Surprising plate with weekend trip

[flowtheory]

I don’t really get why people are saying he can’t take a trip with a plate. But clearly she’s not just some booty call type plate. She’s a plate that OP is clearly emotionally invested in. Which is totally fine. I’m down with emotions haha..
Plate is an ambiguous term on SS. Creates confusion because it will give a varied degree of responses.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

FYI this chick is a planner/organizer rather than the spontaneous type so I'm thinking (a) or (b) are probably the better options.

Your frame is softtttttt.

I am spontaneous. No plans. Just showing up and boarding a flight.

I am going places. Bitches can come along or get left behind.. Real talk!

Quit pandering.

Frame is everything.


I lead. She follows or next.

If a woman is banging and she initiated contact, a movie, hanging out late night, obv go with the flow.

But 99% of the time, its slpha as ****kkk.

Bitches are plates. Vaca for a plate is absurd. She best be giving up the butt. As to mouth kuz.


This is the classic story of beta-zation by a 1000 concessions.


You drop the invites. She comes or you next her. Hotter girls are turning 18 everyday.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I don’t really get why people are saying he can’t take a trip with a plate. But clearly she’s not just some booty call type plate. She’s a plate that OP is clearly emotionally invested in. Which is totally fine. I’m down with emotions haha..
Plate is an ambiguous term on SS. Creates confusion because it will give a varied degree of responses.

It seems like a lot of investment for a plate as well as no rational for said trip.

Is she on the early side of twenty? Does she give the butt?

Wtf does her lack of spontaneity have to do with his concession?

Op ain't doing it right.

Undeniable dtf, feminine as ****kkk, top form SMV 18-23, submissive to the max, and nuking value nonstop. This after extended period of loyalty without any ambiguity or cuck weirdo crap.

Nothing op posted is suggesting that.


Lol if i find out she's a single mom or 30. #gross

Exactly. Glad someone gets it. Threads like this definitely separate the experienced (frame is everything) from the incels (black and white thinking, arbitrary rules with no exceptions, etc).

She's the main plate at the moment but I'm casually dating one other. Have no intention of being committal (on paper) with anyone at the moment and probably for the rest of 2019. At that pivotal SMV crossroad that Rollo mentions in his SMV graph. Would be silly to get tied down at this point. I took a different girl to Dubai a few years ago. And by "took" I mean the company I previously worked for paid for my flight, hotel and other expenses out there for a week since I was officially there to see clients.

She paid for her flight and got the benefit of a "free" hotel and cool guy to hang out with. I got the benefit of not having to worry about planning stuff to do (that was her job) and having a sexy HB to tour the city with on the weekend and fvck when I came back from work. Honestly I had a blast out there! And she returned the favour by letting me crash at her place when I visited the states later that year.



Told her I'm taking her away for her birthday. She's cool with it. Nicely done.

Age of said girl. Last chick i nutted on her face was 21 college chick.

She gets no vaca. She took it all. Every last drop.

Unless you run sugar daddy game, its pedaling beta male provider. Your ability to do so is irrelevant.

Frame is everything. Weekend get away over Nye with a hawttt bi chick who is pulling three ways with you is one thing.

This won't end well. You aren't a millionaire. Plate should be taking you on vaca.

Step game up kuz.

 

[BeTheChange]

It seems like a lot of investment for a plate as well as no rational for said trip.

Is she on the early side of twenty? Does she give the butt?

Wtf does her lack of spontaneity have to do with his concession?

Op ain't doing it right.

Undeniable dtf, feminine as ****kkk, top form SMV 18-23, submissive to the max, and nuking value nonstop. This after extended period of loyalty without any ambiguity or cuck weirdo crap.

Nothing op posted is suggesting that.


Lol if i find out she's a single mom or 30. #gross



Age of said girl. Last chick i nutted on her face was 21 college chick.

She gets no vaca. She took it all. Every last drop.

Unless you run sugar daddy game, its pedaling beta male provider. Your ability to do so is irrelevant.

Frame is everything. Weekend get away over Nye with a hawttt bi chick who is pulling three ways with you is one thing.

This won't end well. You aren't a millionaire. Plate should be taking you on vaca.

Step game up kuz.

LOL. Ok "kuz".

Stay off the cough syrup.

 

[flowtheory]

Your frame is softtttttt.

I am spontaneous. No plans. Just showing up and boarding a flight.

I am going places. Bitches can come along or get left behind.. Real talk!

Quit pandering.

Frame is everything.


I lead. She follows or next.

If a woman is banging and she initiated contact, a movie, hanging out late night, obv go with the flow.

But 99% of the time, its slpha as ****kkk.

Bitches are plates. Vaca for a plate is absurd. She best be giving up the butt. As to mouth kuz.


This is the classic story of beta-zation by a 1000 concessions.


You drop the invites. She comes or you next her. Hotter girls are turning 18 everyday.

