WayTooReal
Don Juan
- Joined
- May 22, 2018
- Messages
- 38
- Reaction score
- 7
- Age
- 49
Been seeing a woman for a little under 3 months, things have been going great up until the past few days, we would see each other 2 to 3 times a week, having sex almost every time we met, literally could not keep our hands off each other.
She would constantly tell me how much she was looking forward to seeing me and always would say how much she wishes I was there blah blah blah when I wasn't...
She has 2 kids, and they both like me, met her family etc, they all seem to like me as well. Saw her this past Monday(and we had sex), We were supposed to spend time Valentines Day and she texted me that one of her kids went to the nurses office that day and was sick and that she wasnt feeling that great either but it was up to me if I wanted to still come up. I told her if they were sick I'd let them rest. Then we talked on the phone later that night for a little bit and she apologized and said she really felt bad about it. I said not to worry about it and that stuff happens, etc. Got off the phone after about 15 minutes or so. The next day we text a few times and she wanted to talk to me on the phone again and said something like we have a texting relationship and asked if I'm afraid to talk on the phone. I laughed and said obviously not since we just talked on the phone yesterday.
Today we texted back and forth a few times and her first text said her daughter is sick and has a fever and lost her voice too now. I have no reason not to believe her, but at the same time, she hasnt taken the bait with anything sexual I am texting her either. Later tonight she says she is there if I want to call and talk to her. Her texts have been very asexual.
So I'm not exactly sure what to think about this whole wanting to talk on the phone thing all of a sudden. Is it some type of thing to see if I'll do what she wants me to when she asks all the time? I did not call her tonight, told her i was busy.
I dont think she is planning to dump me base on my spidey senses but i think something is going on, not sure what tho. She seems to be acting a little needy lately but at the same time not as flirty...I dont know what this means or if i need to have a preemptive talk with her or try and find out if there is something she is concerned with about our relationship.
Pros:
- Set up a date for Monday with me when i talked to her on Valentine's day of her own doing after I told her I was off that day.
-Today asked what day I'm free next week so we can celebrate my birthday
-Is not on the dating site we met on, as I just went and checked a few times to see if this was the case...no sign of her profile being active.
-Talked very sexually on the phone with me yesterday and said how she wants to "sit on me"(her term for banging)
Cons:
-Has been texting "differently"...not sexual like normal and doesnt take the bait like she used to when I day something that could be sexual
-Suddenly seems very "needy" in terms of talking on the phone or asks for me to talk on the phone
Just looking for opinions on what might be going on. Or if this might be some sort of control test, or something else. Wondering if I need to bring this up or just brush it off, and if i do bring it up how to so it in a way that doesn't make me sound insecure or lame.
She would constantly tell me how much she was looking forward to seeing me and always would say how much she wishes I was there blah blah blah when I wasn't...
She has 2 kids, and they both like me, met her family etc, they all seem to like me as well. Saw her this past Monday(and we had sex), We were supposed to spend time Valentines Day and she texted me that one of her kids went to the nurses office that day and was sick and that she wasnt feeling that great either but it was up to me if I wanted to still come up. I told her if they were sick I'd let them rest. Then we talked on the phone later that night for a little bit and she apologized and said she really felt bad about it. I said not to worry about it and that stuff happens, etc. Got off the phone after about 15 minutes or so. The next day we text a few times and she wanted to talk to me on the phone again and said something like we have a texting relationship and asked if I'm afraid to talk on the phone. I laughed and said obviously not since we just talked on the phone yesterday.
Today we texted back and forth a few times and her first text said her daughter is sick and has a fever and lost her voice too now. I have no reason not to believe her, but at the same time, she hasnt taken the bait with anything sexual I am texting her either. Later tonight she says she is there if I want to call and talk to her. Her texts have been very asexual.
So I'm not exactly sure what to think about this whole wanting to talk on the phone thing all of a sudden. Is it some type of thing to see if I'll do what she wants me to when she asks all the time? I did not call her tonight, told her i was busy.
I dont think she is planning to dump me base on my spidey senses but i think something is going on, not sure what tho. She seems to be acting a little needy lately but at the same time not as flirty...I dont know what this means or if i need to have a preemptive talk with her or try and find out if there is something she is concerned with about our relationship.
Pros:
- Set up a date for Monday with me when i talked to her on Valentine's day of her own doing after I told her I was off that day.
-Today asked what day I'm free next week so we can celebrate my birthday
-Is not on the dating site we met on, as I just went and checked a few times to see if this was the case...no sign of her profile being active.
-Talked very sexually on the phone with me yesterday and said how she wants to "sit on me"(her term for banging)
Cons:
-Has been texting "differently"...not sexual like normal and doesnt take the bait like she used to when I day something that could be sexual
-Suddenly seems very "needy" in terms of talking on the phone or asks for me to talk on the phone
Just looking for opinions on what might be going on. Or if this might be some sort of control test, or something else. Wondering if I need to bring this up or just brush it off, and if i do bring it up how to so it in a way that doesn't make me sound insecure or lame.
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