few years to these painful, real truths.

 

[highSpeed]

Suppressing anger is not the same as overcoming it. Also, dismissing my ideas as the feminine imperative is a straw man. You actually didn’t argue against anything I said.

But if you’re content with your anger then I wish you the best of luck.

Ok, let's substitute a word if that makes you feel better, aggressiveness. Men carved society out of the wild using aggressiveness. A sub-element of aggressiveness can be anger.

 

[Epic Days]

Suppressing anger is not the same as overcoming it. Also, dismissing my ideas as the feminine imperative is a straw man. You actually didn’t argue against anything I said.

But if you’re content with your anger then I wish you the best of luck.

This is intellectually dishonest. I'm not going to address any of what you said because it is based on a false premise and false underlying foundation. This is a group think aberration.

But I understand why you call it a straw man. I don't recognize your name so I am going to assume you haven't read anything about the biological imperative of women and it's supporting political forces.

I am not happy or sad about any of my past feelings. Anger or otherwise. Until men can express all their emotions freely without crushing suppression slammed onto them, they remain victims and live limited lives. The expression of anger can easily be manifested into high end positive things. So you think that high end achievers don't feel and express anger? They use anger, remorse, enthusiasm and the full range of emotions to achieve.
Steve Jobs use to go in and wreck his own office, sit down and reason things out, then formulate his future actions. He goes up and out of anger into his full expression of advanced creativity. The surest way to get even is to flourish. But that is the exact opposite of where the present agenda wants them to go.

Suppression of this emotion we call anger is EXTREMELY dangerous and is a very poor survival strategy. Men need to embrace it and move on or they get stuck in anger and fighting to keep it under control because the social narrative is suppression of men's assertiveness and drives. Of course it becomes dangerous when its suppressed!!! Duh!!!

Suppressing anger actually drives a man's emotional state down into apathy, lethargy, powerlessness, and all the traits that lead to failure and robotic service to an agenda driven environment. Then it gets diagnosed as depression or starts acting out his anger destructively that leads to prison or drug use or even worse...some idiot treats him for depression with highly engineered mental drugs. The side effects are labelled and advertised. DUH!!! Your think owns the present state of men's affairs.

My interest is men. Not controlling men for nefarious purposes.

 

[Spaz]

It depends how anger is used.

Anger is a double edge sword.

It can be constructive or not.

When anger is used as a means to hate society, social classes, genders etc, it can lead to extremism. This is bad.

When anger is used as a means to right a wrong, such as demonstrating and voicing it for noble causes like fighting against genocide then its constructive. This is good.

 

[soulforge]

I agree with this. I have always said that no matter how good you are, no matter how well you screen, no matter how much you improve yourself, there is NO guarantee, ever, that your relationship will last forever. There is NO guarantee that at some point, she will never decide to get up and leave. Even couples who are married for 50 years can end up divorced.

One problem is the male ego. Guys here think they can learn all the tricks and become so alpha that no woman would ever leave them. This is probably connected to the "confidence" concept. Our testosterone influences us to think that we are the best so that we can go out and woo women who are looking to go home with the best possible mate. But if you listen to your ego, you run the risk of deluding yourself. PUA gurus tell you to have "delusional self confidence", but self deluding can be dangerous too. Especially if you think no woman would ever divorce you, so you go ahead and get married, thinking you're safe.

Perfectly stated.. Its the ego that deludes us into believing she would never pick up and leave..

Obviously I am the BEST man she could ever have!

Sometimes the chick makes you believe you are the greatest thing ever, massaging your already inflatated ego...

When you least expect it, she is fukin gone!

And she was probably a hb6 too... Plus us guys do not like losing.

I guess we need to face reality, that eventually chit will end with her and best to keep the ego in check.

 

[Pogejr]

I’ll list out what I wrote so it’s easier to digest Then maybe you can address it. If not, no worries I don’t really care and won’t spend more time trying to convince you.

1. Men should seek to overcome anger.

What does this mean? Forgive, and don’t be afraid to speak up against evil. Jesus had no anger but he was never afraid to speak up against evil.

