video: Why I Stopped Asking Out Girls - Pick Up Artist Advice Does Not Work

[sosousage]

He probably scared them. You can't just randomly go up to chicks and ask them out, that's very strange behavior. He's not the worst looking guy in the world, probably just quirky.

what? althrough i hate rating people by their look, he looks below average.

 

[sosousage]

no amount of PUA advice will help you if girls perceive you as below average or average.

this is so simple rule but a lot of men fails. men think they will talk to some women and that woman will get interested in them. maybe it was like that before but now with all that social media and dating sites women can pick way above their league.

so why would they pick some creepy guy if they can get tall, ripped and handsome guy from tinder (even if he will just pump them or fake relationship)

 

[wifehunter]

Poor guy gives way too many fukks.

 

[IKO69]

what? althrough i hate rating people by their look, he looks below average.

Ok, he's not a GQ model by any stretch of the imagine, but you cannot say he's the worst looking guy in the world. You've probably seen worse looking men in public who are married/have girlfriends out in public. That was simply my point - you can't completely peg it solely as a looks issue.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Yeah, that's a mistake I made early on. Just going up and asking for a number is pointless. You need to spark some interest and observe some mutual attraction before asking for a number. I think the reason he had no success is obviously his lower SMV but he could have had some success if he had a bit more game. Although, watching a guy like that makes me realize I'm pretty lucky in terms of SMV (on top of work of course). Being 6'1 and broad shouldered versus short and a bit strange.

During when pickup was underground, late 90s, esp early 2000s, mystery method before entering mainstream, these were the glory days. Now a days, you have scrubs, incels, soy boys, low testosterone, cucks, and male feminist. Its ridiculous.

Its not that pickup doesn't work. Its that, 99% of guys suck at it, and moreover, its not as easy as the infield portrays when in actuality, that was approach 1000,001. Game is all encompassing from pulling, to charm, social equity, lifestyle, and a variety of things.

I am reading Sapiens. Its debunked "all men are created equal" when we know value and not every man is. At our base of essence and existence, there's a component of likeness, that being life. Alternative, even at IQ, height, competency, resources, sex appeal, and a variety of things come in play. Based upon your SMV, you will have either a harder or easier time at pickup.

I once read "total recall," Arnold Schwarzenegger. He deemed EVERYTHING in life comes down to REPS. Its the same with Mr. Olympia, politics, acting, business, etc. Obviously, one must play the hand they are dealt. And play it to the best of their ability.

That said, I always go back to the guy who used to get laid the most off Tinder that I knew was 5'4! I lived with him for a year, dude was a natural alpha. Pure game, banged some of the hottest trashy women. Tattoos, big fake tits etc etc. Game makes all the difference.

+1

But, your point of trashy women isn't the greatest up sell.

The best Playboy I knew was a foot shorter. Didn't lift. Was ethnic. Played into all the stereotypes for not getting baeeeeeees. Guess what? He cannot fail. He won the game. Its environmental factors play a part.

If as a child, a man had bad experience with women, teachers, and classmates, it seeds on a man's self concept. If his father is a beta to the point of being furniture, he's no further ahead.

I think sifting through pickup and red pill as to what works. Its like peacock theory and it becomes s gimmick. Its negs, men are blatantly insulting women when uncalibrated and socially inept. Blames pickup for being **** with women. Neg theory is clutch. Its a disqualification and a subtle acknowledgement that a woman is flawed despite this girl power rubbish.

Its not shocking why women ESO liberals and feminists fresk out about pickup or red pill. Its in contrast to hypergamy. Moreover, you have psychos and incels who are unable to comprehend social cues (+ women's victimhood epidemic whereby, not getting the ring results in false rapey accusations), it gets chaotic.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Ok, he's not a GQ model by any stretch of the imagine, but you cannot say he's the worst looking guy in the world. You've probably seen worse looking men in public who are married/have girlfriends out in public. That was simply my point - you can't completely peg it solely as a looks issue.

True but its likely before IG, girl power, and open hypergamy on steroids.

He would struggle in any gen but this time line won't be pretty.

 

[sosousage]

True but its likely before IG, girl power, and open hypergamy on steroids.

He would struggle in any gen but this time line won't be pretty.

yea man hes so done tbh not gonna lie.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

yea man hes so done tbh not gonna lie.

The point is cultivation of being "that guy." Its a lost art. Its what separates the men and the boy.

 

[zekko]

Ok, he's not a GQ model by any stretch of the imagine, but you cannot say he's the worst looking guy in the world. You've probably seen worse looking men in public who are married/have girlfriends out in public.

It's only a looks issue in that he looks like he's a wimp, and to women that's worse than being ugly.