Mentally ill women

Billtx49

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Perhaps it's worthy to consider that some men here might be BPD compliant :eek:

Here are some ways BPD manifests in men:

  • Sensitive to criticism while responding with aggression
  • Controlling through criticism
  • Holding grudges
  • Fear of rejection played out in jealousy and using sex to alleviate his feelings of rejection
  • Rejecting relationships – when he’s been offended by someone, he hates them; he sees people in good or bad absolutes
  • Jealous or possessive insecurities, but emotionally detached from relationships
  • Using alcohol or drugs to relieve his constant free-floating anxiety
Sourced from; https://reflectionsrehab.com/blog/borderline-personality-disorder-men-common-co-occurring-disorder/
Your post reminds me of some past and current forum trolls…
Could be why they’re attracted to mental disorder threads to deny/deflect that it exists…
 
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So you don't believe the psychologists and psychiatrists that is this is a genuine, real disorder?


The entire mental health community is wrong, and you...….are right?


Is that what you would have us believe?
Yes I do. Why? If one knew the cause of something...they would cure it. Give me the name of one person who has been cured.
Anyone can see the symptoms of someone In trouble. The only cure they have is to drug them.
 

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Yes I do. Why? If one knew the cause of something...they would cure it. Give me the name of one person who has been cured.
Anyone can see the symptoms of someone In trouble. The only cure they have is to drug them.
But ranger that’s the importance of threads like this one.. a lot of young men come here and are too experienced to see the signs of mental illness and toxicity in the women they date.

They come here to understand that what they went through isn’t unique, and that they have the power to realize what they’re dealing with and how necessary it is for them to walk away.

That’s the only defence to sociopathic/mentally ill women or women who display those kinds of toxic behaviours.
 
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Every mass shooter to date was on prescribed psychotropic drugs or was trying to come off of them but their brain chemistry has been permenantly altered because of some “mental health” issue.
These police articles and FBI articles are out there. These law enforcement personnel KNOW this.
The media won’t report it. This is no conspiracy theory.
If it’s listed...a person can then be prescribed with drugs.
So no. I don’t believe it. Only trained victims suffer this. Why is that?
There are plenty of non conspiracy articles and studies on these so called mental health things.

If a result or condition cannot be reproduced, it’s a theory. Not science.
 
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But ranger that’s the importance of threads like this one.. a lot of young men come here and are too experienced to see the signs of mental illness and toxicity in the women they date.

They come here to understand that what they went through isn’t unique, and that they have the power to realize what they’re dealing with and how necessary it is for them to walk away.

That’s the only defence to sociopathic/mentally ill women or women who display those kinds of toxic behaviours.
Women will never be non-toxic to feminine men. Never. Those women will always trash them. This is a brutal, brutal environment and it’s empowered by politicians and media.
How does one fix this? Pumping and dumping. Never accepting one for an LTR. Having your children with surrogate mothers.
Spinning plates and having over fifty women under your belt.
 

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Your post reminds me of some past and current forum trolls…
Could be why they’re attracted to mental disorder threads to deny/deflect that it exists…
Wrong. I never denied it exist.

I participated by giving constructive ideas on how best to deal with it.

You on the other hand have done what exactly besides trolling this thread ?
 

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How does one fix this? Pumping and dumping. Never accepting one for an LTR. Having your children with surrogate mothers.
Spinning plates and having over fifty women under your belt.
I agree.

But some men have to learn the hard way to get to there, first we have to show them how important it is to identify toxic women so they can either be pump dumped or avoided altogether.

Knowledge is power, not everyone coming here is experienced enough with women to recognize how toxic they can be right away.

That’s the problem with toxic women.. they prey on unsuspecting or feminized men and the potential of the true damage they inflict may not become apparent till it’s too late and the guy is still hooked to the woman because of shaming, blaming, gaslighting, and good sex. It becomes chemically addictive.

It’s easy for us to say “just get out!” but for a lot of men still trapped in these toxic relationships it’s not always that easy.. that’s why understanding the true nature of what they’re up against is so important.
 

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Wrong. I never denied it exist.

I participated by giving constructive ideas on how best to deal with it.

You on the other hand have done what exactly besides trolling this thread ?
I have never referred to you as a troll in denial. Like most men on the forum, I express my opinion when I want to. Overly sensitive today are we?
Btw, appreciated your constructive post.
 
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I have never referred to you as a troll in denial. I express my opinion when I want to. Overly sensitive today are we?
Btw, appreciated your post.
Seems my post abt BPD men has elicited an emotional response from an intellectual with an inherent passive personality... :rolleyes:
 

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Seems my post abt BPD men has elicited an emotional response from an intellectual with an inherent passive personality... :rolleyes:
It was a logical response to an accusation, but thanks for thinking I’m smart and the psychoanalysis …
 
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I agree.