2. Society was not carved from anger but rather intellect.

Steve Jobs was smart which is why he was great. His anger and hubris were his downfall, which is why he was kicked out of his own company. His intellect is what allowed him to flourish despite that.

3. First seek the kingdom of God in its right way and all shall be added.

Think we agree here.

4. Don’t spend your time hating on women.

I enjoying being around and spending time with women. I’m familiar with what people call the feminine imperative and sure, but that really shouldn’t matter because if you actually spend time with women you’ll see that most aren’t really that scary. They’re fun to be around if you’re not weak.

5. Love women for what they are.

Don’t expect them to be your mama. In the Bible, the natural order is God-Jesus-Man-Woman-Children. That is the flow of love. And this means that love flows from the man to the woman. If you have hate or anger towards women, you’ll never be successful. Same with any aspect of your life.

Not here to argue but if you’d like me to clarify I’m happy to do so.

 

[Epic Days]

And she was probably a hb6 too... Plus us guys do not like losing.

This is a good point and it's a faulty programming result. This leads directly back to a woman being a higher value than she actually is. As though she is a coveted object men live and die for. He hasn't lost anything.
If he thinks he has lost something of extreme value, THIS is a Feminine Imperative narrative. Women will criticize a man who doesn't feel loss when he kicks her to the curb or he immediately begins to flourish when she bounces. He is suppose to be devastated by the loss of her bag of bones.
Case in point...tell her if she doesn't like something she is free to bounce. She absolutely will not bounce. However, if you plead or act destroyed she leaves with a smile. She has vindicated her value by keeping men where they belong. This is not evil actually. Well, from the viewpoint of men and their idea of decency it is, but she is advancing her survival potential in her hind brain.

This is another damaging mindset crammed into the minds of men. That a woman is so precious that she exists above the world of men. This is faulty thinking. Women are there to bear children. No matter what she does in life, her drive is to bear children...sex...sex...sex. Otherwise there is no reason to ride the carousel.

 

[Epic Days]

I’ll list out what I wrote so it’s easier to digest Then maybe you can address it. If not, no worries I don’t really care and won’t spend more time trying to convince you.

1. Men should seek to overcome anger.

What does this mean? Forgive, and don’t be afraid to speak up against evil. Jesus had no anger but he was never afraid to speak up against evil.

2. Society was not carved from anger but rather intellect.

Steve Jobs was smart which is why he was great. His anger and hubris were his downfall, which is why he was kicked out of his own company. His intellect is what allowed him to flourish despite that.

3. First seek the kingdom of God in its right way and all shall be added.

Think we agree here.

4. Don’t spend your time hating on women.

I enjoying being around and spending time with women. I’m familiar with what people call the feminine imperative and sure, but that really shouldn’t matter because if you actually spend time with women you’ll see that most aren’t really that scary. They’re fun to be around if you’re not weak.

5. Love women for what they are.

Don’t expect them to be your mama. In the Bible, the natural order is God-Jesus-Man-Woman-Children. That is the flow of love. And this means that love flows from the man to the woman. If you have hate or anger towards women, you’ll never be successful. Same with any aspect of your life.

Not here to argue but if you’d like me to clarify I’m happy to do so.

Oh my that's crap. Not only am I not hating on women even a little bit but I am educating men on who and what they are in the world of populating the earth as the bible says. That's what they desire. To BE.

I just can't bear commenting on the rest. That is one of the worse bastardizations of religious dogma that I have ever heard.

 

[Epic Days]

A mass grave containing the bodies of thousands of Buddhist monks killed on the orders of Soviet dictator Josef Stalin has been discovered in western Mongolia, British television reported Tuesday. Here's what happens when warped religious dogma is used to guide the path of men.....they disarm themselves. I actually respect and admire the Buddhist religion.
Communists don't care about any of that. They know dead men have no influence. The meek don't inherit a damn thing.

https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1991-10-23-mn-197-story.html

 

[jaymbrs]

Gotta separate ego and confidence. Figure out that fine line and you and your woman will be happy. Most of my past gfs and my current one have all said at one point that it's my confidence they find annoying, yet drawn to. Confidence is not only thinking or knowing you're a catch, but also being able to admit your flaws. Ego is when you think you deserve more than you think. That's a turnoff.