Amante and Guru

[sazc]

@Glassguy

@bigdave17 is here to prove to @Amante Silvestre and @guru1000 that they are WRONG

know how he plans on doing that? In the past, guru and amante were nice enough to coach Dave, telling him to get a good bio and good pics, and he would get messages/responses to messages he sent.

So @bigdave17 now has decently rated photos posted (as per gurus advice) and a bio that mimics amantes and is STILL not getting any interest. So @bigdave17 is back to prove both of them WRONG.

The one thing about @bigdave17 that holds true, he gives up too easily. OLD needs to be viewed as a long game, and a game where all your eggs aren't in the one basket.

@bigdave17 only seeks instant gratification. When social situations require investment, he bails complaining that it's too much work (e.g. making the effort to approach in a club)

 

[bigdave17]

@Glassguy

@bigdave17 is here to prove to @Amante Silvestre and @guru1000 that they are WRONG

know how he plans on doing that? In the past, guru and amante were nice enough to coach Dave, telling him to get a good bio and good pics, and he would get messages/responses to messages he sent.

So @bigdave17 now has decently rated photos posted (as per gurus advice) and a bio that mimics amantes and is STILL not getting any interest. So @bigdave17 is back to prove both of them WRONG.

The one thing about @bigdave17 that holds true, he gives up too easily. OLD needs to be viewed as a long game, and a game where all your eggs aren't in the one basket.

@bigdave17 only seeks instant gratification. When social situations require investment, he bails complaining that it's too much work (e.g. making the effort to approach in a club)

I'm doing everything that amante told me

pic that ranges 90% on photofeeler for looks and 70 to 80% for trustworthy and intelligent. I could get a professional photographer to take some pics of me and get pics that range in 95% attractiveness range but i doubt it would make a difference.

exact same profile as amante

still can't even get a 7/10 to like me

 

[bigdave17]

You demand? They told you what works for them. Why do you assume it will work for you?

You think dating is like a gumball machine, you put in the minimum effort and out pops a dream girl?

Why do you think you deserve anything, simply because you want it?

How about you spend at least a YEAR approaching people in real life.

Your combination of entitlement and utter terror of having a conversation with an attractive girl is going to keep you single for life.

A better solution would be to spend some time finding a quality therapist than DEMANDING an explanation from the internet why you suck at dating.

I don't disagree with most of what you're saying. Online dating absolutely sucks but finding single women in real life in situations where approaching is not excruciatingly awkward is very rare. Bars and clubs are garbage. Gyms are impossible - women wear headphones and are not interested in socializing...

i make friends constantly but nobody knows any quality single women

 

[sazc]

I'm doing everything that amante told me

pic that ranges 90% on photofeeler for looks and 70 to 80% for trustworthy and intelligent. I could get a professional photographer to take some pics of me and get pics that range in 95% attractiveness range but i doubt it would make a difference.

exact same profile as amante

still can't even get a 7/10 to like me

A) OLD is a LONG game, fvcking RELAX
B) no one "likes" you on OLD. They don't even know you. They think your pics combined with your bio is nice. It is ENTIRELY possible that your bio (seeing as it is not really your bio) does not match your pictures. Have a female friend review it and give you input.

 

[sazc]

I don't disagree with most of what you're saying. Online dating absolutely sucks but finding single women in real life in situations where approaching is not excruciatingly awkward is very rare. Bars and clubs are garbage. Gyms are impossible - women wear headphones and are not interested in socializing...

i make friends constantly but nobody knows any quality single women

You are wrong about finding a decent woman being rare, but you won't even try, you just talk yourself into they are garbage and out of approaching.

Same ol Dave

What you need to do is put is all out of our misery and have your family arrange a marriage for you

 

[bigdave17]

A) OLD is a LONG game, fvcking RELAX
B) no one "likes" you on OLD. They don't even know you. They think your pics combined with your bio is nice. It is ENTIRELY possible that your bio (seeing as it is not really your bio) does not match your pictures. Have a female friend review it and give you input.

amantes bio is short and sweet, kinda funny and clever. it works for everyone

online dating is so horrible, it's just ungodly. 99% of women's profiles are absolute garbage - their pictures are awkward selfies with ridiculous poses. their profile summaries are complete trash - boring generic. Meanwhile as a guy, you need professional pictures showing you as a borderline male model with an incredibly funny and creative profile to be of interest to them

half the world is men, half world is female. How does one gender play online dating game on super easy mode and 1 plays on insane super impossible legend mode?

 

[bigdave17]

You are wrong about finding a decent woman being rare, but you won't even try, you just talk yourself into they are garbage and out of approaching.