But some men have to learn the hard way to get to there, first we have to show them how important it is to identify toxic women so they can either be pump dumped or avoided altogether.

Knowledge is power, not everyone coming here is experienced enough with women to recognize how toxic they can be right away.

That’s the problem with toxic women.. they prey on unsuspecting or feminized men and the potential of the true damage they inflict may not become apparent till it’s too late and the guy is still hooked to the woman because of shaming, blaming, gaslighting, and good sex. It becomes chemically addictive.

It’s easy for us to say “just get out!” but for a lot of men still trapped in these toxic relationships it’s not always that easy.. that’s why understanding the true nature of what they’re up against is so important.
I understand what you are saying. I’m saying that it won’t save them. People are generally predisposed to making the same mistake. Not because they don’t understand BPD but because a true one will still get ahold of them because there is something inside of them that predisposes them to fall for it. They have not removed the things inside them that subject them.

By concentrating on that, they thread their way out of being “trapable”
It should be really hard for a woman a bit over the edge because of her choices and eexperiences, to obtain a victim for her black widow drives.

I never once said that there is no such thing as women who don’t have evil intentions. That would be dishonest. I do not agree with the symptoms because they float over into several other “mental afflictions”.
Just pile them up and call it destructive intentions and tendencies.
A man who has removed his programming from the feminine imperative should never be concerned or suspicious. He just knows. He knows.
 
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There are far more butt hurt men that have turned vicious due to being wrecked. We should know this because we know that women have done more social damage than men.
Have you ever thought that this can be a driving force for revenge for women? Especially the weak ones. Well the same applies to men.
Who gives a damn what it’s called. I call it revenge from a warped mind. It’s a decision.
These women are way more socially astute than we ever will be. Do you actually think a man indoctrinated by the feminine imperative is going to spot her before he is emotionally invested?

You dream.
 
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There is another reason why a woman’s terminator comes out. I mean it comes out in full and hard core.

You can control the events in your LTR or marriage in a positive, constructive manner. She will follow.
But let’s say you should a little too much beta and she becomes destabilized.
So what you would call Hypergamy starts to show its ugly patterns.

We know through our conversations, some science and from Rollo Tomassi, that we have this biological pehemomena that we detect changes in patterns. This is a gift that we have because of our analytical powers. It’s biological and structured in our brains and nervous systems.

You start detecting pattern changes in your LTR/marriage. Dresses better. More make-up than normal. Started going to the gym. More perfume than normal.
You start getting that little buzzing in your nervous system. In truth, you know what’s going on but can’t admit it to yourself. So you start controlling more to stave it off. You start to supplicate and propitiate. Then you start getting angry possibly and start putting your foot down because she came home at 2:00am
You KNOW. Yet you still try to not let it happen.

There is one thing you cannot do that will bring out the evil terminator. That’s stand in the way of her breeding strategies. You will be crushed. Up to and including your death in some cases.
You are now blocking the worst thing you can ever try to do. Her biological breeding urges and decisions. It is fundamental and completely genetic. You get the devil from hell and she absolutely will not stop.

The hard part is that it’s hard to realize that you created the whole situation. You did it and then tried to block her genetic programming. That is every bit of BPD and more. Once that switch flips. Your done.

Many of these BPDs are the result of you getting in the way of her breeding strategy.
 

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It was a logical response to an accusation, but thanks for thinking I’m smart and the psychoanalysis …
Wrong again.

I said u belong in the intellectual personality quadrant, it basically means u r a nerd.

There r smart nerds and dumb nerds. At this moment I've neither confirmed nor denied that u r either one.

Feel free to ask for a psychoanalysis on ur personality...I'm feeling magnanimous today.
 

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Feel free to ask for a psychoanalysis on ur personality...I'm feeling magnanimous today.
If I ever feel that I need one I’ll consult a professional.…
You usually get what you pay for, but not always. Bottom line though, free isn’t worth crap in the real world.
 

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Do you actually think a man indoctrinated by the feminine imperative is going to spot her before he is emotionally invested?

You dream.
Exactly.

And even if a man has not undergone feminization it's highly improbable that he has the mental capacity to absorb the variables of lunacy in a crazy.

No 2 crazies r the same.
 

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If I ever feel that I need one I’ll consult a professional.…
You usually get what you pay for, but not always. Bottom line though, free isn’t worth crap in the real world.
If free isn't worth crap, why r u giving free advice in a free forum for men?
 

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Experience talks, bs walks. What exactly is your experience and education level as a psychoanalyst?
The need for details like a true intellectual.

Here's another one for you; you're had a tough childhood being an introverted boy and the ability to socialise has always had an adverse reaction to ur confidence well into ur adult life.

Am I right so far ?
 
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Experience talks, bs walks. What exactly is your experience and education level as a psychoanalyst?
That’s like having a liberal arts degree.
They’ve never cured a single person Bill. Just saying. And they have a very high suicide rate and drug addiction tendensies.
 
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