The Facebook Audit

[Masculinity]

@logicallefty Marriage is a worthless deal for men and an outstanding deal for women. Anything that you can do as a married couple, you can do as boyfriend and girlfriend (except paying slightly lower taxes, but if she takes leaves you—which is very likely to happen—you’ll lose half your shiz; that’s way more than paying taxes as a non-married person).

 

[Spaz]

Looks like the womenfolk are out in full force.

It would be interesting to see if you gals still have what it takes to weave ur magic on Lefty and have him confused to the point of being addled brained.

 

[AJ84]

Bull. Doesn't mean sh1t at all. It's just an extra step before making a big decision. It's like getting tested for aids before fvcking without condom.

No, it would be like getting her secretly tested for AIDS before f**king without a condom.

It’s how you are going about doing it, behind her back, without her knowledge or consent, in the context of ‘trust’.

If I find out some guy installed spyware on my phone before making a decision about staying with me, that decision would be very easy for him because I would dump his ass. At that point I don’t give a crap what his decision is. I made my own.

 

[AJ84]

The next move is not his to make, it is hers.

She is the one requesting a permanent commitment. The onus is on her to prove her worth to him.

Does she choose hypocrisy? Or does she choose him?

If she’s choosing to do something that she would of confinued doing had he not placed in on her as a condition to further the relationship, then why the hell would he want to stay with her?

 

[backseatjuan]

Well, while I follow your logic, it does still follow that, if you are so unsure that you need to have a bug planted in her phone, that speaks volumes about the level of security you are feeling about your relationship.

Well wtf do you want to be sure about the woman? Are you a blue pill type of guy?

 

[sazc]

Most likely she isn't even aware of how disrespectful it is. Most Betas would never have the balls for such a move.

If she has never been taught to know better, how would she know until he forced her to confront it?

True.

The unfortunate result of "she isn't aware of how disrespectful it is" is that, when he demands she remove them, he seems insecure are controlling.

Again, I get it, and I removed a few as per a request from my ex, but I've been exposed to this site.

 

[Spaz]

Well wtf do you want to be sure about the woman? Are you a blue pill type of guy?

Sazc is a woman.

She's one of the original manufacturers of Blue Pills.

She's even sold a few blue pills as red pills.

Very good marketing strategy.

 

[sazc]

Sazc is a woman.

She's one of the original manufacturers of Blue Pills.

She's even sold a few blue pills as red pills.

Very good marketing strategy.

They always come back!

It's funny how you can't leave me alone. You just have this need to continue to insert yourself into my orbit.

Lol

 

[AJ84]

Most likely she isn't even aware of how disrespectful it is. Most Betas would never have the balls for such a move.

If she has never been taught to know better, how would she know until he forced her to confront it?

Well if she didn’t she knows now and what was her response? Not, “ Oh baby sorry I didn’t realize it was a concern for you, I’m removing them from my FB right now.”

Nope. Complaining about him to her friend was her response.

 

[AJ84]

If a guy feels compelled to spy on her and/ or demand her passwords for social media and all this nonsense then she’s not the girl for you, if that’s how she is making you feel, like there is a reason why you need to play it that way with her. If that’s the baseline of the relationship then you will always be wondering and spying and doubting and all this negative energy stuff which will drain you and erode the relationship eventually. Why waste your time and emotions in that way.

If she warrants that kind of snooping then just have her as a plate where no one expects nor owes anything to the other one.

People don’t really don’t f**king change regardless of frame, game, leadership whatever. If she’s not trustworthy now, deleting people from her FB isn’t going to make her so. Complying because of a threat isn’t going to make her so, being a leader isn’t going to make her so, dread game isn’t going to make her so. It’s who she is, I don’t get why some guys here waste time with women that they don’t trust, trying to frame them into being trustworthy.

Time better spend finding someone they can trust. And if the attitude is ‘well, no woman can be trusted’, then don’t get into a relationship with any lol. Just do casual dating no strings attached.

Some of you make it much more of a headache then it has to be.

 

[logicallefty]

I think the point of @logicallefty 's approach is being a little overlooked here.

I very much doubt he really expects these men to disappear and that all problems will be forever resolved simply by deleting a friendship on a social media platform.

The point, at least in the way I interpret all of this, is to expose perceived double standards and see how a woman reacts to that.

