The most powerful thing that will get a woman’s attention

[Trump]

Is another woman.

We all know women are good for: 1) sexual release 2) fun 3) babies. They don’t offer much more than that. Yet, women are not about sex and family and babies in relationships. Women want power, leverage, and access to the mans resources in their relationships. That’s why when they have sex (giving up their leverage, bargaining chip), they begin to push for exclusivity. And if you become exclusive (LTR, marriage,) they can control you by withholding sex and dominating you emotionally. But if another (good looking woman) is giving you sex, they can’t cant control anything.

That’s why the most powerful thing that will get a womans attention is another woman. Women neutralize other women. Your flowers, your candy, your words, your riches, don’t mean much. Another woman sexually relating to you? That will wake her up.

That’s why men should always 1) to spin plates and 2) keep women at arms length. That way, she can’t use sex as a bargaining chip and she can’t dominate you emotionally.

Be strong men.

 

[longtail]

Grab 'em by the pvssy.

 

[Vivacity]

 

[ubercat]

It is definitely part of the truth. Women are programmed that way. But woman is not all programming. She is an individual as well.

The programming determines the rules of the game. But within the rules there are many ways to play.

 

[HughJasolphd]

But the question I have is does it matter how attractive the girl is to the girl you're trying to get the attention of? I imagine they'd directly correlate your SMV with the girl you're seen talking to/hanging out with. If she's bad as ****, I could see some type of jealous streak rising..but say she's just an average chick-do you think she still gets curious or blows it off because the girls looks are lesser than hers perhaps?

 

[AttackFormation]

But the question I have is does it matter how attractive the girl is to the girl you're trying to get the attention of? I imagine they'd directly correlate your SMV with the girl you're seen talking to/hanging out with. If she's bad as ****, I could see some type of jealous streak rising..but say she's just an average chick-do you think she still gets curious or blows it off because the girls looks are lesser than hers perhaps?

Depends on the girl doing the judging, I'd think.

 

[Trump]

But the question I have is does it matter how attractive the girl is to the girl you're trying to get the attention of? I imagine they'd directly correlate your SMV with the girl you're seen talking to/hanging out with. If she's bad as ****, I could see some type of jealous streak rising..but say she's just an average chick-do you think she still gets curious or blows it off because the girls looks are lesser than hers perhaps?

All that matters is that you are attracted to the girl.

Point wasn’t to use other women as gimmicks to raise interest level. Use other women to neutralize any emotional “power” the girl you like may have over you. (ie spin plates!)

 

[flowtheory]

Straight up tell the woman that holding out sex or power games won’t work. Leadthe relationship. Women get away with a lot of things - as do some men - in exclusivity because people get too attached and don’t speak up.

I’ll never have any qualms about showing women I’m fine by myself. They learn fast. And if you’re actually a good catch, they won’t push any envelopes too far. Just have to remind them that you got things done before them.

No one is holding out on intimacy to become powerful. Not my ideal relationship. Can’t be opponents. Both people want connectedness and intimacy; that’s why they’re together. So why do people play games to be in control of something that can’t be controlled? It’s weakness and fearful

Add: if you get frustrated or annoyed with a woman; she now knows that’s an area to control you by. For most men it’s sex. If I’m making out and things are getting heavy then all of a sudden a woman pulls away and says it’s too soon, I’ll literlaly be like “yea I agree” and put my shirt back on. They take my shirt off the next few minutes. They say “oh you act so blyfriendlike in public and it’s too fast” I say “I respect you. I’ll let you kiss my lips and rub my shoulder then. I want you to feel comfortable”. In the next 10 minutes they’re close and constantly glancing at my lips or giving me opportunities to get close.
I simply see women are just fishing to see how they can get the upper hand. But this can all be dismantled by agreeing with what she says and amplifying it a little bit more than what she proposed. Because it’s not what she ACTUALLY wants.

Girl “I need space. A week”
Guy “good idea. Take 5 instead”
Girl will contact in 2-3 days.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Straight up tell the woman that holding out sex or power games won’t work. Leadthe relationship. Women get away with a lot of things - as do some men - in exclusivity because people get too attached and don’t speak up.

I’ll never have any qualms about showing women I’m fine by myself. They learn fast. And if you’re actually a good catch, they won’t push any envelopes too far. Just have to remind them that you got things done before them.

