Hypergamy... what to do about it.

[user43770]

My old guy argument has landed me a 5 year LTR with a woman who is 18 years younger. Prolly will end up marrying her or breaking it off.

And I hv also a plate who's been with me for roughly a decade, she's 9-12 years younger, can't remember.

Who among the younger generation with their new age ideology can say the same?

Relax. I never said you weren't getting layed, man. All I said was that your arguments don't hold weight here.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Your success will depend on the woman's age and maturity level. The ideal woman is young and inexperienced. At our age though, if a 20 yr old is having an LTR with us, she probably has mental problems (daddy issues etc.). So sadly, the ideal relationship is out of our grasp.

This is called cognitive dissonance.

For top form SMV to like you, she must be mental.

Try again.

Can you still get love and support from a woman? Absolutely. I'm doing it right now. But you have to realize that women our age know the game, so you're going to have to put up with strategic emotional outbursts.

Wtf are you talking about?

If not top form SMV, gtfo.

If she's toxic, gtfo.

These women have made plenty of men cave in the past, and they expect you to do the same.

All you have to do is fvck her good, show her love when she really needs it, and stand your ground the rest of the time.

All women want a man with a backbone. A man who will put her in her place when needed.

You guys need yo sim higher.

 

[user43770]

We're from the old school.

The point regardless is not subscribing to victimhood.

Balls to the wall. What do you want in this life? Go get it.

You want to manifest whatever it is you want in this life. That in and of itself is attractive.

There's no denying gross female nature. Skiing down cawk mountain. Running through Playboy's. Cucking their husbands. Murdering babies. Men don't abort children. Women do. Society normalize your inability t comment on the matter.

This **** is normalized. The problem being man tolerates skuzz.

Most are **** and chucks. Not house material.

I like your ideas, man, I just can't stand your presentation.

 

[user43770]

This is called cognitive dissonance.

For top form SMV to like you, she must be mental.

Try again.



Wtf are you talking about?

If not top form SMV, gtfo.

If she's toxic, gtfo.


You guys need yo sim higher.

What are you, 16 years old? All you contribute to this forum is wannabe poonking, boilerplate bullsh1t.

 

[zekko]

In every country men r being divorced by their wife's.
Asia is no exception.

I have no argument with that. We've reached a pretty high level of depravity here in the US though.

IMO, it's more to do with the lack of leadership on the man's part then anything else.

That's definitely a factor. At this point, it's hard to put the genie back in the bottle.

 

[user43770]

@DEEZEDBRAH let me see if I can find an original idea from you. A post where you say more than "fvck young women or gtfo." Wannabe poon king ass b1tch.

Have you ever actually given specific advice? Or do you just spout sh1t you read somewhere else? Seems like the the latter to me, young buck.

 

[Spaz]

That's definitely a factor. At this point, it's hard to put the genie back in the bottle.

Maybe this is the difference, even amongst the younger tribe men who grew up in the cities, they lack 1 inherent trait;

The mindset to be the best in anything and everything you do. Leading yourself 1st before you could even lead anyone else.

When I was young, this trait was continously thought to me by words and by physical training. Failure 2 do so will endanger your tribe, yourself and will likely cause real life death.

I cannot say for certain but I'm interested to hear other thoughts, perhaps this is what's lacking in young men.

 

[user43770]

Maybe this is the difference, even amongst the younger tribe men who grew up in the cities, they lack 1 inherent trait;

The mindset to be the best in anything and everything you do. Leading yourself 1st before you could even lead anyone else.

When I was young, this trait was continously thought to me by words and by physical training. Failure 2 do so will endanger your tribe, yourself and will likely cause real life death.

I cannot say for certain but I'm interested to hear other thoughts, perhaps this is what's lacking in young men.

I'm not that young. 33 years old. Hard worker, loyal, work in the thinking trades, fight for what's mine etc.

If you met me in the street, you'd want to give me a hand shake. I'm bald as a baby's bottom lmao

One thing I know is the game, though. I don't post here much these days, but I might show up now and again just to put you and @DEEZEDBRAH on blast.

 

[Spaz]

I'm not that young. 33 years old. Hard worker, loyal, work in the thinking trades, fight for what's mine etc.

If you met me in the street, you'd want to give me a hand shake. I'm bald as a baby's bottom lmao

One thing I know is the game, though. I don't post here much these days, but I might show up now and again just to put you and @DEEZEDBRAH on blast.

Blast ahead.

I can handle anything.

Btw I just posted a tip on how 2 get younger women despite hypergamy and nofap and mgtow ideology that you strong men over here espouse.

Funny, never seen any of these so called experts post any tip on getting women.

All I hear is the superpowers they attained.

 

[user43770]

Blast ahead.

I can handle anything.

Btw I just posted a tip on how 2 get younger women despite hypergamy and nofap and mgtow ideology that you strong men over here espouse.