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That's exactly right^. My point wasn't to get her to delete the guys from FB, my point was to let her know that if she's gonna talk to people from her past who she has slept with (and keep them as orbiters), then I am going to do the same. It's pretty simple logic to me, but not for her.

I have told her I have no intention to ever marry again. Until last night I think she thought she could change my mind, but I'm not so sure she thinks that now lol

Looks like the womenfolk are out in full force.

It would be interesting to see if you gals still have what it takes to weave ur magic on Lefty and have him confused to the point of being addled brained.

Yep seems as if I have struck a nerve in the womenfolk on here.

 

[Spaz]

They always come back!

It's funny how you can't leave me alone. You just have this need to continue to insert yourself into my orbit.

Lol

You must seriously think that I even care about you....

The delusions of the feminine mind is mind boggling haha

 

[AJ84]

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And so she reveals her low value if she does nothing. Who cares if she clucks to her other friends about it.

You are coming at this from the perception he needs to bend or he loses her. That path leads to a broken frame.

This was a win/win for LogicalLefty.

No, I’m coming at it from the perspective of not caring if he loses her, if he has reason not to trust her. He said himself he doesn’t care if she leaves him. If a woman is not worthy of a relationship with you, why bother trying to get her to be relationship worthy? To me that implies that you have no other options, hence hanging on and trying to frame things to get her to change.

People don’t change. Dismiss and move on if it’s becoming a headache.

 

[sazc]

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No, I’m coming at it from the perspective of not caring if he loses her, if he has reason not to trust her. He said himself he doesn’t care if she leaves him. If a woman is not worthy of a relationship with you, why bother trying to get her to be relationship worthy? To me that implies that you have no other options, hence hanging on and trying to frame things to get her to change.

People don’t change. Dismiss and move on if it’s becoming a headache.

It's a test @AJ84 to see where she really is concerning the relationship. ( I'm taking about the original post) not Bourne out of insecurity, rather a tactic employed to gague her, essentially, level submissiveness to him.

 

[AJ84]

That's exactly right^. My point wasn't to get her to delete the guys from FB, my point was to let her know that if she's gonna talk to people from her past who she has slept with (and keep them as orbiters), then I am going to do the same. It's pretty simple logic to me, but not for her.

I have told her I have no intention to ever marry again. Until last night I think she thought she could change my mind, but I'm not so sure she thinks that now lol




Yep seems as if I have struck a nerve in the womenfolk on here.

Not really, I just don’t understand the bother to play games with her if you don’t care if she leaves and if you have options. If she has FB friends you have issue with, and you don’t really care if she leaves, why even say, “ well if you’re going to have FB guy friends then I’m going to have FB girl friends”.
Why not just say you don’t want to be with a woman who needs to collect ex boyfriends on FB, because to me that’s the issue, her doing that, knowing that it bothers you, and you now knowing that if she deletes them, it’s only because you wanted her to, not because she wanted to, and her pouting about it with her friend first.

That’s telling.

 

[AJ84]

It's a test @AJ84 to see where she really is concerning the relationship. ( I'm taking about the original post) not Bourne out of insecurity, rather a tactic employed to gague her, essentially, level submissiveness to him.

I would say she failed then. Balls in his court.

 

[AJ84]

Has she demonstrated yet that he should not trust her?

Well if he wants her to delete her ex’s from
FB, I can only assume that he doesn’t trust her because otherwise, why care about that.

That’s what’s confusing to me I guess. Maybe I’m missing something here.

 

[sazc]

I would say she failed then. Balls in his court.

She did. Balls not necessarily in his court, given some time she may come back in an aquescing, bj giving manner

 

[sazc]

Well if he wants her to delete her ex’s from
FB, I can only assume that he doesn’t trust her because otherwise, why care about that.

That’s what’s confusing to me I guess. Maybe I’m missing something here.

It's "manspeak" lol

@Amante Silvestre used his conversational skills to splain it, read up to find his post.

 

[logicallefty]

Well if he wants her to delete her ex’s from
FB, I can only assume that he doesn’t trust her because otherwise, why care about that.

That’s what’s confusing to me I guess. Maybe I’m missing something here.

I don't need her to delete the ex's from FB. My point is, though, if she is gonna talk to ex's then so am I. I'm not kicking my orbiters 100% to the curb until she does.