No one is holding out on intimacy to become powerful. Not my ideal relationship. Can’t be opponents. Both people want connectedness and intimacy; that’s why they’re together. So why do people play games to be in control of something that can’t be controlled? It’s weakness and fearful

Its better to show them versus telling them. Once you said it more than twice and she continue on her agenda you will start being "bytched out"

 

[flowtheory]

Its better to show them versus telling them. Once you said it more than twice and she continue on her agenda you will start being "bytched out"

Also depends on the woman and how respectful she is. I’ve had some where you’re correct.
Current one I have now. She listens and there’s lots of respect so it’s easier. But I’ve also showin her I will walk away and told her through stories that I take no guff these days.

There’s a post in the DJ bible about teaching women boundaries. It’s effective. Relay the point through past interactions with other women.

 

[R.U.G.]

Funny, one of the women I am dealing with tried a sh!t test with me today.. I said, hey, if you can't make it, no problem, I'll take one of my friends. She got all pissed, but she came into line. So important to keep in frame and not allow a woman to throw you off base. If she wants to walk, not only do you allow her to walk, but you even open the door and roll out the red carpet. A woman hates to know you have options. Again, never lose frame. Don't argue. Don't get upset. Be respectful and say not a problem. Ultimately, she as the option to ride with you or bail. One sure way for her to bail is for you to beg, chase and accommodate each and everything she wants.

Women, especially after sex, live for drama. So, a man being the yes dear, carrying her crap, a chauffeur, and not starting any drama is boring in her mind. Whereas, for most men, we'd love some peace and quiet. Women are certainly wired differently. You need to cause waves in the ocean. The big thing is NOT to make big deal about it when you see her. Don't bring it up, just say, we had a difference of opinion and let's not talk about it and enjoy our time together. Simple as that.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Grab 'em by the pvssy.

They might attract the wrong kind of woman.

 

[flowtheory]

Funny, one of the women I am dealing with tried a sh!t test with me today.. I said, hey, if you can't make it, no problem, I'll take one of my friends. She got all pissed, but she came into line. So important to keep in frame and not allow a woman to throw you off base. If she wants to walk, not only do you allow her to walk, but you even open the door and roll out the red carpet. A woman hates to know you have options. Again, never lose frame. Don't argue. Don't get upset. Be respectful and say not a problem. Ultimately, she as the option to ride with you or bail. One sure way for her to bail is for you to beg, chase and accommodate each and everything she wants.

Women, especially after sex, live for drama. So, a man being the yes dear, carrying her crap, a chauffeur, and not starting any drama is boring in her mind. Whereas, for most men, we'd love some peace and quiet. Women are certainly wired differently. You need to cause waves in the ocean. The big thing is NOT to make big deal about it when you see her. Don't bring it up, just say, we had a difference of opinion and let's not talk about it and enjoy our time together. Simple as that.

I think women create drama as a means to get the excitement that the man no longer provides. If you continue to always have adventures, seduce her, learn about her, plan dates, fill your own cup.. You won’t help but look attractive in her eyes. She will see drama is superfluous.
But women who are unhappy will destroy everything you have and take shots at you in the process just to get some or any excitement going.

This is why it’s ALWAYS important to stay on your purpose and use women as an outlet for enjoyment. You and her will both appreciate it. Same goes for women. I’m not her girlfriend and don’t need to her her whine about her friends or boss.

 

[R.U.G.]

I think women create drama as a means to get the excitement that the man no longer provides. If you continue to always have adventures, seduce her, learn about her, plan dates, fill your own cup.. You won’t help but look attractive in her eyes. She will see drama is superfluous.
But women who are unhappy will destroy everything you have and take shots at you in the process just to get some or any excitement going.

This is why it’s ALWAYS important to stay on your purpose and use women as an outlet for enjoyment. You and her will both appreciate it. Same goes for women. I’m not her girlfriend and don’t need to her her whine about her friends or boss.

Yes, use them for your enjoyment, but they should have a good time too. Women do drama either as a test to see how you react or just because. If you are looking for rationale from a woman within a relationship, good luck. It would be like finding a needle in a haystack; blindfolded.

 

[longtail]

How do you attract multiple women?

Confidence, right?