One thing that's odd to me is anyone who's actually had taken woman monkey Branch to them should be very well aware of how nonsensical the woman's reasoning is for leaving the guy usually. Very rare that the guy did anything terribly wrong. 90% of the time it some structural issue like the guy balding or the guy filled a need at the time they got together that she doesn't feel is important anymore. I guess if my goal in attracting women was to inflate my ego and build up a false sense of pride then I would pretend like I'm somehow better than that guy but the truth is I'm just next in line in her little fairytale Fantasy Land. The funny thing is those guys replace her with a better woman and I do too later on, so let her go.
Actually it’s not. It seems that way is all. She presents it that way. In essence, she faded out of “love” or interest.
She’s had time to reduce him. He popped into relationship mode. This will turn off the feel good emotions in her.
The action of jumping to the new guy needs to be justified. If there isn’t something she can readily nail down as the reason...she will make one up.
He walks weird. He has skinny ankles. He’s indifferent to my emotional needs (complaining and nagging)
Men get this backwards. They are told there’s something wrong with them when in fact there’s nothing wrong with them. She has to justify and rationalize her actions or the action she is about to take. Brutalizing men, leaving them etc. is a way to ease her mind for acting on her biological responses.
In the end it really was the man. He reduced himself to hubby or little boyfriend. But not for the reasons she says it was. Holding this masculine frame is the hardest thing a man will have to endure. It is a battle to hold your frame in light of her skill at reducing a man over even a few months of being together. He has to fight his own nesting and protection biology.
