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He probably scared them. You can't just randomly go up to chicks and ask them out, that's very strange behavior. He's not the worst looking guy in the world, probably just quirky.
 

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Yeah, that's a mistake I made early on. Just going up and asking for a number is pointless. You need to spark some interest and observe some mutual attraction before asking for a number. I think the reason he had no success is obviously his lower SMV but he could have had some success if he had a bit more game. Although, watching a guy like that makes me realize I'm pretty lucky in terms of SMV (on top of work of course). Being 6'1 and broad shouldered versus short and a bit strange.

That said, I always go back to the guy who used to get laid the most off Tinder that I knew was 5'4! I lived with him for a year, dude was a natural alpha. Pure game, banged some of the hottest trashy women. Tattoos, big fake tits etc etc. Game makes all the difference.
 

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That said, I always go back to the guy who used to get laid the most off Tinder that I knew was 5'4! I lived with him for a year, dude was a natural alpha. Pure game, banged some of the hottest trashy women. Tattoos, big fake tits etc etc. Game makes all the difference.
What is so great about banging tramps? I would consider it getting a freebie from a hoar.
 

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dude was a natural alpha. Pure game, banged some of the hottest trashy women. Tattoos, big fake tits etc etc. Game makes all the difference.
I'm with MatureDJ on this. Okay, he gets laid a lot, but I'm not sure that banging a bunch of trash makes you alpha.
 

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I'm with MatureDJ on this. Okay, he gets laid a lot, but I'm not sure that banging a bunch of trash makes you alpha.
I agree but it's what most guys seem to think the goal is. There was some definite HB8 and 9's in there. But they were typically young and/or damaged.
 

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Typical nerdy personality, excessive body language/hand movements + with a squint eye = not attractive
 

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He has very narrow shoulders too. Did he miss the part about hitting the gym?
 

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What is so great about banging tramps? I would consider it getting a freebie from a hoar.
I'm with MatureDJ on this. Okay, he gets laid a lot, but I'm not sure that banging a bunch of trash makes you alpha.
That's a no true scotsman though unless you can make an objective standard of what counts and doesn't count that everyone agrees on which isn't obviously biased, something simple like "no trannies, no fatties, no addicts, no mentally ill chicks, etc."

But if you can just use arbitrary standards like "she's not hot enough" or "she's not classy enough" then you could do that about any girl and suddenly banging taylor swift isn't an accomplishment lol
 

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@MatureDJ :
That video was pretty funny. I had to look twice before I realized it was the same guy. He was so happy after his "workout". God bless him, he's trying at least, got to start somewhere. Maybe he needs to get on some gear. Flash forward to his next video and he looks like Captain America. Actually he does kind of look like Steve Rogers before the Vita-Rays!

Who the heck video tapes his first workout? And then posts it?

But if you can just use arbitrary standards like "she's not hot enough" or "she's not classy enough" then you could do that about any girl and suddenly banging taylor swift isn't an accomplishment lol
I'm not saying it isn't an accomplishment, maybe it is to him. I'm just saying that alone doesn't necessarily make him an alpha.

However, bear in mind that I think a lot of this alpha talk is ridiculous to begin with. And that I've never believed that an alpha should be defined solely by his relationships to and with women (although I guess for practical purposes, that's all guys here care about).

By the way lol, I'm sure there are a lot of guys here who would tell you that Taylor Swift is hideous and that banging her isn't an accomplishment. I don't think she's unattractive, but she's a little tall for my taste. Plus she started looking a lot more glamorous once she was able to move into a higher grade of makeup and makeovers. Besides, status isn't really an attraction factor when it comes to women. I guess it would make for some bragging rights, I guess, or turn into a song :)
 

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By the way lol, I'm sure there are a lot of guys here who would tell you that Taylor Swift is hideous and that banging her isn't an accomplishment.
Just like how on two and a half men: Alan a broke man ****ed by multiple divorces criticizes his much richer brother for banging but not committing to a series of hot young bimbos, of course there will be sour grapes lol


Besides, status isn't really an attraction factor when it comes to women. I guess it would make for some bragging rights, I guess, or turn into a song :)
Sure but it adds to the difficulty of getting her and adds to the audience of people who will know and respect you for your great deed

The money is more important tbh, going out with a really rich girl would be a blast since iirc taylor swift once bought a house next door to some guy she was dating so clearly she's not shy about spoiling her men
 

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The money is more important tbh, going out with a really rich girl would be a blast since iirc taylor swift once bought a house next door to some guy she was dating so clearly she's not shy about spoiling her men
Sounds a little stalker-ish.

Sure but it adds to the difficulty of getting her and adds to the audience of people who will know and respect you for your great deed
Just like everyone would congratulate some girl if she got to blow some rock star backstage, eh?
 

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Sounds a little
Oh yeah it was pretty creepy and stalkerish, hilarious when that relationship didn't last long


Just like everyone would congratulate some girl if she got to blow some rock star backstage, eh?
If you had any investment in her sexual conquests or liked to talk about wild sex stories with her: sure.
 

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There was some definite HB8 and 9's in there. But they were typically young and/or damaged.
Well i'm jealous tbh! Did he have an EXCEPTIONALLY handsome face out of interest? I can't imagine a guy that short banging loads of really hot girls to be completely honest. Especially on tinder!!! Also , how old was he? (you say some of the girls were 'very young')

Tinder is less 'game' since you are already pre-selected so it's usually a matter of guaranteed sex as long as you don't COMPLETETLY screw it up on the meet. Again, hard to imagine with a 5ft4 guy but i'll take your word for it!
 

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Well i'm jealous tbh! Did he have an EXCEPTIONALLY handsome face out of interest? I can't imagine a guy that short banging loads of really hot girls to be completely honest. Especially on tinder!!! Also , how old was he? (you say some of the girls were 'very young')

Tinder is less 'game' since you are already pre-selected so it's usually a matter of guaranteed sex as long as you don't COMPLETETLY screw it up on the meet. Again, hard to imagine with a 5ft4 guy but i'll take your word for it!
To be fair, he is attractive. Bad boy covered in tatts, plays in a band, Tinder profile was all professional photos of him playing in the band shirtless, showing all the tatts. Every woman I met that he hooked up with was basically the example of daddy issues so it's not like he was pulling top shelf women, but they were often hot. Still, very short and had the natural alpha mentality. He was in his 30's but looked younger. Point being though, he was shorter than almost all the women he dated, they knew his height before they met him. So height can be an issue, obviously, but don't let it defeat you.
 

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To be fair, he is attractive. Bad boy covered in tatts, plays in a band, Tinder profile was all professional photos of him playing in the band shirtless, showing all the tatts.
Ah, he plays in a band, that explains a lot.

But the guy in the "first time with dumbbells" video is shirtless, too. Maybe some girls will see it and that will get him laid. :)
 

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Ah, he plays in a band, that explains a lot.

But the guy in the "first time with dumbbells" video is shirtless, too. Maybe some girls will see it and that will get him laid. :)
Captain, that statement is highly illogical.
 

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This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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