Funny, never seen any of these so called experts post any tip on getting women.

All I hear is the superpowers they attained.

Yeah, I don't have any quick fixes for anyone. My advice is mostly on a mental level. Kind of like yours.

Lift weights, get as lean as you can, walk around like you own the place, treat women the same way. Don't be afraid to say 'Hi' to a woman. Keep a smirk on your face. Act like you've done this before, even if you're lying.

Fake it until you make it yadda, yadda.

 

[user43770]

@Spaz I grew up on sosuave, and I internalized a lot of this stuff without even knowing it. When real world situations arose, I felt like I'd been there before.

Some posters are destined to be lost. You know the ones, they ask the same questions over and over. They're probably low IQ. But if you have some sense about you, the game ain't that hard.

 

[corrector]

So a better alternative is to avoid women entirely? It seems like that's your suggestion.

For some people then it could be unless she is a true Christian that takes marriage vows seriously? I mean it's not to say that you don't be civil or nice with them as human beings. However, what you choose to do with your time/energy/resources, whether invest it, or waste it or be taken for a ride, is up to each individual choice. If a woman is not screened properly or has a bunch of red-flags, then yes, that woman should be avoided. Since 99% of women out there will have one red-flag or another or they are taken, then that could be a problem. If you are able to find a unicorn, from a good family/background, then by all means get involved with her. However, getting involved to look good to your peers, societal pressure, you just like her physically/superficially but there is no depth, relief from being an incel, etc.... are all bad reasons because you could by-pass the screening process and start dealing with anyone who is nice with you. This happens when there is not many options in the first place.

My advice: if the cup is full, take a big swig and enjoy every bit of it. The cup may be empty soon, but who cares...more cups will be proffered.

And a woman only has the upper hand if you give it to her. She may leave you, but you don't let that affect you.

Expect them to leave you.

Come on. We all know that this type advice only works if you don't like the girl in the first place to that extent. If it's that rare chance you meet a soul-mate and everything goes lovey dovey that's a totally different story. If you like her more than she likes you AND you have no options, AND you've waited 10 years or whatever before finding her then you'll feel devastated if she leaves or the relationship ends too abruptly and too short. (i.e. under one year).

 

[Spaz]

@Spaz I grew up on sosuave, and I internalized a lot of this stuff without even knowing it. When real world situations arose, I felt like I'd been there before.

Some posters are destined to be lost. You know the ones, they ask the same questions over and over. They're probably low IQ. But if you have some sense about you, the game ain't that hard.

I agree, the game ain't hard.

Which is exactly why I question the rational behind hypergamy, mgtow, nofap and other crap that so many keeps on posting.

Seems to me that many men on this forum are just posting ideas based on what they have read or saw in youtubes and passing it on. I am hoping to be proven wrong here.

@RichardTheFrog once asked me to post pictures of my women as prove that I'm not all talk, I did, he kept quiet at it. I've since deleted those pics as I'm still seeing those women.

Recently I've made a thread of a recent conversation-date-s€x I had with a new woman that's 20 years younger then I am. This I won't delete, as it's unlikely for me to carry it any further.

The only other person that I've seen who has shown real life skills is @guru1000 , he's posted the same.

And as for the rest, I've seen nothing except perhaps their veracity at memorization of pua, red pill, mgtow, nofap etc ideology and worst yet some pass it off as their own experiences.

It's more then likely many here has only had on average 3 relationships with women + heavy red pill readings + some other heavy YouTube learnings.

Some of you guys posts names I've never even heard of much less watch and it amazes me that many here seems to know them.

So yeah, out of curiosity I tried watching Corey Wayne. Pure salesman selling pitch. I have serious doubts that he even gets laid.

 

[user43770]

For some people then it could be unless she is a true Christian that takes marriage vows seriously? I mean it's not to say that you don't be civil or nice with them as human beings. However, what you choose to do with your time/energy/resources, whether invest it, or waste it or be taken for a ride, is up to each individual choice. If a woman is not screened properly or has a bunch of red-flags, then yes, that woman should be avoided. Since 99% of women out there will have one red-flag or another or they are taken, then that could be a problem. If you are able to find a unicorn, from a good family/background, then by all means get involved with her. However, getting involved to look good to your peers, societal pressure, you just like her physically/superficially but there is no depth, relief from being an incel, etc.... are all bad reasons because you could by-pass the screening process and start dealing with anyone who is nice with you. This happens when there is not many options in the first place.



Come on. We all know that this type advice only works if you don't like the girl in the first place to that extent. If it's that rare chance you meet a soul-mate and everything goes lovey dovey that's a totally different story. If you like her more than she likes you AND you have no options, AND you've waited 10 years or whatever before finding her then you'll feel devastated if she leaves or the relationship ends too abruptly and too short. (i.e. under one year).

