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How does it effect your Mindset and how does that effect your interaction with other females and socially in general?They lose respect for you and the relationship begins to die. A breakup or cheating follows
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How does it effect your Mindset and how does that effect your interaction with other females and socially in general?They lose respect for you and the relationship begins to die. A breakup or cheating follows
Cola im glad you pointed this out. For whatever reason a female can decide she just going to USE you. Once shes in this mode there is not much you can do to help yourself with regards to her.Man, once you learn to spot the ones who want to use you, women are great man. They are fun, they’ll cook for you, clean your house, take care of you when your sick, run little errands for you .. you can go drink with them and laugh at how silly they get, they smell good ..they are amazing.
Not to mention blow jobs while you are driving ..
Where do you live? the 19th century? lolI had a great relationship many years ago with a women of dark color. She had all the great traits of a loving women who stood by her man. We never really got into any fights, not much drama or bad vibes. The issue was neither of our parents approved due to me not being her skin color and vise versa. She told me how her parents raised her to be a racist but she was never that. Same with my culture.
At the end of the day I got mentally tired of dealing with that aspect. People constantly gave us dirty looks, having to basically hide our relationship. I didn't feel comfortable and knew I would never feel free which is sad. I ended up breaking up with her after 3 years as a result. Bumped into her years later which to my surprise she confessed how she thought we were gonna get married. How she was madly in love with me and I broke her heart. She said the pain from it was so intense she had to move to another state.
She now has 2 kids and moved back to my area. I actually saw her while skimming through a dating app. Unfortunately she isn't anywhere near as attractive as she was, plus the added poundage she's put on. Otherwise I would have tried to smash it for old times sake.
It was copy and pasted from a 19th century novelWhere do you live? the 19th century? lol
Even in the 80's it was frowned upon, not so much now.It was copy and pasted from a 19th century novel
I find it interesting that others on here also see OLD as detrimental, I feel it creates an artificial sense that men are of much lower value than they actually are and the women are of much higher value.Sure. Been seeing a girl I cold-approached for a few months now. She is ten years younger than me. She sets all the dates (once to twice a week), baked me a birthday cake, and is nothing but nice to me all the time. Wants to sleep over whenever she can.
I was in Eastern Europe on vacation recently and did some cold approaches. Ended up having a little romance with a really cute 23 year old professional dancer. We've kept in contact ever since. Great girl... makes me wish I lived in Eastern Europe! She will make some lucky guy very happy.
AFCs are the loudest, and make the most posts because they are frustrated. My advice to most AFCs is to stop complaining, change your mindset to a positive one, take responsibility for yourself, take action, stay away from online dating, and do cold approaches. Most people are lazy though, and prefer the comfort of complaining on the internet to doing what they need to in order to enjoy success with women.
“Why did pack up and move from San Francisco to New York? Was it for a job, family reasons, medical reasons, needed a change?”I ended up breaking up with her after 3 years as a result. Bumped into her years later which to my surprise she confessed how she thought we were gonna get married. How she was madly in love with me and I broke her heart. She said the pain from it was so intense she had to move to another state.
I generally agree, but an important distinction is that she has no sexual history whatsoever of other men except her late husband. Her experience was with him only.I don't even mind the ones that are trying to "use" me. lol In fact there isn't one out there that isn't. Not even the 2% types. It's not a bad thing.
We think faster. Have faster reflexes and actions. We can protect and fight with ferociousness and even kill. OF COURSE she wants to use and be part of that to survive. Our minds are meant to work out and solve problems dealing with optimum survival and leadership.
If you are the leader, you are responsible for all the outcomes. If she is the leader, she will still make you responsible for all the outcomes despite your protests and begging off when things fall apart. No amount of whimpering or pleas for consoling or bashing of women her on these forums will make it go away.
Atom Smasher brought up something that I think men who are still reeling and trying to find their way or are still impregnated with the Feminine Imperative thinking didn't really see. That woman he is talking about...is a product of HIS mindset and growth. I assure you right now. There were men in her past that she smashed like a plastic piece of junk. One or two may even be running around crying "she is a psycho".
The 2% aren't searched for and found. They are created. Think about that a bit. He didn't kick over trucks and cars to find her. He found something called "Potentiality".
Potentiality is a physics term. Think about lightening. The clouds already have an electrical charge building under them. It won't shock you. That is Potentiality. But it has the potential already there. Waiting. When the conditions are right the lightening strikes. Up and down actually. Both directions. This is completing the circuit.
Without the clouds there is no "Potentiality". Atom Smasher merely showed up and by being there created the circuit. If it was you...well you are still dumb as a fence post. If you mess with it, the lightening will kill you. So trying to find the 2% is very misguided. You still think its about the woman. How pathetically feminine is that?
You create the 2%er. If you want one that is. Many may not.
I agree with this. Pair bonding theory isn't a theory. The more partners she has the lower on the scale she goes. She is completely unaware of whats happening inside of her or what is happening to her mind and where her destructive ideas and impulses come from.A high number of sexual partners age a woman and make her start to look more masculine as she matures. Man is the giver of his essence, and woman is the receiver. When a woman receives and absorbs the dna of multiple men, bad things happen to her femininity... physically, mentally and spiritually.
Which is why learning pickup before removing the deep Feminine imperative programming is a futile attempt at regaining man status. Masculine traits are hard to instill on top of Feminine brainwashing. It will most likely not occur. Unless you already have a top 2% that Atom Smasher is talking about, you must invest in yourself. You must not reward women for their bad behavior by attempting to pair bond with them in LTRs or Marriage. Never give them resources. They advance only by your good graces. Since when do 118 pound women drive full grown men into the dirt?2% of women are this way, gents. They are the only ones worth going for. But most men are invisible to these woman. Most men today seem to have no concept of designing themselves and building up themselves to deserve high quality women. So they keep on monkey dancing to attract and be approved by women whose inner core is damaged.
Deep down all women desire a relationship with a man that is stable, can provide for her and their children, is supportive and nurturing in a masculine way. However, many man simply cannot take on such a role, think of all the **** boys, deadbeats, losers, etc. and she will truly have a hard time finding such a man. Also, society is convincing young women that they do not in fact need men at all and is conforming women into having their energy be more masculine based, which goes completely against their nature and leads to unhappiness. Many young women today grew up in broken households where there was an absent father and the mother took on both parental roles in a manner of speaking, this is especially the norm in black America, hence the angry black woman stereotype.I agree with this. Pair bonding theory isn't a theory. The more partners she has the lower on the scale she goes. She is completely unaware of whats happening inside of her or what is happening to her mind and where her destructive ideas and impulses come from.
I'm going to add to this. It can make her utterly incapable of happiness and as she has no place to assign the reason for this, she assigns it to the man she is with and formulates the idea that somewhere out there is a man that can wash it all away. Perhaps a masculine man can to a reasonable degree. The idea of the Soul Mate keeps it alive so that she is incapable of looking inside. The way her mind is designed, it is almost too easy to wreck women. If you look at it from the responsibility of our gender as men, we reinforce it and our feminized soy boys, traitors themselves, are assisting in the destruction of our women.
Men may have been feminized, and it is true, but women have been severely damaged by feminism and its driving thrust from global socialism/communism.