The sickness of the women in today's world

[lizardking82]

If they actually cared for that person and loved them, that's the actual love underneath the infatuation.

That is the only love available. Lust is just the foreplay to a possible love. Love is not an instinct, it's a choice, much less romantic than the books and the movies and the songs dedicated to it.

 

[Reykhel]

Massive red flag. I ask this question on a first date. "What do you think love is after the honeymoon phase of chemicals wears off?". It's actually interesting to talk about this stuff on a first date, but it's also reconnaissance.

Great input/observation from an experienced man.

Ok fellas, there are some men who wish to have a long term relationship or gasp shock horror there are men who know what they want and that
is to settle down, marry (yes I said it) and have kids.

If this is your "sexual strategy" or your long term goal...

You should be asking more than this type of question within the first two months.....

If you do want a wife and a mother of your kids.......you should be eliciting her values and her view of long term relationships/marriage/kids.................she should be a woman who wants the same things and has the same long term aspirations.

Weed her out within the first two months if she is not the woman who is looking for what your looking for in a long term mate.

Note: Personally I doubt if I would ever get married or have kids. That said, you simply must calibrate your "game" (strategy) depending on your "sexual strategy"

The op complains about women exiting out of relationships at the drop of a hat. We must ask the questions: is the op looking for a long term relationship? if yes, is he calibrating himself to find a woman who is looking for the same thing and is he calibrating his approach to cater for his sexual strategy?

You see, the op likes to give the impression that he's a plate spinning player who has a I don't give a fvck attitude. Is his behavior or approach one that is congruent to somebody who would actually like a long term fulfilling relationship?

The dishonesty in this thread is this 24 year old inexperienced kid complaining that women are jumping out of relationships at the drop of a hat.............yet, It's clear that he is not even entertaining the idea of a long term relationship.

Therefor, the op is just a complaining troll.

 

[lizardking82]

Que

He is obsessing over me, but I don't love him back LOL

 

[Reykhel]

Que

Autistic child. Try use the brain God gave you.

Would you view it as normal and healthy for a woman to have 60 one-year relationships?

This is easily one of the dumbest questions I've ever seen posted on sosuave.

 

[Reykhel]

He is obsessing over me, but I don't love him back LOL

you are like ****e on my shoe.

I have zero problem with you son, as long as you stay in your ****ehole worthless country.

 

[lizardking82]

you are like ****e on my shoe.

I have zero problem with you son, as long as you stay in your ****ehole worthless country.

Learn to answer back when I speak to you, not about you.

You invented this theory, btw.

 

[Macaframalama]

Funny, the last relationship I was in ended, because she wanted the whole house and kids bit, but I didn't. That one lasted two years and I met her, when she was 26. The one before that, same story. Met her, when she was 27. Lasted a little over a year. I understand the concept of getting them to invest and keeping them around for as long as I feel like keeping them around and I am completely forthcoming with my intentions and unwillingness to jump right in head first, despite their frequent escalation attempts. I could have married 8 or 9 damm good women over the years. Two years is nothing! It's not even a drop in the bucket in the overall picture. I've been with one woman for over 10 years. We were married for the majority of those 10+ years and had remained very close friends. She passed 4 years back and there were still things that I hadn't known about her, preceding her death. Just about every woman, that I have had some type of intimate relations with, I have met in the party scene, with the exception of my wife, who I met in highschool and most of those other women I had smashed same day. A woman quickly changes her tune, when she runs across a suitable male. Some men refuse, absolutely refuse to point that finger inward for sake of frail ego and shame the opposite sex for her reluctance to settle with a man, that she finds has been just another boy the whole time. What is good for the goose is good for the gander. If LTR is what you truly seek, step your chit up already, because whining about it isn't going to cut it.

 

[Reykhel]

Learn to answer back when I speak to you, not about you.

You invented this theory, btw.

Daddy calls the shots. The boy obeys.

 

[lizardking82]

Funny, the last relationship I was in ended, because she wanted the whole house and kids bit, but I didn't. That one lasted two years and I met her, when she was 26. The one before that, same story. Met her, when she was 27. Lasted a little over a year. I understand the concept of getting them to invest and keeping them around for as long as I feel like keeping them around and I am completely forthcoming with my intentions and unwillingness to jump right in head first, despite their frequent escalation attempts. I could have married 8 or 9 damm good women over the years. Two years is nothing! It's not even a drop in the bucket in the overall picture. I've been with one woman for over 10 years. We were married for the majority of those 10+ years and had remained very close friends. She passed 4 years back and there were still things that I hadn't known about her, preceding her death. Just about every woman, that I have had some type of intimate relations with, I have met in the party scene, with the exception of my wife, who I met in highschool and most of those other women I had smashed same day. A woman quickly changes her tune, when she runs across a suitable male. Some men refuse, absolutely refuse to point that finger inward for sake of frail ego and shame the opposite sex for her reluctance to settle with a man, that she finds has been just another boy the whole time. What is good for the goose is good for the gander. If LTR is what you truly seek, step your chit up already, because whining about it isn't going to cut it.

