I agree.
But some men have to learn the hard way to get to there, first we have to show them how important it is to identify toxic women so they can either be pump dumped or avoided altogether.
Knowledge is power, not everyone coming here is experienced enough with women to recognize how toxic they can be right away.
That’s the problem with toxic women.. they prey on unsuspecting or feminized men and the potential of the true damage they inflict may not become apparent till it’s too late and the guy is still hooked to the woman because of shaming, blaming, gaslighting, and good sex. It becomes chemically addictive.
It’s easy for us to say “just get out!” but for a lot of men still trapped in these toxic relationships it’s not always that easy.. that’s why understanding the true nature of what they’re up against is so important.
I understand what you are saying. I’m saying that it won’t save them. People are generally predisposed to making the same mistake. Not because they don’t understand BPD but because a true one will still get ahold of them because there is something inside of them that predisposes them to fall for it. They have not removed the things inside them that subject them.
By concentrating on that, they thread their way out of being “trapable”
It should be really hard for a woman a bit over the edge because of her choices and eexperiences, to obtain a victim for her black widow drives.
I never once said that there is no such thing as women who don’t have evil intentions. That would be dishonest. I do not agree with the symptoms because they float over into several other “mental afflictions”.
Just pile them up and call it destructive intentions and tendencies.
A man who has removed his programming from the feminine imperative should never be concerned or suspicious. He just knows. He knows.
