At most bars and clubs, women go out in giant groups and approaching is crazy hard. Approaching during the day is crazy hard. Straight women are more selective and demanding in who they date than any other demographic of society.
I go to straight bars and the only women who show me obvious interest are 35 year old single moms. It's just not remotely comparable
You’re right, they are more selective and demanding in who they date. But dude...
“Approaching is crazy hard”
“Approaching during the day is crazy hard”
Nobody said it’d be easy! You’re stating obvious things.
The fact that you say doing nightlife group approaching and during the day approaching is super hard already tells us that you aren’t used to it or have any confidence doing it.
Yes it’s difficult, but it can become undifficult.
I’m definitely not saying I’m some master at it, far from it, but the point IMO is to do it enough times to where the approaching part doesn’t phase you anymore right? You could give two fvcks on the outcome because you’re an “alpha” who does wtf he wants and doesn’t let anyone get to him or affect his mood, no matter what his intentions initially were (which would be to pull a girl for the night or maybe number close during the day to set something up)
Believe me back in the day the thought of approaching women was scary af to me and I found out why...
I couldn’t handle the rejection that I knew would inevitably happen.
AKA- Zero confidence in myself and zero willingness to step outside my comfort zone to improve myself.
You haaaave to fail a lot before you see more consistent success.
How else are you going to change yourself for the better other than learning through experience. You can read a thousand books and read a thousand forum posts but they will only change you to a minimal extent. They will help facilitate the process and provide you knowledge but you have to take action.
Get out there with the mindset that it’s a hilarious game you’re playing with yourself and go get rejected 100 times.
I bet you won’t give a fvck eventually.