flowtheory
Master Don Juan
What are the 4 personality traits?
Relationships
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Frame and the amount of interest she still has in you will determine how the relationship goes.
Most of my success in relationships happen when the woman has high interest right from the get-go and continues to show that level of interest throughout the relationship. You must also be courting her, showing her a good time in and outside the bedroom. Make sure she respects you.
Most of my success in relationships happen when the woman has high interest right from the get-go and continues to show that level of interest throughout the relationship. You must also be courting her, showing her a good time in and outside the bedroom. Make sure she respects you.
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Jesus dude. Wouldn't it be better to live free and chase new women even if it means losing a ton of cash in a divorce?
Between the kids and finances, it's just not that simple. It's about more than money. I've got some ideas about how to make this more palatable for me though, if these ideas fail, perhaps there could be some consideration of moving on but I at least want to give these things a try first.
You belong to the expressive passive type.
@Murkserious shares the same personality as you do.
Your natural talents would be acting, music, singing, diplomacy, poetry, painting - art, fashion, designing, etc.
You also have high EQ.
While there's positives there's also negative aspects to that personality - lack of assertiveness, dominance, masculine aggression etc.
Once the admiration is lost, disrespectful behaviour soon follows and in time so will the love she once had for you.
Mark my words highSpeed, for it will come to pass should you remain the same man as you are now.
flowtheory
Master Don Juan
You can deny it but I know I'm spot on.
already working on some ideas for how to mentally change to be more assertive and less confrontational. More to come...
1st stop blaming her.
How you think influences how you do things (the interactions with ur wife).
Start there. And if u r able to do that I'll help you further.
My first goal, perhaps small, was to stop taking the bait. She baits and I usually take. I'm working on not taking the bait, stating my position and then letting it go.
Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
The above (entire) post is well-written and 98% accurate. The above sentences are the only thing that are not an absolute. SOME women (30-50%) are shy, intimidated, and/or just old school and will not reach out especially early in a relationship, even if they are into you. And the ones that do blow up your phone too early on can be dominant females, clingy, or just nutso. Men, being assertive, leaders, and dominant, SHOULD do some of the pursuing (as opposed to chasing--and there is a huge difference).
Otherwise, this is spot-on.
You can try but often times when people like us do that we go OTT and get called aggressive or unreasonable, tread carefully
OTT? I'm not sure I'm familiar with that.
Over the top, overcompensation for what’s not natural to us
Ahh, ok, well, I'm just going to have to learn to not get irritated about it anymore. I know I'm right. I've gotten some confirmation over the last month that has clearly shown me I'm in the right. I don't need her validation. My opinion, she can agree with it or not but I'm still going to give it, not in an angry or confrontational way but in a matter of fact way.
flowtheory
Master Don Juan
I didn’t deny anything. Simply inquiring to know how you arrived at this. And a link to the personality types would be appreciated so I can learn more..
It’s not information in public domain
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-Don't stop doing the things that attracted her to you in the first place.
-Always remain somewhat of a challenge.
-Never care more about the relationship than she does.
-Pick your battles.
-Don't stop doing your hobbies, and hanging with your guy friends.
-Turn her down for sex every now and then.
-Don't always be available to her.
-Women must miss you to stay attracted to you.
-They must chase to make it work. When they stop chasing, create space. -@Guru1000
It sucks that it has to be this way. But if you want to win, you must live by this.
-Always remain somewhat of a challenge.
-Never care more about the relationship than she does.
-Pick your battles.
-Don't stop doing your hobbies, and hanging with your guy friends.
-Turn her down for sex every now and then.
-Don't always be available to her.
-Women must miss you to stay attracted to you.
-They must chase to make it work. When they stop chasing, create space. -@Guru1000
It sucks that it has to be this way. But if you want to win, you must live by this.
It's the turning down for sex part that I have to work on. I could have literally jerked off like 5 minutes ago and if she says let's have sex, it's like a f*cking pavlovian response, hard in like one second.
