Told her to cut the crap

[logicallefty]

Are there no more woman left in the world, op can invest his time in instead?

Why one more desperate attempt to try to get inside her VAG?

Most IMPORTANTLY the girl thinks of OP less than a dog, and does not even feel he is WORTHY of even a reply from a text message.. Why would a man of VALUE still want to try AGAIN to bang a chick like that?

Have some self respect and dignity... and move onto woman who treat you better!!
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There is truth to what you say. Is she worth this effort for one last lay when there are other women who are much less effort? And she may not be. But on the other side of the coin in a situation like this would be "How much effort has he put into this chick already?". At this point it may be worth putting in a little bit more to seal the deal so all previous efforts are not wasted.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

There is truth to what you say. Is she worth this effort for one last lay when there are other women who are much less effort? And she may not be. But on the other side of the coin in a situation like this would be "How much effort has he put into this chick already?". At this point it may be worth putting in a little bit more to seal the deal so all previous efforts are not wasted.

The effort required to seal the deal might be NONE though. Sometimes you gotta leave them alone and ignore them.

 

[soulforge]

There is truth to what you say. Is she worth this effort for one last lay when there are other women who are much less effort? And she may not be. But on the other side of the coin in a situation like this would be "How much effort has he put into this chick already?". At this point it may be worth putting in a little bit more to seal the deal so all previous efforts are not wasted.

Putting in a little more effort? SERIOUSLY!!

She does not even care to reply back to op, feeds him a bunch of lies... Has ZERO interest in him.

This is an INSULT, why would you put MORE effort into a chick when she is INSULTING you?

This is EXACTLY where men are going wrong.. Putting this much VALUE and effort into Puzzy!

 

[ZaCool]

Putting in a little more effort? SERIOUSLY!!

She does not even care to reply back to op, feeds him a bunch of lies... Has ZERO interest in him.

This is an INSULT, why would you put MORE effort into a chick when she is INSULTING you?

This is EXACTLY where men are going wrong.. Putting this much VALUE and effort into Puzzy!

iam actually quite interested where you get you info from, where did i mention she is not interested and is blowing me off ? yeah she didnt reply to two texts but i believe i made it quite obvious she reaches out at least few times a month and asks to meet all the time, dont play that macho alpha game with me iam not the one to fall for it, if you have something good to add then do it if not then leave this thread , dont act all tough to distract us from your own weaknesses , iam 100% cool with myself but i doubt you are

 

[ZaCool]

Even though there is a time and place to call women out on their sh!t, they will ALWAYS rationalise it to be your fault.

that is if they want it to be your fault, if they are okay with losing you they will have no issues making it your fault but if they want you they will not trust me, even with their instability and games women are still humans and they know that here is a fine line between being desirable and a b*tch, if she crosses that line she knows she loses and therefore will not dare to do it if she truly wants the guy .... what i try to do is find out every girls "line" or more accurately what i can get away with before she actually loses interest and moves on , i do it by dissappeaing from a while an dacting aloof to see how much she actually wants me, i know a couple girls that have been messaging me non stop for a year despite me making it clear i am only interested in sex and we will never date or be a couple and dont even make the slightest effort to contact them in fact i was trying my best to avoid them at some point ... this chick is the same , after a month or two of knowing her she started acting weird so i avoided her, stopped messaging and did my best to not run into her on campus, the results were not so bad actually she reached out and started talking to me more and showing more interest and when i once told her she flakes a lot (was joking) we ended up going on a date a week later ... calling girls out on their BS works you just gotta know who and when to do it to get it right .


as for the members who say i shouldnt invest in her, i havent really invested anything in her except words thats one, and two iam a busy guy i work 4 days a week study 3 plus exams, i dont even have time for a gf let alone going out to meet girls, at this point its not an option so iam doing my best to meet high interest chicks and keeping them around, maybe some of you are rich and can afford binge drinking at clubs 5 nights a week and hit on every pvssy that walks but for others that life style is not exactly desriable .

 

[Murk]

I like the part where you said you're this close to dropping her... like you even had her in the first place.

This thread is gay.

 

[soulforge]

iam actually quite interested where you get you info from, where did i mention she is not interested and is blowing me off ? yeah she didnt reply to two texts but i believe i made it quite obvious she reaches out at least few times a month and asks to meet all the time, dont play that macho alpha game with me iam not the one to fall for it, if you have something good to add then do it if not then leave this thread , dont act all tough to distract us from your own weaknesses , iam 100% cool with myself but i doubt you are

You made a thread on here asking about what your next step should be!

If you had your chit together, which you CLEARLY have not, would you even create this thread.

YOU WOULD ALREADY KNOW GIRLS WHO DO NOT MESSAGE BACK, or don't make an Effort are NOT interested.

You are not even banging this chick, and you made a thread about her. If a girl show LITTLE interest.. YOU SIMPLY WALK AWAY

NOT come on here crying like a little whiney BICH about what your next step should be.

