Plinco
Master Don Juan
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If you guys can help me out I would appreciate it.
So I need to be able to think outside the box on this one. I'm trying to get social contacts with young people (18-24) and I have had some success, but I am not as successful as I would like to be. First, let me give you some background.
I'm turning 35 in a couple of weeks. I physically look like I'm 24-29. I have a good sales job and I like it. I have a lot of testosterone for a man in his mid-30's, even though despite the fact that I'm thin. But I have a problem; I am socially way behind on my development! I have the social maturity of a 21~ish young man. The good news is, is that I don't look or feel 35. I have no problem being around people who are collage age. The reason for this I think, is because I was so unsuccessful in my youth that I think I have to compensate for it. I only started to become successful past the age of 27. So I don't have much desire to hang out with people who are over, say, 26 because there is too little action going on; it's like they are too old for me. My goal is to get over this part of myself so that I can move on and I don't have to be stuck there forever. I do have to grow up, have a family, maybe get into politics and all of that boring stuff. First, I think I have to get this 21 year old out of my system.
There is another complication. The girl I'm suppose to marry is coming over in the matter of months. If I am going to get my young self out of my system, then I'd better do it now. So I joined some clubs in my old university posing as a student and I have done some volunteer work. I feel better that I'm around younger people again, the problem is, is that it doesn't feel like it's enough. I've tried the local fraternities but I've missed the rush dates and I can't get a hold of any of them.
How do I make the most out of my limited time? Am I missing anything?
So I need to be able to think outside the box on this one. I'm trying to get social contacts with young people (18-24) and I have had some success, but I am not as successful as I would like to be. First, let me give you some background.
I'm turning 35 in a couple of weeks. I physically look like I'm 24-29. I have a good sales job and I like it. I have a lot of testosterone for a man in his mid-30's, even though despite the fact that I'm thin. But I have a problem; I am socially way behind on my development! I have the social maturity of a 21~ish young man. The good news is, is that I don't look or feel 35. I have no problem being around people who are collage age. The reason for this I think, is because I was so unsuccessful in my youth that I think I have to compensate for it. I only started to become successful past the age of 27. So I don't have much desire to hang out with people who are over, say, 26 because there is too little action going on; it's like they are too old for me. My goal is to get over this part of myself so that I can move on and I don't have to be stuck there forever. I do have to grow up, have a family, maybe get into politics and all of that boring stuff. First, I think I have to get this 21 year old out of my system.
There is another complication. The girl I'm suppose to marry is coming over in the matter of months. If I am going to get my young self out of my system, then I'd better do it now. So I joined some clubs in my old university posing as a student and I have done some volunteer work. I feel better that I'm around younger people again, the problem is, is that it doesn't feel like it's enough. I've tried the local fraternities but I've missed the rush dates and I can't get a hold of any of them.
How do I make the most out of my limited time? Am I missing anything?