Any chance she might come back?

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Stop talking about her. Start doing what you need to do.
He will be thinking about her quite a bit, but he needs to start to putting those thoughts in his memory bin and Not in the active mental analysis department.
 

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He will be thinking about her quite a bit, but he needs to start to putting those thoughts in his memory bin and Not in the active mental analysis department.
If he can focus on his objectives and start laying with a new one asap he will not be thinking about that situation that leaves him starved .
 

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You became too available and needy mesaging her 24/7. In the end you did it to yourself.
 

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I'm always surprised with men that date single mommies and become emotionally attached, finally getting dumped, how do you guys do it?

Is there a lack of single young women in ur social circle?

Is it because u can only attract single mommies?

If u r a great man or a work in progress-potential 2 be 1, young available women would be chasing you...even more so for single mommies (if that what's rock ur boat).
 

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If u r a great man or a work in progress-potential 2 be 1, young available women would be chasing you...even more so for single mommies (if that what's rock ur boat).
Yea, just so he can experience, oops, honey, I'm late. I thought I was on birth control, guess it didn't work. Were you hoping for a girl or a boy? Please. Don't mess with the single mom's unless you want drama or an "accidental pregnancy". Keep in mind, there are no true accidental pregnancies. She wanted it to happen. Especially, if she won't take the morning after pill or have a vacuum up her tunnel of love to fix the issue.
 

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She likes you, but in my experience older women like men close to their age, and if she has kids... she prefers he has kids as well. It's not you... she just prefers a man that has kids around the same age as her kids. She can't talk about you with her friends without them judging her and it being weird. I don't know if it makes any sense to you, but women LOVE talking about the men they are seeing with their friends... and it is really hard for her to do that without being uncomfortable with a much younger man.
 

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She likes you, but in my experience older women like men close to their age, and if she has kids... she prefers he has kids as well. It's not you... she just prefers a man that has kids around the same age as her kids. She can't talk about you with her friends without them judging her and it being weird. I don't know if it makes any sense to you, but women LOVE talking about the men they are seeing with their friends... and it is really hard for her to do that without being uncomfortable with a much younger man.
I think he's in for a whole lotta pain if something goes wrong. If he walks away, I'll bet you a dinner at Morton's she'll be back. If he's gullible enough to take her back, well...
 

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she was adamant that we should take a break.
When you hear the above quote you know it's over, she's lost interest.
A woman with a real high-interest in you, wouldn't' want, nor need to take a break, anything you would do from that point onwards to revive the relationship is a waste of your time.
 

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I think he's in for a whole lotta pain if something goes wrong. If he walks away, I'll bet you a dinner at Morton's she'll be back. If he's gullible enough to take her back, well...
I think it's clear she likes him... but she's looking for something else, whatever that might be. If she doesn't find that I guess the OP will "win"... if you want to call winning that a chick settles for you.
 
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