What was you expecting? a big fuking cuddle and a Detailed guide, on how you could get your dik inside her!!

If you had any self respect and value, you wouldn't even entertain a woman, who isn't putting in a SERIOUS effort to communicate with you.

Instead you are taking her SCRAPS and hoping to get a lay out of it.. HOW PATHETIC!!

 

[soulforge]

I like the part where you said you're this close to dropping her... like you even had her in the first place.

This thread is gay.

This dude is talking about dropping a girl, who he isn't even banging.. What a joke!

No wonder her VAG has dried up for him, and she barely bothers to reply back..

Biches who want your DIK don't make excuses like they are Busy!

 

[ZaCool]

This dude is talking about dropping a girl, who he isn't even banging.. What a joke!

No wonder her VAG has dried up for him, and she barely bothers to reply back..

Biches who want your DIK don't make excuses like they are Busy!

Says the guy who finds a need to flaunt his muscles on an all-dudes site .... just goes to show how educated and quality you are .... let me guess you work in construction or some underground storage and your sex life is basically hitting on srunk girls each frisay night with some friends .... your opinions mean close to nothing and its a waste of your time you actually wrote them .

 

[ZaCool]

I like the part where you said you're this close to dropping her... like you even had her in the first place.

This thread is gay.

You and your gay buddy keep liking each others answers .... amazing youre so cool

 

[soulforge]

You and your gay buddy keep liking each others answers .... amazing youre so cool

OP came on here not for genuine advice, but ONLY to hear what he wants to HEAR.

When it's pointed out to him, that creating a thread over a girl he ISN'T even banging (and I don't actually blame her, I can see why she would ignore him)

OP resorts to GAY insults.. OP truely is the definition of a BETA male.

OP do you think this chick is wasting her precious time right now, making threads online about you?

Hell no! Do you know why? Because she doesn't give that much of a fuk about you..

Only YOU are putting this much value on her.. She doesn't even have time to reply back to you.

I'm sorry if my muscles intimidate you, or even turn you on!

 

[CBear]

This is one of those things where op has to look back at after a while to realize that it was a beta way to deal with a situation like this.
If you look at it from her point of view, it doesn't come across as "alpha behavior", it comes across as butthurt af.
Best solution will always be silence and distance.

 

[RangerMIke]

@Reykhel I am not trying to insult you... I am only responding to words on a screen. You are taking something as personal that is not intended to offend because I don't know you. I am an avatar and a pen-name, you are an avatar and Reykhel.... you are being WAY too emotional and you need to just relax and not worry so much about things.

My advice for what it is worth is simply this. Never let stuff chicks do, or don't do, get to you... don't get too happy when things go the way you want and don't get butt hurt when things don't. And if you are going to get upset with a chick (which you shouldn't do) then for GOD's SAKE, don't put it in a text so that she can show all her friends and laugh at you. If you are upset because a bunch of anonymous people, who you will NEVER meet, are commenting on this thread, I want you to think about the fact that you gave this chick a bunch of text that is being passed around to all her friends while they LAUGH at how clueless you sound... and they know your number and your name.... and some of these chicks you might find out in the future you are interested in.

It is never a good idea to call out chicks on normal chick behavior, it makes you look like you don't have a clue about women, but if you can't control yourself, then don't leave physical evidence. If you think a chick has disrespected you... then walk away... someone that places value in himself won't give a sh!t if some worthless chick is blowing you off. A man with options is not going to waste one second on her.... because he is too busy with other things.

Calling out a chick might make you feel better, but it will not make her respect you, unless she loves you.... and if a chick is not texting you and blowing you off... she really doesn't give e fvck about you.

 

[Murk]

Yes, self restraint always. Have some integrity and strength of character about you. Always give yourself a day cooling off period when in these situations, the time helps you re-evaluate the sitch but also displays a faux nonchalance that you will need to regain any frame you may have previously squandered. Ultimately, as cliche as it is, you need an abundance mentality and be on to the next one. It's what most situations need, it's hard to attain, I now have abundance but I feel like i'm not human. As soon as a chick shows deep emotion or care it's like I feel sick and auto-nexting. That can't be healthy either. I feel incapable of love now.

 

[marmel75]

I like the part where you said you're this close to dropping her... like you even had her in the first place.

This thread is gay.

Hahahahahahahaha

 

[marmel75]

OP came on here not for genuine advice, but ONLY to hear what he wants to HEAR.

When it's pointed out to him, that creating a thread over a girl he ISN'T even banging (and I don't actually blame her, I can see why she would ignore him)

OP resorts to GAY insults.. OP truely is the definition of a BETA male.

OP do you think this chick is wasting her precious time right now, making threads online about you?

Hell no! Do you know why? Because she doesn't give that much of a fuk about you..

Only YOU are putting this much value on her.. She doesn't even have time to reply back to you.

I'm sorry if my muscles intimidate you, or even turn you on!

Prettt much this. He keeps asking for what to do and gets told the same thing by mutiple different posters but continues to believe his way is right.

