Closing?

[Chiguy]

Hey first post on here, finally got frustrated enough. so I have no problems approaching, no problems shooting the **** with a chick, and generally no issue getting them into me. But I'm such a ***** when it comes to actually making the move and asking for sex. I had a bunch of sisters and I think it just made me too nice, I always choke up and talk myself out of it, convince myself it's taking advantage of them, or they're gonna say no, whatever it is. So how do you all go about closing and how did you get over the stress of it? Help a newbie out

 

[spred]

You dont ask for sex.
You ask for dates, create rapport, escalate physically and then sex will happen.

you get over the anxiety of approaching by purposely talking with other girls for whom you dont have any interest (uglies, cashiers, waitresses, etc).

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

So how do you all go about closing and how did you get over the stress of it? Help a newbie out

Chi mate, welcome.

How old are you? Are you close to your family? Sisters? Any platonic girl friends? For just social conditioning, it's fascinating topic to bring up.

I prefer Rsd Tyler. His point about, because she dated Mike Tyson once, I am not going to get KO/fight advice from her. He's a sociopath but seems to be on the right track most of the time when he isn't going on nuts on a wild tangent.

It's about perspective. I perceive every set every pickup, and pull as practice. It's not the Super Bowl or champions league final. There's other girls and she's not the prize contrary to the girl power society we live in. Truth be told, somewhere out there is a man sick of shagging her. Food for thought.

The three sec rule is great for AA. Similar, it's ideal for making out. IMHO, it's the consent fear of sexual assault buyers remorse, and being accused of rapey. That 13 reasons TV show is a classic example of female logic and the risk a man runs when a woman is scorned not getting the ring.

Simply put, I lead. She follows or next.

Obv learn to go with the flow but, Rollo is bang on with 'frame.', set the pace. It's all practice.

Bottom line? Life's too ****ing boring not to try.

 

[wifehunter]

Good, you should screen first, then close. These days, you don't know where chicks have been.

 

[CBear]

I have learned over my many years that a lot of women do not want to feel like wh0res leading into casual sex, but once the sex actually starts, that's exactly how many like to be treated. Those conservative, coy, golden guardian walls come tumbling down and all of that sexual charge is released in an explosion.

 

[Chiguy]

Chi mate, welcome.

How old are you? Are you close to your family? Sisters? Any platonic girl friends? For just social conditioning, it's fascinating topic to bring up.


Im 20 and I was close with my sisters. and long story short there's been histories of very abusive relationships in my family that have led to me seeing and treating women too softly. I have plenty of Platonic girl friends and often find and am told that plenty of girls are really into me but I always beat around the bush too long and they move on as women do. I think it's just a core belief thing, getting over the idea women don't want sex as much as men. We're working on it

 

[Trump]

Hey first post on here, finally got frustrated enough. so I have no problems approaching, no problems shooting the **** with a chick, and generally no issue getting them into me. But I'm such a ***** when it comes to actually making the move and asking for sex.

Your ego is too high. You are worried about rejection.

I had a bunch of sisters and I think it just made me too nice,

Sisters make you better with women. They don’t make you too nice.

I always choke up and talk myself out of it, convince myself it's taking advantage of them, or they're gonna say no, whatever it is.

Eventually you are going to snap and make an aggressive aggressive move on girl. It will be make her nervous and you will get in trouble.

Lower the ego. Tell yourself you don’t ‘’deserve’’ sex with a hot young woman. Life is not movies.

 

[Chiguy]

Your ego is too high. You are worried about rejection.



Sisters make you better with women. They don’t make you too nice.



Eventually you are going to snap and make an aggressive aggressive move on girl. It will be make her nervous and you will get in trouble.

Lower the ego. Tell yourself you don’t ‘’deserve’’ sex with a hot young woman. Life is not movies.

There's more to it than that but you're not wrong. I do need to check my ego a bit, another thing I've been working on. I think like others have said I just need to let it happen rather than focusing so much on what I need to do to make it happen. If you're hitting it off with a chick and you both want to have sex the flow of things will eventually take it there. Trying to force it's just gonna make things harder.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

@Chiguy

Son, have a decade on you. In many ways, it's not your fault in a girl power society whereby, everyone is equal, affirmative action, crater smv, get fat be a slut no shame but, beta make shame men.

It's useless to not take ownership. It is far too easy to do and millennials are going that route or the low test, male feminist, cuck route. Why? They cannot compete as Jordan Peterson said on a JRE podcast.

Every set is practice. Every rejection, blowout, and crash and burn. Every flake or ghost. This is the world we live in. Society is pedaling girl power and cheering her ass off the cliff. Cucks are chasing after once they've cratered smv. Online reeks of low hanging fruit and 'proud single moms' as though this were something to celebrate. It coincides with participation ribbons and trophies. It's affirmative action.

You're 20. You got ways to go. Put in work Now. Build a life. Get edu as in, Seek self knowledge, explore consciousness, and have purpose. Do not pedal to the female biological strategy. If you are forged in fire, you will transcend when you come out the other end. Most men are betas, cucks, and low test following the beaten path. Get married to Chad's booty call, cratered smv, and raise Chad's babies when he best years are over. Every set, 'she ain't your girl. It's just your turn.'


Incels freaking the **** out are stuck on red pill rage. Truth be told, it is never ending, and game is never over. It's multi faceted. Acquire top form Smv (18-23). You wa t her best years. Not baby rabies. Not bulking season. At 30, the last girl I pulled was 23. Before that, the last throater, chick was 21.

Tomorrow, new girls are turning 18 everyday. Women more my age rage about women your age. Why? She missed the boat. She can't compete. She is not a free thinker. It's game over.


You got time on your side. I would trade game and resources to be 20 again. It doesn't work. Don't stick your toe in. Cannon ball in. Full on. If your not hitting it, who is?

Just refrain from detouring from your ambitions and dreams. Marriage and monogamy is not for me. Maybe it is for you but, have options, acquire variety, and pick from a place of selection versus marrying the first semi decent girl who picks you.

#nextset

 

[zekko]

You dont ask for sex.
You ask for dates, create rapport, escalate physically and then sex will happen.

After you fill out all the proper consent forms, of course.