It seems like a lot of investment for a plate as well as no rational for said trip.

Is she on the early side of twenty? Does she give the butt?

Wtf does her lack of spontaneity have to do with his concession?

Op ain't doing it right.

Undeniable dtf, feminine as ****kkk, top form SMV 18-23, submissive to the max, and nuking value nonstop. This after extended period of loyalty without any ambiguity or cuck weirdo crap.

Nothing op posted is suggesting that.


Lol if i find out she's a single mom or 30. #gross



Age of said girl. Last chick i nutted on her face was 21 college chick.

She gets no vaca. She took it all. Every last drop.

Unless you run sugar daddy game, its pedaling beta male provider. Your ability to do so is irrelevant.

Frame is everything. Weekend get away over Nye with a hawttt bi chick who is pulling three ways with you is one thing.

This won't end well. You aren't a millionaire. Plate should be taking you on vaca.

Step game up kuz.

My God.....

 

[BeTheChange]

Cool man, enjoy your trip!



I didn't read Rollo, I'm curious what he says the pivotal SMV is?

Full post here. I'm 30 and IME this graph is eerily accurate. Extremely rare to meet a woman in her 30s that I think has comparable SMV to my own. Less than one in ten. Can only imagine that things will get even better in the next five years.

Work on mind and body, get your money situation right, keep your game tight and this graph is prophetic.

As for the plate. I gave her the news and she was ecstatic. Said no one had done anything as nice for her before. You want to be the kind of guy that can give women unique experiences and draw them into your world. One of my new year's resolutions was to visit 12 countries in 12 months. She's along for the ride on one of these trips. Everyone wins.

 

[marmel75]

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Full post here. I'm 30 and IME this graph is eerily accurate. Extremely rare to meet a woman in her 30s that I think has comparable SMV to my own. Less than one in ten. Can only imagine that things will get even better in the next five years.

Work on mind and body, get your money situation right, keep your game tight and this graph is prophetic.

As for the plate. I gave her the news and she was ecstatic. Said no one had done anything as nice for her before. You want to be the kind of guy that can give women unique experiences and draw them into your world. One of my new year's resolutions was to visit 12 countries in 12 months. She's along for the ride on one of these trips. Everyone wins.

I guess when you cant provide that unique experience in the bedroom you have to find other ways to do it.

 

[AJ84]

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Full post here. I'm 30 and IME this graph is eerily accurate. Extremely rare to meet a woman in her 30s that I think has comparable SMV to my own. Less than one in ten. Can only imagine that things will get even better in the next five years.

Work on mind and body, get your money situation right, keep your game tight and this graph is prophetic.

As for the plate. I gave her the news and she was ecstatic. Said no one had done anything as nice for her before. You want to be the kind of guy that can give women unique experiences and draw them into your world. One of my new year's resolutions was to visit 12 countries in 12 months. She's along for the ride on one of these trips. Everyone wins.

Ignore the butt hurt comments here. Jealously. Have fun!

 

[Mazer]

If spending $100 on an extra plane ticket to a place you are visiting anyway is "work" then you need to re-evaluate your life or improve your income potential.

There's a scene in the first few episodes of House of Cards that always strikes a chord. Meechum, Frank Underwood's security guard is suspended for firing a gun in the street. In spite of his incompetent act, Frank makes a call to Meechum's boss in order to rehire him. His logic:

"It requires very little of me and will mean the world to him. It's a very inexpensive investment."

Think.

Selective generosity is an incredible tool in the art of both power and seduction.

Yeah bro, same here. As long as my plate treats me with respect, let’s me lead, cooks, cleans, buys me gifts, invests in me, sex is good then I reward her with a little getaway. I select a place where I want to go. It’s when you start doing or buying things to keep her from straying is where most guys go wrong.

 

[marmel75]

Yeah bro, same here. As long as my plate treats me with respect, let’s me lead, cooks, cleans, buys me gifts, invests in me, sex is good then I reward her with a little getaway. I select a place where I want to go. It’s when you start doing or buying things to keep her from straying is where most guys go wrong.

This makes no sense to me. A plate is someone you are just banging. She isn't your GF and she will be leaving you at some point because of that. Her shelf life is limited. In many cases extremely limited.

Now, if you are going to say you are doing this to preserve her shelf life then OK. I dont agree with it because in the end it wont matter and you are simply prolonging the inevitable but at least I can see that point of view.

Taking a girl who has no future with you on a trip is silliness in my opinion. And if you are claiming she has a future then by default she is your girlfriend whether you want to claim she is or not.

IMO there are a lot of guys on here who claim these women are plates but are really their girlfriends for all intents and purposes. What you decide to label them doesn't matter, its irrelevant. Your actions towards them determine that status.

 

[AJ84]

This makes no sense to me. A plate is someone you are just banging. She isn't your GF and she will be leaving you at some point because of that. Her shelf life is limited.

