Gf thinks there’s no problem with hooking up

[Roober]

Women that sleep around are perfect for sex and good times. They are not the type of woman you get serious with or introduce to family.

Does Chad get to get serious when he wants it? Not usually. It's usually the stable man who's life doesn't revolve around his money, his p3nis, and his looks.

The hookup culture is like welfare. The psychological impact of constant instant gratification is designed to you keep in the system.

 

[DreamAgain]

Would rather pay a hooker than be with a girl like this for free.

Next her man.

 

[sazc]

Pursue a very psychologically damaged woman and you can get that fantasy and the aftermath…

I just read an article the other day that said emotionally damaged women were better in bed.

 

[Billtx49]

I just read an article the other day that said emotionally damaged women were better in bed.

I can testify to that fact……
They have almost no sexual boundaries. They take kinky to an unheard of level…
The man starts feeling like a do it all porn star because he gets almost zero push back from her about any boundaries …
They’re not that much better on technique, but the end result on the mans psyche is unbelievable …

 

[Mazer]

My plate is always asking me stupid questions pertaining to sex. She recently asked me if I would have kept seeing her if she put out on the first date. (Had sex on third date)
She has asked me twice in the last three weeks. She doesn’t see it as a problem. I immediately demoted her to just sex, I suggest you do the same. Let us know how it turns out.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Lurker here . I’m in a 2 month relationship with my gf and some things are bothering me . She thinks that there’s no issue with women having excessive sex and hooking up is ok to do as long as you are safe . She’s admitted to hooking up before and has 10+ sexual partners in her life .

Idk how should I feel but I feel weird and a little disgusted about this . Is it that I’m just insecure ? Perpetuating a double standard in that (we men can sleep around as much as we want but women shouldn’t)? Or am I justified in feeling a way about this ? In general the relationship is good besides the fact that she loves to smoke weed as often as she can . But idt that’s a deal breaker for me.

Thoughts ?

Yuck. We are doomed.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Idk how should I feel but I feel weird and a little disgusted about this . Is it that I’m just insecure ? Perpetuating a double standard in that (we men can sleep around as much as we want but women shouldn’t)? Or am I justified in feeling a way about this ? In general the relationship is good besides the fact that she loves to smoke weed as often as she can . But idt that’s a deal breaker for me.

Thoughts ?

Here's the thing. At the collective level, men failed to lead. Men behaving badly [immorally] toward women became the norm. It was Ok as long as men were 'just being men'. But then feminism came along, and wanted part of the pie... or all of it. It all then became a matter of 'equality'... mindless of whether that meant being equally bad.

So now that women are in on the game [actually, it is arguably more natural to them], the whole permissive culture has gone to pot. Basically, us men have to re-construct something from the ashes... or it will only continue to degenerate.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

lol, any woman with some minimum of sex appeal to some subcategory of male taste will have 10+ partners either by their late teens or early twenties depending on how outgoing she is. If she actually wants to get it, she can fvck 20 guys in a single year. That's what my ex plate told me she did after we broke it off and she was 18 or 19. You need to get it out of your head that women "don't have sex as much as men", it's just a delusion men believe to pacify their egos. Accept that they have far more access to sex and with hotter partners than vice versa for you, because that's reality.

Yes, but to shamelessly admit it. Most women are more modest than that..... Zero modesty? Run a mile....

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

After reading the replies which I appreciate I think I miscommunicated . She believes in monogamy and doesn’t believe in cheating not does she believe in polygamy ,but she does believe woman can be free to sleep around as much as they like when single. She says humans beings are sexual beings and monogamy isn’t even natural but it can be natural if you make it . She very much into science .

My biggest concern is whether this very open mindset can be Indicative of any future problems that might arise .

As a person thinks, so they are.... Ideologically into science? This is usually a justification for the most liberal behavior. I'd say she would lack a moral sense and self-restraint.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

As a person thinks, so they are.... Ideologically into science? This is usually a justification for the most liberal behavior. I'd say she would lack a moral sense and self-restraint.

So she's probably light on discipline, committment, long range planning.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

So she's probably light on discipline, committment, long range planning.

In a word, a flossie.

When are men going to realize that the encouraging of this behavior in women, for short term gains, only leads to long term doom.

