guru1000
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I know three married club owners in NYC, relatively prominent clubs. All three owners are unattractive. Two of the three have harems of hot women. The third is faithful to his wife.I know and have known several club and bar owners. Most are not ugly. They're normal to a bit above average looking. They definitely did not have 10's vying for them, and still don't.
One of them married an 8: hot blonde girl with big fake tits, gal is early 30's. He dated her long term, a couple of years.
A second hangs out at his bar quite a bit, chats up the prettier cougars. Gives them free drinks. He doesn't have much success.
A third was busted for giving away drugs to girls after hours. The bar was shut down.
A fourth is a grossly obese guy, a genuinely ugly guy. He's married to a fat, plain looking woman. His bar is very successful. He has no success with women.
A fifth is a lady owner. Middle aged, heavy set, typical appearance for her age. She runs a successful small bar. She used to buy me drinks every time I showed, but stopped when I never fvcked her.
I know tons of financially well off men. Many of them can’t get hot women. The few who do get hot women consistently are also unattractive.
I know tons of good looking execs. Most of them have married or are dating average looking women. Some who are single don’t date hot women.
Your thinking is very unilateral. Good looks certainly opens the door most definitely. But good looks without basic social acuity closes the door to many hot women. If you have good looks, you’ll understand this.