Carry on OP...expect this to continue to be a normal way of life with women, but it appears it already is.

As i have said many times in many threads to many OPs...

"Why the fvck are you asking for advice if you are not going to follow it??"

 

[ZaCool]

Prettt much this. He keeps asking for what to do and gets told the same thing by mutiple different posters but continues to believe his way is right.

Carry on OP...expect this to continue to be a normal way of life with women, but it appears it already is.

As i have said many times in many threads to many OPs...

"Why the fvck are you asking for advice if you are not going to follow it??"

i was wrong to ask anything on this site for a simple reason there is no good advice here, my goal when dealing with women is to tackle every single situation possible but that can never be done here, what you get joining this site are a bunch of rules and guidlines that any sane guy knows, if it doesnt work then you are either a loser or leave the girl alone and move on , no offense but members on this site bring nothing new to the table what the do is do a lot of claiming yet no real susbtance or advice, to give someone advice is to guide him the right direction while taking his life, point of view nad reasoning into consideration and that is never done on here , if you actually look at what most have said you will notice that they didnt even care enough to read anything i wrote, they read "told her " and immediately thought " what a weak beta male ! never tell a woman anything like that " in reality thought a lot of men expose women on the bs they do and get results , in real life women might be emoitionally unstable but they are still human beings who identify danger and know when they cross the line, and reminding them that you actually have lines is a far better strategy that hoping she's smart enough to figure that on her own after all just like we cant read their mind so cant they .... and playing that game of boundaries wont work for either party what it will do is make us both waste precious time .

take my situation for example , she was acting hot and cold, she has a bf as well, a serious one (she said to not worry about it ), she was still showing a lot of interest, and thought that whatever she was doing was working but she had no idea it wasnt, she had no idea all shes doing is making me mad and annoying me and out of politeness i was answering back, but now she knows that her ways are not gonna work anymore, whether she texts me again or not is irrelevant i made my point clear and what follows is kinda unimportant .

The guys on this thread made it look like i never kissed or touched a woman before and act like this is the first time i ever talk to a girl, i have dozens upon dozens of interactions with women, many dates, making out, touching and more, compliments, flirting back and forth ....etc iam by no means cluless i simply presented a situation that i've never experienced before and i thought it was weird cause i never met a girl who acted like that .... i have in the past told women exactly what i want and to cut the crap, as a result some loved me even more and others decided they never really wanted sex or anything serious and were stringing me along and apologized for doing that .... i hate to admit this but sometimes you just need some balls and i admit iam (sometimes) lacking but a lot of times i have no problem being blunt , and when she finds you hot being blunt is all the game you need .

this sounds weird doesnt it ? a guy a site asking for advice yet acts like he knows it all, for a start i dont know it all in fact no one does and i take into consideration all the possible answers before asking any question, but as i mentioned they just choose to ignore my words and focus on what they know, but guess what my friend , what you know may not always be true, realistic or even applyable in another mans life .

 

[ZaCool]

this reply made me chuckle a little.....pot? kettle? A bit of projection going on here......



Stop the lights.



Says Steven Seagal. Little on the reactionary side.

Give the kid a break, he's standing up for himself.



I got what he meant......looks like you were all jumping on the same bandwagon

Anyway, carry on........just a funny reply displayinig a little projection.

i thought my question was pretty clear and even explained it more than once , but for some reason they simply chose to ignore my words and go with whatever they believe i meant ....

 

[marmel75]

We understand your situation very well. Basically this women was wasting your time and you allowed it to happen then want us to help you figure out how to make her stop doing it.

News flash, we can't. She isnt interested enough. That's why you move on. Because the amount of effort you have been putting in this one woman is wasted and the effort should be going towards dating and finding New women.

Thats the best advice You'll ever get. Respect the fact that the most important thing you can give a woman is your time and only give it to those deserving of it, which she clearly is not in any way shape or form.

Basically your question boils down to "How can I raise this woman's interest level?" And the answer is its never worth the time and effort to even try. That effort is always much better served finding new women who have the interest level you want them to have.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

We understand your situation very well. Basically this women was wasting your time and you allowed it to happen then want us to help you figure out how to make her stop doing it.

News flash, we can't. She isnt interested enough. That's why you move on. Because the amount of effort you have been putting in this one woman is wasted and the effort should be going towards dating and finding New women.

Thats the best advice You'll ever get. Respect the fact that the most important thing you can give a woman is your time and only give it to those deserving of it, which she clearly is not in any way shape or form.

Basically your question boils down to "How can I raise this woman's interest level?" And the answer is its never worth the time and effort to even try. That effort is always much better served finding new women who have the interest level you want them to have.

Ha! So we nailed down the raising interest problem in general. At least for daters.

For a relationship guy interest has peaks and valleys so knowing how to alter it helps .

Perhaps if you feel low interest realize your too emotionally invested. Withdraw and raise priority on your purpose . If your just dating her fvxk someone else asap.