It is the putting of you irrational 'needs' before your better rational self.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Here's a thought. What if men were to go on strike, just as women threaten to do. Who would cave first? No, wait, this has already happened in Japan, where no one is marrying, or having sex. The country is growing old and dying. Coming to a post-developed bankrupt country near you soon.

No world for old countries...

This puts another twist on the survival of the fittest...

 

[wifehunter]

Here's a thought. What if men were to go on strike, just as women threaten to do. Who would cave first? No, wait, this has already happened in Japan, where no one is marrying, or having sex. The country is growing old and dying. Coming to a post-developed bankrupt country near you soon.

No world for old countries...

This puts another twist on the survival of the fittest...

Nonviolent population control...could be worse.

 

[sosousage]

Lurker here . I’m in a 2 month relationship with my gf and some things are bothering me . She thinks that there’s no issue with women having excessive sex and hooking up is ok to do as long as you are safe . She’s admitted to hooking up before and has 10+ sexual partners in her life .

Idk how should I feel but I feel weird and a little disgusted about this . Is it that I’m just insecure ? Perpetuating a double standard in that (we men can sleep around as much as we want but women shouldn’t)? Or am I justified in feeling a way about this ? In general the relationship is good besides the fact that she loves to smoke weed as often as she can . But idt that’s a deal breaker for me.

Thoughts ?

she is HONEST with you

do you know what it means?

Chicks are never honest

They only are if they dont give 2 thoots about you


so yeah she probably will or is cheating on you




and what you feel is both anger against females and jealousy, maybe insecurity as well

 

[Ranger]

If she says 10+ and has that viewpoint on hooking up...
The plus sign at the end of that is actually 20 or 30 based on my experience. She is not counting parking lot or party bl@wjobs, handjobs and “slip ups” in her number. As well as being drunk doesn’t count as a f@ck. The ability to rationalize behavior is astounding.

I have trouble with the her being a “ho” explanation. It isn’t defined. What woman isn’t a slut when her breeding program kicks in?

 

[devilkingx2]

This thread is pretty toxic, I just hope you people aren't going to train this poor man to be a cynic who dumps every girl for minor nonsense and becomes bitter and jaded when he can't find a unicorn lol.

 

[devilkingx2]

Well I’m 23, I’m not really a go around and fvck everything kinda guy . I do want a life long partnership , do want a loyal wife and want kids eventually . She wants this too and we spoke about it but her mindset kind of concerns me . I don’t really care for the best sex I’ve ever got or anything like that .

She’s just a very open person . Like she doesn’t have any boundaries for me . She said I can go to clubs and dance on girls , I asked her if she would feel a way if I went to a strip club and felt on other women and she said she’s ok with it and that kinda bothered me . I am a pretty reserved lowkey kinda dude so Idk if it’s just I need to be more lively or she’s reslly Buggin out .

1. It sounds like you are a bit too uptight and nerdy, loosen up a bit fam.

2. I can give you 100 worse problems I've dealt with in a girl than "my girl is open minded and likes sex" don't ruin a good thing then spend the next 3 months dating girls that'll drive you up the wall with frustration bro. Wait until she actually does something bad/shady to worry about it. When she starts making mysterious new guy friends, partying every weekend but not allowing you to come with her, going on vacations to vegas with just her slvtty single friends, etc. That's when you have a problem. And that's when you should take action

 

[user43770]

I hate all these knee-jerk reactions around here.

@Chevelle95 just enjoy the good times and expect the bad. Keep your heart in your pocket and don't fall in love.

No need to throw the baby out with the bathwater lol.

 

[user43770]

Hard to find a chick these days that doesn't think that way.

Realize that you won't marry this woman, don't get her pregnant and try to have a great time.

If she disrespects you in some way, you get rid of her. Simple as that.

Which means you should also try to keep your game tight. Don't stop talking to women out in public. Make a point to make conversation with hotties.

 

[soulforge]

I hate all these knee-jerk reactions around here.

@Chevelle95 just enjoy the good times and expect the bad. Keep your heart in your pocket and don't fall in love.

No need to throw the baby out with the bathwater lol.

Yes Chevelle95, just listen to these guys.. No reason at all to do any RISK EVALUATION or screening for RED FLAGS at all.

Just enjoy the good times, for weeks, then months, then years (without getting emotionally involved) like that's going to happen right?

No reason to be cautious here.. Enjoy have fun, for as long as you want with this chick.

God forbid she does turn out to be a hoe a year down the line then we can always catch up again in the No Contact thread.