Does divorce really mean loss of half your assets?

[Roober]

This is a silly question, it's like asking, does a bear sh*t in the woods? Answer, yes. Look, if you're married, have no pre-nup and/or trust and you have any real assets, you're going to lose a good bit, especially if there are kids involved plain and simple. You may be more ruthless if she cheats and you file but either way, unless she's desperate to get away from you, like she simply doesn't care about anything related to you anymore, you may get lucky. Most times though, you're getting taken to the woodshed regardless.

Just curious, have you been through a divorce? Assets are divided evenly and if a man was stupid enough to combine everything and let her work a low paying job, then the old saying goes... you reap what you sow

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Divorce means you get a huge **** in your ass, shaken down for your resources, and likely supervised visits to see children as if you were a pedo.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Just curious, have you been through a divorce? Assets are divided evenly and if a man was stupid enough to combine everything and let her work a low paying job, then the old saying goes... you reap what you sow

This is the equivalent of a male feminist.

Was he supposed to beat the **** out if her until she gets a real job?

Peterson pointed out, women date up in the dominance hierarchy and across culture whereas men date down. Way down.

It's no longer enough just to be young and on top form smv. It's all encompassing meaning, she has resources, has a good job, makes bank. No absurd debt, student loan or visa bills.

#nextset

Alternative is Netflix and chill.

You can't get her ass or her mouth pregnant.

Wait wut?

 

[Roober]

This is the equivalent of a male feminist.

Was he supposed to beat the **** out if her until she gets a real job?

Peterson pointed out, women date up in the dominance hierarchy and across culture whereas men date down. Way down.

It's no longer enough just to be young and on top form smv. It's all encompassing meaning, she has resources, has a good job, makes bank. No absurd debt, student loan or visa bills.

#nextset

Alternative is Netflix and chill.

You can't get her ass or her mouth pregnant.

Wait wut?

Agreed.

Men get it wrong when they see a beautiful woman with every other $hitty quality in the book, yet make her a wife or worse, get her pregnant.

Looks alone do not elevate a woman to your level, she needs much more than that.

Women without jobs, crappy credit, debt, single mom at 20yo, are plates only...

 

[Crosstimbers Okie]

First, I have the lowest opinion of the modern american woman and the divorce/family laws as anyone. But I think maybe this whole marriages always end in divorce and loss of half your assets is a little overblown and is misleading a lot of guys.

The fact is all things being equal spinning plates actually has more potential for pregnancies(not to mention stds) than a monogamous relationship. The logistics of controlling a pregnancy with one woman is a lot simpler than with multiple women. A pregnant woman you are not married to is as much or probably more a financial liability than one that you are. so it's no solution to the pregnancy and child support problem.

And about splitting half of the assets. It is possible that if you have acquired a lot of assets and you then marry a woman and she divorces you after a relatively short period of time, she could get some or half your assets that she did not contribute to. But really anymore women already have half your assets from the get go. They got it when feminism came along. And in most case they are bringing nearly half of the assets into the marriage and you are cutting your expenses since 2 people can live much cheaper in one household than in two. And statistically marriages last for several years. I have to admit though that in some cases women do make off with a guys assets. But for the same reasons marriage is fvcked up applies to the single life to.

Honestly a lot of time and money is spent perptually trying to find new plates. And the same reason why women don't make good wives also applies to why they don't make good dates, GFs, or FBs. it just doesn't seem like perpetual bachelorhood is much of a solution. And all the problems and shortcomings with it get downplayed and glossed over. Just maybe a lot of guys would be better off trying to find the best quality woman and being exclusive.

The end of my 23 year marriage cost me exactly half of my assets. Even though I contributed much more than half. She even got half of the marital portion of my pension, which came out to 40%, which the judge made a part of her estate.

But, even after losing half of my assets and 40% of my retirement, 100% of which was about half of my working income, I still have, with a part-time job, about 60% more disposable income than when I was married.

Divorce is expensive, but well worth it. The only thing better is never marrying in the first place. Better to get snipped & chase tail, or watch porn & jackoff. Your hand will do a better job than 80% of the women out there anyway.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Agreed.

Men get it wrong when they see a beautiful woman with every other $hitty quality in the book, yet make her a wife or worse, get her pregnant.

Looks alone do not elevate a woman to your level, she needs much more than that.

Women without jobs, crappy credit, debt, single mom at 20yo, are plates only...

They're all plates son.

#nextset