I understand what you're trying to say. My mind doesn't work that way anymore.

I said it previously, but I prepare myself for the worst mentally, so there isn't much that surprises me.

I feel like you should still make an effort to be around women, bro. They're a headache, sure, but they're also a much needed spice.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

What are you, 16 years old? All you contribute to this forum is wannabe poonking, boilerplate bullsh1t.

Get your testosterone checked.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I have no argument with that. We've reached a pretty high level of depravity here in the US though.


That's definitely a factor. At this point, it's hard to put the genie back in the bottle.

Women got married back in a time when they kept their legs and mouth closed.

Neither is true present day. Moreover, its not about going backwards. Its time to go forward.

Women aren't going back. They aren't offering the sortbif value they once did. They're actually a liability from a financial, socioeconomic, and long term emotional deficit pertaining to loss of children.

Man hasn't evolved and his lack thereof adaptation to the vast amount of liability that is women especially in the west is not without any fallout.

Even for your rational above states to a problem but not a means to adapt or improvise and overcome.

If she's a *****, if she has IG ass pics, if she is a single mom or sjw, feminist, etc you do not bother.

If the laws require access to both current and future earnings as well as sexual access, you don't play that game.

Imagine the sort of monster a man would be deemed executing babies. What portion of western women to this regularly? You do not marry that mess.

 

[corrector]

I feel like you should still make an effort to be around women, bro. They're a headache, sure, but they're also a much needed spice.

I'm not avoiding them, it's the other way around. I don't get that much traction out there and don't feel my approach is invited, except, if I'm biking in the city island and people are like tourists or in a relaxed frame of mind or maybe in church. Most of the time it feels like you are bothering people unless you have a business excuse for approaching them. Even cashiers are not that friendly with me. If you keep getting negative feedback you are sort of going to say that's a bummer and move-on to something else. God has yet to smile on this area of my life, seems like a frown most of the time.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

@DEEZEDBRAH let me see if I can find an original idea from you. A post where you say more than "fvck young women or gtfo." Wannabe poon king ass b1tch.

Have you ever actually given specific advice? Or do you just spout sh1t you read somewhere else? Seems like the the latter to me, young buck.

Advice won't help you. For starters, you have really low testosterone and you've never seen a vagina before.

You mad?

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Maybe this is the difference, even amongst the younger tribe men who grew up in the cities, they lack 1 inherent trait;

The mindset to be the best in anything and everything you do. Leading yourself 1st before you could even lead anyone else.

When I was young, this trait was continously thought to me by words and by physical training. Failure 2 do so will endanger your tribe, yourself and will likely cause real life death.

I cannot say for certain but I'm interested to hear other thoughts, perhaps this is what's lacking in young men.

Lacking no doubt. I would add low testosterone. A victim complex. Likely raised by a single mom.

There's a predisposition to trying to be pretty. Its all really homo if you ask me.

I notice a trend among the youth, a trend of skinny jeans, being skinny as **** but dating slobs, women 10x their size. Also, too much beard. Not because men have beards but, again, a piss poor attempt to be pretty to get fat women. Bbws

Lol

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I'm not avoiding them, it's the other way around. I don't get that much traction out there and don't feel my approach is invited, except, if I'm biking in the city island and people are like tourists or in a relaxed frame of mind or maybe in church. Most of the time it feels like you are bothering people unless you have a business excuse for approaching them. Even cashiers are not that friendly with me. If you keep getting negative feedback you are sort of going to say that's a bummer and move-on to something else. God has yet to smile on this area of my life, seems like a frown most of the time.

Its irrelevant.

Its neither important nor about the feels. Its either in your nature or its not.

Be breaking rapport.
As in, cashier.. Go beyond hi/hello.

Every set is practice. Repeat.

Alex 4x rule.

Wash/rinse/repeat @ every set!


Its not the Superbowl. Its not game 7 of 7. Its practice. Every set no matter how hawtttt Is PRACTICE.

After enough sets, women are fairly obvious, and the location nor the whereabouts of the sun has little to no relevancy.

I've had chicks proposition me at work, coffee shops, gyms, grocery stores, and obv bars or clubs.

I ****ing love day game. Your not going nuts. Its more then enough to have your frequency dialed in day or night. Same approach day or night but tuned into the scenario. Its enough to be high enough energy that's breaking rapport.

The Game is money. Its old as **** but, its tidbits of game that doesn't change.

Leave her better then you found her is so money.

I've had women scream for me in a Starbucks or out shopping. Its not the club. Your not skull ****ing the cashier on checkout.

Its enough to be memorable. Its not about her or any one set. Its about being the sort of man who makes moves.

Its like chess. You are just setting pieces before checkmate.


High energy, absurdity, and stupid positivity, and outrageous enthusiasm all go a long way.