Why don't women give you closure....

[Murk]

Fvck the closure, I’m done with that. Bit more conviction in the man you are.

I posted very recently about 2 broads I banged that tried ghosting, I gave both the “ok cool” treatment, I’m going on a date tomorrow with the one I like and the other today texted me all day saying she had pregnancy symptoms (she’s on the pill I’m not tryna hear that).

Just focus on yourself, women come and go, none of us have even met the woman that will give us the best sex so far, I believe that.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I know exactly what you mean in both senses. In 4/5 times I've been dumped that's what happened, usually both.

What im really talking about is very rare, like the only sign we were going to break up was she started licking my ***, then we broke up a week later lol. We had a mini breakup earlier where she cooked me a huge meal (had never cooked one before) then we broke up. There are women like this, like you come home and the house is empty no warning.

Mini break up was what? Checking out a dude and he kicked her back?

 

[Ranger]

I know exactly what you mean in both senses. In 4/5 times I've been dumped that's what happened, usually both.

What im really talking about is very rare, like the only sign we were going to break up was she started licking my ***, then we broke up a week later lol. We had a mini breakup earlier where she cooked me a huge meal (had never cooked one before) then we broke up. There are women like this, like you come home and the house is empty no warning.

Was this a girlfriend or plate? If it was a plate...there’s no excuse. You deserved it.

I also look at “I love you” with experienced eyes. They will tell you that just before they bolt.
I didn’t catch it before hand. I’m talking as much as weeks earlier.
These are pretty normal LA. Including what she did to you. She parted with a going away present. Take it and be thankful. She could have ran a red hot poker up there while you were sleeping.

 

[Ranger]

Mini break up was what? Checking out a dude and he kicked her back?

Of course. Early warning sign that many men don’t look at because it’s too rough and emotionally upsetting.

 

[Murk]

Of course. Early warning sign that many men don’t look at because it’s too rough and emotionally upsetting.

Sometimes it’s her legit tryna kick out from the guys bullsh1t but the sex and familiarity draws them back

 

[Ranger]

Sometimes it’s her legit tryna kick out from the guys bullsh1t but the sex and familiarity draws them back

True but that guy doesn’t give a fuk one way or another. LA is talking something different.

 

[Murk]

True but that guy doesn’t give a fuk one way or another. LA is talking something different.

Never been there, touch wood

 

[Ranger]

I learned about a year ago, something that I follow religiously.
A woman always reads her texts. Within a few minutes actually. During shopping. During a workout. It doesn’t matter. So there’s no excuse.

In my mind I use a line from the movie “the hunt for red October”.

Sean Connery turns to his 1st officer and says to him. “One ping. One ping only Vassili.”

For a woman. “One text. One text only.” Right after a session of passion. She read it almost immediately without fail.

If she doesn’t text back. I will NEVER send a second one. Not ever. It has never worked. It’s over. Now if she texts me back the next day or two with blah, blah, blah....
Bull$hit. She was busy alright. I don’t care.
It’s a sign every time.
If she then starts talking sex...I will text back and tell her to stop talking and meet me.

There’s small things that men allow women to get away with every day. Here’s the problem. You are already emotionally attached if you even have the impulse to buy into garbage.
If their bull$hit is true...they will be right over to make it up to you. Or even kiss you and drop to their knees the second they get there.
Desire is a funny thing. If she says “I love you.” Just remember it’s not an idealist love. It never will be. Take her for who she is, handle it, and just enjoy her laugh and sensuousness. Stop expecting so damn much from them. They don’t know what that means. It’s like speaking an alien language to them. When the feminine parts of her leave...it’s over.

 

[Murk]

Yep they always on phone, never double texted since I wasn’t 25, I can allow some distance between texts but (and I’ve noticed this with the younger ones) any forced prolonged texting gets no response until they into line with the pace I set.

I set a quick pace, in life, business, women. I value myself and take an aggressive stance to everything, siege mentality.

This is my me and Sara (house mate) are at loggerheads, I am not willing to go st her slow pace. I will plough through anything regardless unless you show me I should stop.

 

[Ranger]

Girlfriend lol. IDGAF about blame game I'm am talking about pattern recognition. I am grateful for that haha, tbh she was my best GF so far. Totally pleasant, no fights, just loved to cheat.

You have been on here long enough to be a master and way past that stuff LA. LOL

 

[AJ84]

Men are Direct and use Logic for Reasoning. We are also confrontional to test our SMV.

Women are Indirect and use Emotions for Reasoning. Women use Social Acceptance to test their SMV.

To understand Women: You have to reverse your Men Mentality....

Ex: What make sense for a Men doesn't make sense for a Women.

Like some PUA used to say back in 2008: ''If it doesn't make sense for you as a Man, better apply it to seduce the Woman''

In short: Women who don't give closure = Women who tells you ''NEXT'', I am not interested in you dude

There are lots of men who also end things and don’t explain why. This isn’t a gender thing at all. This is so common with BOTH men and women.

And OP may be referring to the 21yr old he went on four dates with who didn’t show sexual interest and is now giving him the cold shoulder in the gym as per his thread on that situation.

Some people are just not going to give you a reason and when they go out of their way not to give you a reason, it’s a sign that you probably shouldn’t want to know why.

