Lady, smart of us already know that:
a) About half of women are ready to phuck pretty muscled boy on date no.1 for ONS and later tell BS to decent average guy that "NO ONS!" so please keep that BS to yourself
b) Women "waiting game" is oriented for BF material (different types than CHADs, BF-material are smarter, having their ****-together guys, that are not that hot to be screwed on date 1# because you want to play a holy virgin card on them to make them fall in love)
c) Female psychology does not deal with phucking multiple partners like men psychology do (our psychology is MADE to do that, your is TRAINED to do that and these things are different things really) thus every women (especially several years after their SMV peak which is about 23y old) that do that and is about 30's can be
- deranged
- crazy
- entitled
- waste of time
- trying to stay worthy (it's difficult when you have ridden **** carousel and partied crazy for a while)
- 'late bloomer' on dating market (then you are very lucky as a guy, however this probability is very low)
IMO the thing about nowadays dating as a guy in his 30's or late 20's is honestly not giving a phuck about anything beyond first meeting really unless woman will show her submissive nature and readiness to be like that for man
No invitation should be made for nothing. 'Just because she's hot'. Yeah, so what?
Coffe is rather casual and equal even if men initiate - because man should initiate but only for high amount of IOI women - but if she won't call you/message you to say simple "thanks for invitation" after the meeting then it's a RED FLAG yet again.
Man is a guardian of relationship status, woman is guardian of sex, thus the relationship starts after female is intimate with her partner because man should 'ratify' this status (and it often works best just like that). Because woman always aims up not on her level.
Man is rising his SMV constantly until about 41/42 if he does all the correct moves. Woman SMV drops steadily after reaching 28/29 years old, and correct moves do not matter really as women are supposed to make you want to have offspring with them - NOT to be companion really. Companionship is secondary purpose for the man, primary only for beta/lower category of males.
Companionship is redundant for men if woman cannot provide offspring. It's a pussification of males, some **** they add to the food or tons of porn that override male brains that men think that steady supply of SEX is THE THING.
No its phucking not. Actually the thing is when your SMV skyrockets, you check in on females around you and you see that they are more interested in you. That's THE THING. The most happy man is when he is IN CONTROL to the largest possible extent in his life and this extends to women.
If she won't show that she is really interested more than once about second date then she should be left alone for another guy. That's my modus operandi right now.
So here I am 33, not giving a phuck and currently 26 old well educated woman wants to phuck me. And I say "hmm, not sure babe, work, no time, cant do it :<" and guess what? She is even more interested.
Its because I don't give a phuck really, and I really do not. My SMV will go much higher this year because plans I made several years ago finally start to show nice fruits here and there.
Man is supposed to be about stars in the sky, limitless horizon, offspring is just a sad necessity when you are reaching limit of your possibilities and understand that stars are beyond your reach and will always remain like that. Until that time you are not allowed to think that you need women.
No, you don't. This generation of guys that live and that's young nowadays does not understand it exactly because it has so much time to fool around and we men loose ourselves in ocean of activities wasting time. Computer games, facebook, dating apps, whatever, while first and foremost we should try to reach our limits. Not eventually but today, always.
Many great men did not have offspring but we all know their names. You don't need to be famous in Albert Einstein way and for sure you should not try to be famous in a reality show. What you should try to do as a man is being the best possible version of yourself, egoistical, brutal if you need to be. Efficient. Merciless in reaching your limits. Forgiving only to yourself as its necessary to try again and you need to try again because thats what man should do.
And if you will be satisfied about your level on focus, then you may give some of this focus to woman. Not the other way around.
That's why OP being worried about 'plate refusing sex' is hillarious as if she is just a plate then what's with the butthurt and starting thread about it on SS? GF refusing sex - sure I can understand even if its needy. Plate? Thread? Really? Actually she showed that she has some self-worth which is a positive thing about people. There's no such thing like a sport-phucking. Even for men.
Power should be conserved and used wisely, this rule does include p.hucking.
