Prelude:
Defining the Goal:
To be the most popular guy at school: To no longer be hindered socially and build core confidence.
I know that I have achieved the goal when:
When I am happy and having fun with young people without any hindrance. When I feel accomplished with youth and not feel any shame. When I can go to any girl and ask her out without any anxiety.
The reasons for this goal:
I am looking to change what I am convinced of. To change my conviction from “I do not deserve this” to “I deserve this, and can get it”
- Entertainment = increases serotonin and regulates dopamine.
- The feeling of low anxiety = anxiety is a killer, it produces cortisol, adrenaline, and noradrenaline. Low anxiety turns all of that off.
- Hormones, especially HGH = The hormone that keeps humans living; it is the anti-aging hormone that promotes reproductive health also.
- learning, knowledge = discovery of what was not known before for the purpose of being better able to control reality.
- opening increasing potential = potential decreases anxiety by lending the approximation of achieving or overachieving values/goals.
- Face rejection and conflict more bravely.
- Sex is a bonus.
- Live life on my own terms around ‘high status’ people.
Plan:
Action plans:
No reason to be held accountable to the whims of others; otherwise would be susceptible to the authority of other people. Be clear about values and act accordingly successfully.
- Face off conflict more bravely.
- Live on your terms, even if it means rejection.
- Have fun and socialize with young people.
- Release sexual tension with 18-21-year-old girls. First it must be built up, then released appropriately. This is a marker of having the right mind and body. Sex comes easier when you are happy.
Being popular is simply the result of a lot of people liking you. So, meet a lot of people. But it seems the fastest way to meet a lot of people is to be a part of a large social group/club where you can meet plenty of people regularly.
Plan everything in detail. All dates for fall 2019. Count the number of girls you need to ask out. Do this by planning events around fraternities and sporting participations.
You must visualize in your future and believe in it.
Long term plan:
- Get in good physical shape (young athlete).
- Participate in athletic events of people between 18-21.
- Hang around actively around 18-21 (tactically).
- Go on dates of 18 and 19-year-old girls.
Approach all of this with no dependency of outcome while being happy. There should be no ‘problems’ going forward. Testosterone is high, cortisol is low.
Short term plan:
- Create calendar for Fall 2019
- Get student ID card
- Pay for class
Get into physical shape:
Boost testosterone levels
Make body work properly
Updated
Since I do not accept any authority outside of myself, only I can convince myself to change my values. I need to convince myself that I am capable to act out in accordance to the ‘reasons for my goal section’ values without anxiety.
Reevaluated
- Reach physiological goal
- Remove hindrances
- Implying fear
- Communicate functionally
- Invited to social gatherings by college students
- Have fun with 18-year-old women.
08/08/2019
Focus now on facing what hinders me and building relationships.
10/16/2019
Do: Being to act out among young people without hindrances.
Do: Boost testosterone by doing 2X days of leg exercises, boost calorie intake. Exercise everyday until the 30th of October and act out without hindrances.
11/01
Expect: Respect and validation from hot young women.
- Keep body in shape and maintain calorie intake and sleep cycle.
- Visit every event possible. Seek out events not on schedule.
- Make comfortable communications as much as possible with under 25 years of age.
- Talk to young women and expect, but do not depend on, their sexual interest.