marvinlfloresq
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Think before you act.
Instincts r those experiences you've accumulated over time.Not gonna lie i don't believe in this idea that your gut is a detective either, my instincts are fvcked and lead me astray all the time. My gut reactions lead me into trouble all the time.
Generally, the more time i think and analyze, the better my decisions become
Is this your "Spider Sense" tingling lol. Its all good bro. I'll buy you a beer if I could. We are all here to help, I would hope. Thats why I am here. Peace.I already know that you're only fvck a maximum of maybe 2 to 3 women in ur entire existence. And this is me being generous.
And all of them dumped you.
I'd also profile you as one of those boys who continually orbits women in the hope she's going to take some interest in you.
There's no point lying.
Proven documented science. But I believe in letting a man decide his own fate. No matter how much he is willing to destroy himself. A man who doesn’t trust himself is no leader. Is no man who is willing to risk all to achieve his dreams.thank you.
Finally, someone with common sense. Not this "spider man instinct" stuff.
Ranger, would this man be you? I dont understand whos the quote for? I know its not me.Proven documented science. But I believe in letting a man decide his own fate. No matter how much he is willing to destroy himself. A man who doesn’t trust himself is no leader. Is no man who is willing to risk all to achieve his dreams.
He’s not even willing to try or look at something outside his limited view.
“Let them that’s gonna die out, die out. The rest will feast.”
Anonymous
if youre already thinking this way then it’s probably already happened.My question is - How do you handle dealing with wife who you think cheated, but you have no conclusive proof?
I completely understand your reasoning. This is faulty thinking in the world of women.You think I would jeopardise my assets, jeopardize the well being of my children, over
A "I think" mentality? Are you serious? Enough with this spider man nonesense.
The more you know, the better your decisions are.
You expect this guy to believe what you've written ? He doesn't have much of any instincts due to lack of real life experiences and have to be dependent on Google-ing "something stronger then wine" to counter ur assertion LOLTrust your instincts means become a better man and protect yourself. You will NEVER have evidence. The getting her drunk idea is rather stupid. Women are never that stupid.
LMAO. That’s funny.You expect this guy to believe what you've written ? He doesn't have much of any instincts due to lack of real life experiences and have to be dependent on Google-ing "something stronger then wine" to counter ur assertion LOL
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If counseling "worked" for you, that's great. No matter how you slice it, that's extremely emasculating, bottom line. If you can take being emasculated from your own "wife" and continue down the road with her, good for you. I don't see many self respecting men taking being cucked from their own wives. You can get counseling for that but honestly, unless he's f*cking chicks left, right and center or beating the crap out of her, there's not much reason for her to be out f*cking other guys. It takes both sides to make a marriage work, can't simply shift to blaming him because she cheated, that's dumb.You are funny. He asked how to handle a wife who he "thinks" cheated.
No its not a hallmark card. I lived this situation. Had to get counseling and survived. He's married, not in high school. "They have to talk about it", they may have assets.
He's not even sure what happen, so, read the severity of his delema. Sure, run away, and then what, repeat the same mistake? Women who have interest dont cheat. Besides, you think its that easy to just leave her? She's his wife for christ sake. Omg you kids these days....
Yo, read and understand before you voice an opinion, what would happen if nothing has happen and he starts a fire?
Op needs to be sure before taking action. Then he can chose to leave or work it out. Grow up already, this is serious ****.
I absolutely believe in this frame.Thinking back. There is a point in a relationship where you look into her face and see a particular look. An expression maybe.
A marriage can possibly recover from a lot of different inconsequential things.
But nothing will replace the true desire you both felt.
I am no longer of the idea or thinking that a woman’s “cheating” isn’t his fault. Hear me out. Being angry at women or swimming around in pain
Is from still thinking that it’s the woman’s nature that we have to overcome or work around.
It’s not. Yes. It’s your fault she’s cheating.
As long as a man thinks it’s her fault. In any way. He clings to some beta parts inside him. He keeps one foot in the old thinking. That maybe this thread of an idea or that one, still holds truth.