Same ol Dave

What you need to do is put is all out of our misery and have your family arrange a marriage for you

I said finding them in situations where approaching is not excruciatingly awkward is very rare

none of my family friends in Armenia know any women who want to get married. Trust me, i would take that in 3 seconds. I love Armenian women - most beautiful in world

I borderline hate that my parents brought me to US. dating back home would be so easy - I'm borderline male model status for Armenian men (our men are ugly as hell). I would have found a beautiful Armenian wife in school or college or something and gotten married. Yea I have all the money and amazing lifestyle but who the fuk cares when I'm gonna die alone?

in America, I get judged on white standards and only get rated a 7.5 or whatever. Literally have never seen a better looking Armenian man than me.

 

[Ranger]

Some of those women take hundreds of pictures to get just the right look.
At a photo shoot with a model, sometimes well over a thousand snaps are taken just to find the one picture that works.

I don’t understand the obsession with pictures.
I will never believe it’s all about the pictures.

 

[bigdave17]

Some of those women take hundreds of pictures to get just the right look.
At a photo shoot with a model, sometimes well over a thousand snaps are taken just to find the one picture that works.

I don’t understand the obsession with pictures.

I absolutely hate pictures. it took me years to learn how to be decent looking in pics

now, especially with a professional photographer, i can get pics that make me look VERY handsome but it would make zero difference. Women in US are ****ing ridiculous

 

[Ranger]

I absolutely hate pictures. it took me years to learn how to be decent looking in pics

now, especially with a professional photographer, i can get pics that make me look VERY handsome but it would make zero difference. Women in US are ****ing ridiculous

Well you can fold up and fall on the ground or you can get better. I’ve already made my recommendations. You completely glossed over my posts. You know I’m not obligated to help you, right?
Just think how happy other guys are that you won’t do the work. Leaves more girls for them.

 

[bigdave17]

Well you can fold up and fall on the ground or you can get better. I’ve already made my recommendations. You completely glossed over my posts. You know I’m not obligated to help you, right?
Just think how happy other guys are that you won’t do the work. Leaves more girls for them.

which work? I'm doing everything i was told

- profile with pictures that make me look very handsome
- funny profile copied off someone who says he is online dating master


and I'm willing to message a million women. I'm not scared of hard work. None of them are responding back to me. At this point, I probably need to work on being a billionaire fitness model movie star to get a girlfriend. That's what these women nowadays want.

 

[RangerMIke]

You really shouldn't care what other people think of you. As long as you are satisfied that you are the best you can be that is all that matters. If you do not think you are the best you can be... well, take action to improve what you don't like.

Another thing... stop worrying about 'results' you can not control. You can not control how chicks will respond to your picture... since you can't control it, it is a waste of time worrying about it. Now, if you DON'T like the picture you posted, then keep trying pictures until you are satisfied after that, it's out of your hands.

 

[Ranger]

which work? I'm doing everything i was told

- profile with pictures that make me look very handsome
- funny profile copied off someone who says he is online dating master


and I'm willing to message a million women. I'm not scared of hard work. None of them are responding back to me. At this point, I probably need to work on being a billionaire fitness model movie star to get a girlfriend. That's what these women nowadays want.

You think that’s it, just that and she will open her legs and let you climb on.
You have a bunch of garbage false information. Who told you all that crap? Did you learn this on SS?

 

[bigdave17]

You really shouldn't care what other people think of you. As long as you are satisfied that you are the best you can be that is all that matters. If you do not think you are the best you can be... well, take action to improve what you don't like.

Another thing... stop worrying about 'results' you can not control. You can not control how chicks will respond to your picture... since you can't control it, it is a waste of time worrying about it. Now, if you DON'T like the picture you posted, then keep trying pictures until you are satisfied after that, it's out of your hands.

the pics are ok. If i got a professional with a quality camera, I could probably get pics that rate 95% attractiveness and 85% on smart and trustworthy on photofeeler. i actually am a pretty damn good looking man in real life, despite how much everyone here doubts it and I have good eyes and great smile that are very expressive.

but what's the difference? i would still get zero messages. It's almost like I'm destined to die alone

At this point, I need to be a movie star fitness model to get a girl.

 

[bigdave17]

You think that’s it, just that and she will open her legs and let you climb on.
You have a bunch of garbage false information. Who told you all that crap? Did you learn this on SS?

amante and guru told me great looking pics and good profile = lots of hot chicks

both get lots of messages from hot chicks

 

[Ranger]

At this point, I need to be a movie star fitness model to get a girl.

I agree.

 

[Ranger]

amante and guru told me great looking pics and good profile = lots of hot chicks

both get lots of messages from hot chicks

Then you were filled full of $hit. Either that or you narrowed it down to just what you think you have control over.
If they told you that, then they lied to you. Chances are they said a lot more.

 

[bigdave17]

I agree.

 

[bigdave17]

Then you were filled full of $hit. Either that or you narrowed it down to just what you think you have control over.
If they told you that, then they lied to you. Chances are they said a lot more.

what else is there for online dating except pics and profile? nothing else

 

[Ranger]

Jesus Dave. See what I mean. There was a completely different meaning behind that.