Now, if you are going to say you are doing this to preserve her shelf life then OK. I dont agree with it because in the end it wont matter and you are simply prolonging the inevitable but at least I can see that point of view.

Taking a girl who has no future with you on a trip is silliness in my opinion. And if you are claiming she has a future then by default she is your girlfriend whether you want to claim she is or not.

IMO there are a lot of guys on here who claim these women are plates but are really their girlfriends for all intents and purposes.

Yeah I wondered that too. Although I’ve also read posts where a guy talks about his plate and two pages in it’s revealed that he texted her a few times and hasn’t actually gone on a date with her, yet she’s somehow his ‘plate’.
Maybe we need a thread on what a plate actually is lol.

 

[marmel75]

Ignore the butt hurt comments here. Jealously. Have fun!

Leave it to a woman to endorse getting a free ride for nothing.

 

[AJ84]

Leave it to a woman to endorse getting a free ride for nothing.

You’re assuming that she does nothing for him.
The guy wants to take a girl on a trip that he had planned for himself anyway. I don’t understand why he has to be shamed for that. So f**king what? He’s going anyway, it’s an extra 100 dollars for a ticket and he will get sex during a trip that, again, he was planning to go on anyway as it’s on his list of places to visit.
What happened to inviting her into your world rather than getting absorbed into hers? To me, this is an example of him inviting her into his world and his frame even if she is just a plate.
Not like he posted asking how to surprise his plate with an all expense paid 15 country European tour because she told him she always wanted to do that.

 

[Spaz]

Leave it to a woman to endorse getting a free ride for nothing.

More like a promotion then an endorsement.

 

[marmel75]

You’re assuming that she does nothing for him.
The guy wants to take a girl on a trip that he had planned for himself anyway. I don’t understand why he has to be shamed for that. So f**king what? He’s going anyway, it’s an extra 100 dollars for a ticket and he will get sex during a trip that, again, he was planning to go on anyway as it’s on his list of places to visit.
What happened to inviting her into your world rather than getting absorbed into hers? To me, this is an example of him inviting her into his world and his frame even if she is just a plate.
Not like he posted asking how to surprise his plate with an all expense paid 15 country European tour because she told him she always wanted to do that.

If she is doing stuff other than sex then basically they are defacto boyfriend/girlfriend and should stop the silliness and call it what it is.

 

[Mazer]

This makes no sense to me. A plate is someone you are just banging. She isn't your GF and she will be leaving you at some point because of that. Her shelf life is limited. In many cases extremely limited.

Now, if you are going to say you are doing this to preserve her shelf life then OK. I dont agree with it because in the end it wont matter and you are simply prolonging the inevitable but at least I can see that point of view.

Taking a girl who has no future with you on a trip is silliness in my opinion. And if you are claiming she has a future then by default she is your girlfriend whether you want to claim she is or not.

IMO there are a lot of guys on here who claim these women are plates but are really their girlfriends for all intents and purposes. What you decide to label them doesn't matter, its irrelevant. Your actions towards them determine that status.

I can respect what you are saying. My definition of a plate differs from yours. Yours sounds more like short term FWB’s. I don’t plate every woman that I bang these days.
Plated plenty of girls in the past based solely on sex. Now, I only plate women who I enjoy having sex with and have a fun time outside the bedroom as well. It doesn’t mean I will be gf/bf. I enjoy the company of all my plates, My main plate has spent over three grand the last six months on me, cooking me dinner, concert tickets and a bunch of other Stuff. My other plate makes my bed after we bang, folds my laundry, feeds my cat while I am away. I get sex and all these other perks. Also have found that these plates last quite awhile compared to the women who have nothing to offer but sex. I have abundance and I don’t feel like I’m getting attached to just one woman. This is just my method. You do what works for you.

 

[AJ84]

If she is doing stuff other than sex then basically they are defacto boyfriend/girlfriend and should stop the silliness and call it what it is.

Good point.
Like what is a plate to guys here? Maybe a new thread on that because I’m seeing that term being thrown around in various contexts.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

LOL. Ok "kuz".

Stay off the cough syrup.

Is being cucked as we speak.

Bumping this when.

 

[HankHill]

Exactly, and what I said in my post about 'plates'. I never knew that term until I joined SS.

Booty-call < FWB < GF < wife

That's the order I know, where does the plate fall in here? No one knows but to most it's between a booty-call and a GF. Some might enjoy spending time with their plate i.e. FWB and some might only want sex and nothing more i.e. booty-call she's just someone in a rotation. Many people start out with the idea of having plates but I doubt besides a very few they can actually keep them as plates and not get attached lol Also, generally women who openly agree to be your non-exclusive booty-call are low caliber women...any decent woman will want exclusivity after some time.

Back to the topic at hand though - ultimately a guy could take a hooker on a trip if he wants to, who cares if that's what he wants to do? That's the definition of 'alpha' i.e. I'll do what I want to do IDGAF what you or anyone else thinks.