btownbuck2012
Master Don Juan
Has happened to me before. I actually consider it a blessing because BEFORE this happened to me I kept thinking I wasn't good enough, i.e. not enough money, muscles not big enough, game wasn't tight enough, etc.below are some things I dealt with
Thursday - I ended up making out with one the hottest strippers and one of the higher clubs and got her number and we were talking here and there...I’ve ****ed strippers and usually kissing is Big for them and if you can make out with one your in.....texting here and there and within 3 days she goes radio silent.
Saturday at pool party... I hit on one of the hottest chicks at the club and within two minutes of gaming her was grabbing her ass and she was letting me grab it and do whatever I wanted to do with it. Shaking it, grinding on my ****. She gave me her number and told me to text her that night...of course no response.
- Last night at club Liv I approach one girl with her four friends and within 20 minutes of aggressively gaming her she goes “you want to kiss me don’t you”. And of course i was making out at the bar with her in front of her friends. Not for two minutes either we made out for 20 minutes at least. By far the hottest girl in the group. I text her trying to get her to meet up later that night and it goes nowhere.
Thursday I’m bouncing at a high end club and I see this beautiful Persian chick a solid 8.5. It’s obvious she wants me to hit on her so I ignore her. As she’s leaving she comes up to me and hits on me. I text her that Night and no response.
Just curious if this is to be expected with 8’s up? Because I feel like I literally have these chicks in the bag and it goes nowhere.
BUT, after this happens a few times it opens up a whole other rabbit hole when you realize that it literally has nothing to do with you most of the time. The hottest girl I ever banged went radio silent after I took her down on our 2nd date. The sex was wild and she was going on and on about how she was going to come over and cook for me the next weekend and then complete radio silence.
Again, it's a blessing coming out on the other side of this and realizing what is really going on. Women are just incredibly flaky with the amount of attention and options they have via social media. Also, their personal issues (daddy issues, self esteem issues, alpha widow issues, being hurt in the past, the feminine imperative encouraging them that they don't need a man....and the list goes on) cause this flaking behavior to FLARE up big time....even after sex.
It's actually given me a-lot of peace in my heart because I've realized that I am A. good enough and that B. women have tons of issues, too. I can now calmly focus on MY life and really get a-lot more picky in the kinds of women I go after because I'm not sitting around with this FALSE belief of "If I'm good enough, women will drop their panties for me at the drop of a dime". It's more complicated than that. In fact, I can confidently say that as my value has increased the flaking and weird behavior I deal with from women has actually INCREASED.
I now focus on finding women that share my similar beliefs and that I have common interests and am compatible with. I have in the past vastly underestimated how important a woman's beliefs and character are in terms of something actually progressing or lasting.
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