OP, have you seen my posts about my woman?
I’ve got a bunch of “humble brags” on here. I’ve hit the lottery, my man. Three years with her, ZERO sh!t tests, ZERO drama, nothing but support, love and caring from her.
I have attracted one of the 2% top-tier women. Although I use the phrase, “hit the lottery”, the fact is that I became attractive to women like her by earning it. For ten years on this forum I sifted through the noise and mined the gold, and took the hammer and chisel to myself (a painful undertaking) and refined myself to be a man worthy of this kind of woman. I created a new reality for myself inside my head by following what is taught here and following Shakespeare’s maxim:
“Assume a virtue if you have it not.”
Some who don’t know me would think I speak rather arrogantly here, but those who do know me know that I tend to speak very matter-if-factly about it. I say very matter-of-factly that I’ve got the women and dating situation handled. And 15 years ago I was a clueless mess when it came to women. I was bewildered and completely invisible to quality women. I was nothing more than an inert object for them to walk around, a non-entity. Now I’m a head-turner. I’m a head-turner not because of what I look like, but because of what I project.
It is because of this site and my willingness to perform surgery on myself, to cut in deep and remove the diseases of self-loathing and insecurity from my inner core, and then assuming a new reality before it became apparent.
If this absolutely clueless mess can find the gold here and build himself up into an effective, attractive man, then truly anybody can.
Anybody who is willing to take the hammer and chisel to himself, that is. Sculpting a new inner man is painful and requires faith. It also requires not settling for inferior women.
Most men here are happy to get table scraps like a dog, just like I used to. They don’t want to put in the effort to become a desirable man, spiritually, mentally and physically.
The key is to swear off all inferior women and accept either the upper 2% or nothing at all, and then to make oneself worthy of quality women.
Are you, reader, a man whom women can look up to? Are you a man who women feel judged by (IOW evaluated for suitability of character)? Are you their superior or are you their inferior?
Everything one needs to know to become such a man is within these pages, but it requires getting one’s hands dirty, sore and calloused as he digs for the gold that is here.
Too much work for most. The tools are right here before everyone who is here.
There are few stories of success here because most who obtain that success slowly drift away. They have created the life that they wanted for themselves. A handful stick around as they enjoy helping others who are interested in improving.
My advice to any man here is to sift through the dirt to find the gold, to systematically apply it to their lives, to ASSUME AUTHORITY over women (hint... they desperately crave a man who does so), and be willing to offend them. Until you are women’s judge, you will not succeed with upper-tier women. These women are completely submissive to their men.
Most of you, when you hear my harping on about judging them, will recoil and think this is morally wrong and that it will turn women off. The reality is quite the contrary. Women want a man they can look up to andctry to impress. What most men here at SS do is try to impress women, when it should be and can be the other way around.
What stops men is that they secretly know they haven’t done the work to become a superior man.
If you decide today to mine the gold here and become a superior, worthy man, no matter what the cost, you are already superior and have earned the right to judge women.
As usual I have rambled on and wagged my tongue excessively, but I wonder if there is gold to be mined here within. Just maybe...