When I finally accepted that I made her that way. I could see the truth that was right in front of me. We, being born into this crazy place, fell into a $hit storm. We knew something was definitely wrong.
All of these things that people see as truth in relationships are forced upon us.
Despite the fact that it didn’t feel right or those first few dates where we saw how nothing matched what the world thinks is truth about relationships, that was the point we missed. You have to go into agreement with the lie in order for you to perpetuate the lie.
So yes it’s his fault. It’s all his fault. Not because he is a bad person or something else. He made a choice at some point, to follow the feminine imperative. Everything that has happened from that point on he needs to own up.
How to tell when a woman no longer loves you: Think back to that point where you looked up into her face and you saw “resentment”.. that was the point. She resents you for not being who you promised to be. Even though she acts independently to undermine it due to her biological reasons that in most cases, she doesn’t even know exists. It was still your responsibility to be that man.
That would be accepting responsibility. Until you do that, you have one foot in hell. The place where slaves are made.
Women will always make everything man’s fault. You won’t change that. But she has absolutely no clue why she thinks it’s your fault. She is just spouting a mantra the socialist agenda gave her.
A woman’s frame will never be “right” when it comes to sex or relationships. To give into even one little thing she throws out there as truth, is to put your foot into a bear trap.
In my estimation, if a man tried to modify any of this to encompass any of the feminine frame he will fail.I absolutely believe in this frame.
In terms of masculine leadership then yes a man must be absolutely responsible for failure in his relationship with women.
The true power in a relationship actually lies with the man.
The root cause of many relationship failures is because men gave up that power or never fully assumed his leadership mettle.
However, once cheating has occurred, a man's only viable option is to cut loose and better himself for the next.
100% certainty.In my estimation, if a man tried to modify any of this to encompass any of the feminine frame he will fail.
Oh that’s golden. Fitting another puzzle piece.100% certainty.
The only way to circumvent this is to have an EQ that's higher then a woman's.
This is where age plays a factor.
If she is close to you in age then she will have an higher EQ as opposed to you.
Slowly but surely she will lose respect in the end and that's when things start to fail all around.
It kind of depends on the person.thank you.
Finally, someone with common sense. Not this "spider man instinct" stuff.
this is why it's different when women cheat than when women doTimes i've been cheated on, it was fairly obvious when paying attention, and i was always right.
Hence, i would suggest that you are probably correct in your own assumption, and i won't question it.
I'm talking physically having cheated - not emotional cheating. That is a massive can of worms, and a shocking subject tbh.
Regarding what to do? You should never say anything. It gets you completely nowhere - though that ship has sailed. If she's cheated, then she has given you absolutely no choice but to get rid of her, regardless of your history or anything else.
Hell, they basically resent you if you don't dump them at that point.
Last situation i seen of this in my circle was a guy we knew his mrs was cheating for a long time, but nobody wanted to burst his very delusional bubble. Eventually this girl told him. He lost his mind, hit the girl in the face (i'm not joking), then went and cried and begged to his wife not to leave him. She stayed, but she despised him for it. 6 months later left for another guy.
Women aren't men, and they can't respect you anymore after something like that. Even if you did it from some better part of yourself, the result is the same. When you are in such a sh1t position, dealing with someone who is basically fvcked in the head, the only winning move is not to play.
What happened to the OP of this thread? No response from him yet.My question is - How do you handle dealing with wife who you think cheated, but you have no conclusive proof?
I made the mistake of confronting her without definitive proof.....I began reading tomassi & kay too late to know stfu.
I've been on the self improvement program, lifting, eating better, reading everything I can find on married red pill sidebar.
I'm running the MAP, improving myself to the point where I'll be fine or better off if this marriage ends, by mine/hers/mutual decision.
In the mean time - it is gut wrenching, and while I accept and believe in the red pill, after being blue pill my entire life - I'm unplugging and it hurts.
Advice wanted
Likely a troll. Seems to be a lot of those around here lately.What happened to the OP of this thread? No response from him yet.
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