 

[Murk]

Girlfriend lol. IDGAF about blame game I'm am talking about pattern recognition. I am grateful for that haha, tbh she was my best GF so far. Totally pleasant, no fights, just loved to cheat.

Loved to cheat, and you tolerated this?

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

This seems to be true with younger women.

It would be nice if they atleast let you know where you stand instead of ghosting or having their texting activity drop off a cliff.

Are they afraid of hurting your feelings or do they see you as a back up option?

The only thing dropping off the cliff is her fertility and SMV.

Leave feelers and emotional jargon to women and small children.

#nextSet kuz

Man up. New girls are turning 18 everyday. You what mate?

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Don't let women pick and choose what standards they are held to. Set the bar high according to your expectations.

Women want all want the benefits that come with being a man, well guess what then they need to learn to communicate and resolve issues thru direct/overt communication like solid men do. They don't get a free pass in the board rooms of corporate America because they are "women" and seem to do fine. They are held to the same standards men are in the workplace. Why give them a free pass in their personal lives?

The only women I have ever been mentally attracted to were women that were willing to address issues head on and had the skills to do so. They were also the most mentally healthy and far less drama. Yep more rational like men, yet still feminine where it mattered. Kind of like @BeExcellent

Quite frankly I don't think most men are cut out to handle women like this. It threatens their masculinity.

Wtf did I read?


Women need to communicate? What are you? A middle age post wall woman?

Communication is what women pedal when they hit the wall and best years are over.

Top form SMV communicate with mouth on d. With proteins in her digestive tract.


Not doing it right.


Step it up.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Men are Direct and use Logic for Reasoning. We are also confrontional to test our SMV.

Women are Indirect and use Emotions for Reasoning. Women use Social Acceptance to test their SMV.

To understand Women: You have to reverse your Men Mentality....

Ex: What make sense for a Men doesn't make sense for a Women.

Like some PUA used to say back in 2008: ''If it doesn't make sense for you as a Man, better apply it to seduce the Woman''

In short: Women who don't give closure = Women who tells you ''NEXT'', I am not interested in you dude

+ 1

At least someone else here knows game and has seen a vagina before.

I Bert stare at most forum posts.


Good Post mate.

It's western culture whereby having a vag, value is assumed till SMV tanks.

Little does she know, each month, her fertility and SMV goes off the cliff further and further.

I hit on baeees, I have a laugh and I troll hard.

 

[The Duke]

Work and sex are two different dynamics.
They are not related. I doubt any woman handles her sex life like a board meeting. Lol

I don’t believe in the idea that men’s masculinity is “threatened”. They may not have much masculinity that’s for sure.
Men, as a rule don’t want a masculine/feminine woman. It’s not natural and is an illusion. Women do struggle hard to be men though. Have to give them that.

Men who say, “I want a woman who’s smart, analytical, Yada Yada Yada etc. are whistling past the graveyard. Who the fuk wants a woman who is a fake mirror image of a man? Most men aren’t gay.

Nahh thats not the point I am trying to make. You have taken it too far .

 

[soulforge]

It use to bother me but these days I just take a page from their book and give em a taste of their own chocolate. F0ck em

Same here man, If i'm done with a chick or she is done with me, I swiftly move the fuk on!

Don't want, or need or give her closure.. It's dusted.

 

[sazc]

I dont owe them a thing and its nothing they wouldnt do to me if they lost interest.

I used to hate getting ghosted and I wouldnt ghost, instead trying to send a gentle exit message. Then I stared reading this site and many men posted the above statement and I realized, no one owes me anything and I dont owe anyone anything. So now I just do my thing and dont worry about the people who havent even invested themselves INTO my life.

Think about it, you are letting perfect strangers affect you. These are people whom have invested NOTHING in you or your life but you are allowing yourself to be butthurt by there actions/in actions. Why? Maybe you just need to develop a 'thicker skin'? But, truly, take a step back and consider why you are allowing people whom havent invested in you or your life, to affect your life.

This is a good thing to work out in terms of general life. When people really dont matter, dont let them affect you.

 

[Spaz]

Don't let women pick and choose what standards they are held to. Set the bar high according to your expectations.

Women want all want the benefits that come with being a man, well guess what then they need to learn to communicate and resolve issues thru direct/overt communication like solid men do. They don't get a free pass in the board rooms of corporate America because they are "women" and seem to do fine. They are held to the same standards men are in the workplace. Why give them a free pass in their personal lives?

The only women I have ever been mentally attracted to were women that were willing to address issues head on and had the skills to do so. They were also the most mentally healthy and far less drama. Yep more rational like men, yet still feminine where it mattered. Kind of like @BeExcellent

Quite frankly I don't think most men are cut out to handle women like this. It threatens their masculinity.

With this mentality I can predict ur past relationships, even ur current one (if u hv any) and the outcome of any relationship u might hv.

And it's not looking good.

 

[Spaz]

Girlfriend lol. IDGAF about blame game I'm am talking about pattern recognition. I am grateful for that haha, tbh she was my best GF so far. Totally pleasant, no fights, just loved to cheat.

She didn't fight and was being pleasant towards you merely to facilitate her cheating on you.

How is it that u r grateful for that?