Dafuq???
It's not only about a drink. It can be anything else that enables you to be close to each other with a chance for a kino, laughter, joking, body language. It's about the vibe and developing intimacy.
You are hitting a ball over a net 20 + feet away. There is no personal contact nor is there any real talking. You are just volleying back and forth. I di activity dates on date number two, not one. Reason being, we do not know each other and we cannot get to know each other hitting a ball back and forth; especially if it gets competitive.
Been there too. Never seen so many prima donnas before.
Building. Gotta start somewhere.
Korea is a bit different than Bridgeport, CT.
Was thinking the same thing. You totally get it. Not every woman wants to drink alcohol with a new man on a first date as most of us know the potential intentions behind those kinds of invites. Plus a woman who is interested in doing something active and fun where you have an chance to show her your tennis skills?
Doubtful. Point is to learn and get to know someone. Can't do that over tennis.
Yea, go impress her,,,,,,, that the way to win her,,,,,
I kind of agree with Rick here. I suggested lunch/ dinner with a Chinese lady, and she suggested a bike ride instead. So off we went like the Famous Five... except minus the talking. Didn't get to know her at all. Awkward.
Community tennis court/ bring some coffee or another beverage, take a break sit down have a chat have fun it’s not like she asked you to complete a best 2 out of 3 match or anything.
Agreed
So bring a cooler of soda, chill, have one, chat, then play tennis.
That could of just been her and not the situation. Bike riding can be done side by side, stops, breaks etc.
I've met (and eventually dated) women I met in bars where you can't talk because the music is too fvcking loud. The only thing preventing you from turning a tennis date into a lay is YOU.
I get laid on date #4. However, I've never pushed a woman away when she wanted to fvck on date #1, or even date #0. If she gives the green light to go a little faster, step on the fvcking gas pedal.
Correct. You do that AFTER tennis. Invite her out to grab a non-alcoholic beverage, go for a walk somewhere, etc. You need to get used to the idea of grabbing any little opportunity you see and going for it. There is no set list of rules of where and how you're supposed to date a woman. She asks if you want to do something, you go with her, flirt, kino, and turn it into more. She opens the door a crack and you pull it open. Once you get used to the idea of taking advantage of any little opportunity that presents itself, you'll find yourself getting more dates, sometimes more than you can handle.
That's a 5hitty excuse to make up for your missed opportunity. Start with something fun and get to know her along the way. If you find out she's a cvnt, at least you had fun while getting to that point. That is how you avoid wasting time with a woman; you make sure you have fun while meeting and dating them.
If she wasn't interested, she wouldn't have asked to play tennis with you. Women won't go out of their way to play tennis with a random dude unless they have a bit of interest in him. You take that little bit of interest and keep feeding her reasons to be more interested. That's how you get a date outside of Tinder, POF and all that other bull5hit.
