btownbuck2012
Master Don Juan
Anybody who is toxic will give you that “slimed” feeling at some point. You feel it in your gut. I have a radar for that now.I just have a small tip and it’s possible that I am completely wrong.
Let’s say you are talking to a woman. Any woman. All of a sudden, after she said something or somehow changes her body language. That right there IS the communication. Her words are a manipulative smoke screen. To even participate is to empower it. That initial trigger IS the communication.
When the stakes aren’t high, ie not something you’re emotionally or financially invested in, I fight that fire with fire now.
There’s a guy out here in LA who is a sorta friend to a good friend of mine. I see him every now and then. He grew up in a foster home and is a pretty talented drummer but when he’s not getting a check for that he lives off the government. He’s a scum bag. He’s always competitive in every social situation. Always trying to outdo people even when there’s no need whatsoever for that type of behavior.
He played basketball with us a few weeks ago and was acting a fool the whole time. Taking the trash talk way overboard and just acting like an *******. I finally looked at him and said calmly, loud enough for everyone to hear, “haha that’s why no one likes you and you have no friends”
That cut him deep and he kept his mouth shut for the rest of the game. Typical for his type. They bully others until you cut them deep and then they pout and try to act like a victim. In fact if he would have kept it up I would have dropped an insult about his dad he never knew, lol. I could care less with people like him. They ask for it.
I consider myself to be a pretty good and empathetic dude but I have no tolerance for stuff like that. I hit people like that hard when I have the chance. F*ck em.
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