Thoughts on women in general - related to my last thread

[Spaz]

I stopped dating mine, took her for granted.

If she ever came back and i fixed this, could it ever work?

There's plenty to be fixed but on another woman - my suggestion.

But if you still insists then...

ONLY if she comes back, and that's a big if, then it must be on ur terms.

She must be able 2 assimilate within ur frame. Otherwise it won't work.

 

[RangerMIke]

Well that's a case where she clearly just stopped caring. It doesn't mean she has to be a b!tch to begin with.

When she was b!tching, at some level she still cared. When you have to start worrying is when she doesn't give a fvck about what you do, as long as you are trying to stop her doing what she wants to do. If you had a b!tchy chick, and then all of the sudden she stops, and starts putting more effort into changing her appearance... then there is a good chance there is another dude in the picture.

 

[AttackFormation]

Her behavior really isn't all that important if you are trying to gauge their loyalty. All women are always on the look-out for a better option based on what she feels she needs. A better indicator of loyalty is her social conditioning and her past behavior. If you are with a chick that's had a lot of boyfriends, you likely have a chick that is not very loyal. If you are with a chick that comes from divorce, where she was not raised with her father, this is another high risk factor. They all have the trait that instinctually draws them to monkey branching, some chicks, maybe 40%, are capable of overcoming this urge in the interest of reason. But many of these will exhibit b!tchiness and letting herself go if you fail to deliver what she wants, this is her way of punishing her man for not meeting her emotional needs.

If you are NOT delivering emotional stimulation to your LTR chick, she will get bored and shake things up... @LARaiders85 is right, b!tchiness is a indicator of loyalty.... I can't tell you how many times I heard a story from a friend that said, "Man, I don't know what happened.... sure we had problems but things were getting BETTER, she had stopped all the nagging and b!tching and things were going well. Then out of no where, she dumped me and a couple of weeks later, she posting pics on Instagram with her new BF."

She stoppped nagging because she didn't give a fvck about the dude she is with, and found a better, higher branch. When she is nagging her man she is either trying to change his behavior to something she wants, or she's trying to drive you off. Either way she wins in her mind.

You didn't specify that the women cheated, but regardless... there are a bunch of factors that predict how likely a person is to remain faithful. Not news to this forum but if a chick displays these:

- Parents who cheated
- They've already been unfaithful
- Lack of empathy
- Alcohol and drug use
- Neurotic
- Impulsive
- Decoupling of sex and intimacy
- More sex partners (probably the biggest "duh" on the list, but it's worth thinking about whether more partners makes a person more likely to cheat, or whether people who were already more likely to cheat also tend to have more sex partners)

... Then you're sitting on a land mine.

... But there's one more. One of the traits was that more "satisfied" women are more faithful (duh), the problem is you can't interpret what that means if you're blue pill. I think your post explains what "satisfied" and "dissatisfied" means for a woman and that's why I quoted it.

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[zekko]

When she was b!tching, at some level she still cared.

In your scenario, there is a change in behavior. If she was never b!tchy to begin with, there is no change in behavior.

 

[djthiago1]

There's plenty to be fixed but on another woman - my suggestion.

But if you still insists then...

ONLY if she comes back, and that's a big if, then it must be on ur terms.

She must be able 2 assimilate within ur frame. Otherwise it won't work.

I'm actually starting to have second thoughts about this now that the infatuation is lifting.

She had some extreme anxiety which made it nearly impossible to go to highly social places, we couldn't even go to a party, and the way she's bad at communicating... man, the amount of stuff she laid on me on our last conversation was amazing, she threw on me numerous times she cried at home because i said or did something (she cried very easily) which could all have been avoided if she simply tried to talk or get a better explanation,pretty much all of them had a reasonable explanation, i'm a nice person by nature, seems every time something possibly bad happened, she would keep it hidden, build resentment, and only after try to get an explanation, can't say if that's because she is dumb or unexperienced, or if her anxiety was so severe that she had to avoid any possible discussions, all of them are bad in my opinion.
Her anxiety was so big she couldn't pass her driver's test, and she's 22.

I've always had this faint feeling in the back of my head that she would be the type of person that would rely on me a lot if we got married, i never felt she was very self reliant let's say.

When something weird happens to me, i try to figure out what's up before going into depression. That's me. I never had been so surprised by a girl before in my life, and i consider myself a very perceptive guy, i've been around here and studying women for ages. Baffles me.

 

[RangerMIke]

In your scenario, there is a change in behavior. If she was never b!tchy to begin with, there is no change in behavior.

Well if she was never b!tchy to begin with then you have a chick that is happy with what you are giving her and/or she believes you are the best you can be and she believes she is the best you can do. Or, she never really cared that much about you... in this regard you are just a place holder, and never felt there was any real commitment on her part. Chicks can pretend they really like you, just because she doesn't want to be alone, or use you for some other purpose.