Amante and Guru

[sazc]

are you fukking kidding me? many women are fat and disgusting on there

I want a cute darker skinned woman in decent shape.

I didn't say you had to engage them in conversation. My suggestion has more to do with getting some replies. You CAN let the match expire, you know.....

But I have a feeling you just might decide to engage a chick or two, if not just to fine tune your messaging skills. Would that be so bad?

But I guess that requires effort and vulnerability on your end. Two things you RUN from.

 

[bigdave17]

Bad news for you buddy. The women in their 20s with fitness model bodies you desire are no 6s. Rather they are the most sought after women (even more so than women with 9 faces) by top tier men of all ages.

Begin by understanding this.

fitness model bodies? dude I just want a woman who works out. Tons and tons and tons of them on match.com and okcupid

fitness model bodies are like 1 in 10,000

 

[guru1000]

fitness model bodies? dude I just want a woman who works out. Tons and tons and tons of them on match.com and okcupid

fitness model bodies are like 1 in 10,000

Show me all the girls you have messaged.

 

[bigdave17]

And there it is boys and girls! Dave isn't getting laid, and he's desparate not to be single, but he's just too damn good for anyone on bumble

there are tons of attractive women on bumble but none of them would swipe right on me. You want me to swipe right on all the garbage

 

[bigdave17]

Show me all the girls you have messaged.

I messaged a decent looking black girl today who was in decent shape

literally the bottom of our social hierarchy- black women. Still no response

 

[bigdave17]

I didn't say you had to engage them in conversation. My suggestion has more to do with getting some replies. You CAN let the match expire, you know.....

But I have a feeling you just might decide to engage a chick or two, if not just to fine tune your messaging skills. Would that be so bad?

But I guess that requires effort and vulnerability on your end. Two things you RUN from.

afraid of effort? I would send 6 months constantly on bumble if it meant some dates with decent looking women but I already know it would only lead to rejection.

 

[bigdave17]

Supply and demand make perfect sense.

so 20% of women are going for 1% of men

how does this work on a mathematical level?

 

[Ranger]

I messaged a decent looking black girl today who was in decent shape

literally the bottom of our social hierarchy- black women. Still no response

What? Black women are awesome when they are in shape. Lol

 

[bigdave17]

Post her.

I can private message you guys but what's the point? you already know black women will never top out above a 6ish unless very light skinned. She was not

my standards are very reasonable

 

[Glassguy]

I walk around normal places, bars whatever, I'm easily in top 15 percentile of men in general public... but this obviously is not good enough for women online. they all want top 1% of men

No...they dont. You're just not in the top 15% like you think you are. I see you as a 6 chasing 9's.

 

[bigdave17]

What? Black women are awesome when they are in shape. Lol

you're drunk. They are bottom of our social hierarchy behind white, asian and latin. 80% of my friends would never date a black girl

I don't care. I would date almost any race but I'm being realistic

 

[bigdave17]

No...they dont. You're just not in the top 15% like you think you are. I see you as a 6 chasing 9's.

you're insane

a 6/10 male isn't getting 90% attractiveness on photofeeler. I just need to shut all of you up at some point by having a professional take some quality pics. You would all agree I'm easily a 7.5+. I'm sure I would get in 90 to 95% range on PF

and I'm not going for anywhere near a 9. I would be happy with your avg Latina or Middle eastern chick with a semi cute face who works out

 

[bigdave17]

Online. In real life, different, you said it yourself. Supply and demand dynamic is different.

so there are lots and lots and lots of top 1% men on dating sites where 6/10 females feel entitled to a 10/10 male?

on pure math level, just makes zero sense

 

[Glassguy]

you're insane

a 6/10 male isn't getting 90% attractiveness on photofeeler. I just need to shut all of you up at some point by having a professional take some quality pics. You would all agree I'm easily a 7.5+. I'm sure I would get in 90 to 95% range on PF

and I'm not going for anywhere near a 9. I would be happy with your avg Latina or Middle eastern chick with a semi cute face who works out

I am not insane. Results are all that matter. You dont get any.

 

[R.U.G.]

so there are lots and lots and lots of top 1% men on dating sites where 6/10 females feel entitled to a 10/10 male?

on pure math level, just makes zero sense

You are looking at sex and dating as a logic question with a logical answer. Dating and sex has nothing to do with logic. Simply put, emotions are logical, they are emotions. Women act on their emotions, therefore, logic would not apply. You are looking at the game all wrong. That's the problem. I am surprised you are a car salesman. You act more like a programmer. You need to sell yourself like you are selling a car. Rewire your brain and you'd have better luck.

 

[bigdave17]

I am not insane. Results are all that matter. You dont get any.

my pics on photofeeler- set to women under 34 only can vote all rated between 6.5 at bottom to 9/10 at top

I'm atrociously unphotogenic. At least a dozen people have said i look much better in real life than photos. If you think I'm a 6, you're insane. If you think I'm going for 9s, you're super insane

 

[R.U.G.]

New York guys giving Chicago guy advice on OLD, give me a break.

His only chance is social circle and cold approaches, he isn't good looking enough for OLD outside of NY.

Pointless post as usual.

 

[bigdave17]

Sure, there are a disproportionate number of 9-10 men online compared to women, therefore they fvck down. Basic supply and demand. The women that love to date me (a 7) from real life are matching with male models online, that simple. They like me for my traits other than looks, which aren't on display on OLD.

why you think this is?

All the sites claim they have around 40% women. Why do they all have so many more super attractive men than women?

 

[bigdave17]

You are looking at sex and dating as a logic question with a logical answer. Dating and sex has nothing to do with logic. Simply put, emotions are logical, they are emotions. Women act on their emotions, therefore, logic would not apply. You are looking at the game all wrong. That's the problem. I am surprised you are a car salesman. You act more like a programmer. You need to sell yourself like you are selling a car. Rewire your brain and you'd have better luck.

bro all you have with online dating is pics and profile. I have a good profile and good pics...still doesn't seem to be enough

 

[R.U.G.]

@bigdave17, as well everyone else here, well mostly everyone else, the problem is you; not the women or OLD. You are creating this unnecessary drama that only hinders your ability to adapt, not help. READ AND DIGEST WHAT EVERYONE HERE IS TYPING.