The reason I find it harder to enter a relationship is because I have actually stepped my game up. I now screen better, I ask the right questions at the right and bar one woman who made me feel like having a relationship but turned to **** anyways, no other woman has qualified. See, it's easy for me to just take one of the plates I have and go for a relationship. Some of them have already asked that, but I am not going to do it for the simple reason that they are not on board with what I want in a woman and that has become clearer by the day, what I want in a woman.

The more red pilled you become and the more you know women, the harder it is to settle in a relationship. I am willing to wait for quality rather than enter one out of insecurities.

 

[Macaframalama]

The reason I find it harder to enter a relationship is because I have actually stepped my game up. I now screen better, I ask the right questions at the right and bar one woman who made me feel like having a relationship but turned to **** anyways, no other woman has qualified. See, it's easy for me to just take one of the plates I have and go for a relationship. Some of them have already asked that, but I am not going to do it for the simple reason that they are not on board with what I want in a woman and that has become clearer by the day, what I want in a woman.

The more red pilled you become and the more you know women, the harder it is to settle in a relationship. I am willing to wait for quality rather than enter one out of insecurities.

That's just the way it is, imo. A premium is placed on quality, because it's not as common or as easily obtained. If a woman or anyone in my life for that matter, is open to growth, they are worth fighting for and keeping in my life. I will stand in their corner and would give them the shirt off my back, but my loyalty isn't unconditional. Humans are funny and fickle. We tend to do what we want and won't do what we don't. I figured out a long time ago, that trying to change someone is a fools errand. People lose focus, change focus, get lax and lazy, completely give up on life in instances. I won't let someone who CHOOSES to stand idle or regress, drag me down with them and impede my growth. I have enough of my own flesh and blood, that I'm stuck with for all of that and there's some of those relatives, that I don't even fvck with that much even still. I just can't find the rationale to blame someone who feels the same way. Several years is just so small relative to a lifetime. I perceive your position as a positive. Your immediate needs are being met and your wants and needs for your future are coming into focus. You're not willing to settle. Most settle, because they are afraid of being alone. You conquer that fear and learn to make yourself happy, by yourself and your perception of life and relationships will completely change. I go through periods of voluntary isolation frequently. Even practiced celibacy for 9 months at one time. With someone or without someone, I learn something about myself and life with each experience. I'm not saying it's easy, but you will find, more often than not, that it isn't complicated either. At least, until we choose to make it that way. Embrace the challenge. We subconsciously crave it as men. It's what tempers us and makes us truly capable of receiving worth, when we do run across it.

 

[sosousage]

I just found out a couple I know, know them both, the guy and the girl, have apparently broken up. Both quite mature people, had pictures of each other all over Facebook and Instagram, thought they were one of these couples that would stay together and maybe go on to get engaged or sth, but she broke it off cause "she didn't feel it anymore". Same sh1t my ex pulled about two years ago. We got a bunch of ladies who got no advice and do not care about what they lose, they just go on, bagagge themselves up during their early to mid twenties with relationships that they mostly break for no solid reason whatsoever. Prepare for a wave of these type of women who will only get more desperate as they fall into their late twenties.

Tbh women 30-45 year old still are spammed with messages on tinder

 

[Von]

Too many people here scared of relationships.

I know i am one of you guys.

You attract girls like you guys are... Mirroring.

That's why DJ bible ask to be "better"

There is nothing wrong with a LTR, relationship, being with 1 women your entire life.

It's just you need to be YOU all the time! And you need a women who understand that!

Nothing is perfect guys, so stop protection your ego.

Jump in, you might be happy for the rest of your life.

If you screen for all détails, you are not better than the women who eject at the first step.

Man are féminine, Women are manly... Its a 21th century reality.

The important part is you remain in control.

It's easier indeed when "nesting everything that aint perfect female" but perfection doesnt exist... The guys who LTR and plate spin will know what i talk about.

Anyway it's a female world, so the more manly you are the more you'll get quality

The 1% rule is a law of nature

Women tries to "weird you down to their will in time" and control everything.. Only the 1% survive

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Tbh women 30-45 year old still are spammed with messages on tinder

By cucks betas, low lives.

Not an argument.

New girls are turning 18 everyday. The hottest girl today is passeh tomorrow.

Hypergamy is a double edged sword. As is time. It ticks for everyone. Just much faster for women. Fertility is declining.

Women attempt to dismiss the obvious is saying they don't want kids meaning, she is not oriented correctly or she is lying.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Too many people here scared of relationships.

I know i am one of you guys.

You attract girls like you guys are... Mirroring.

That's why DJ bible ask to be "better"

There is nothing wrong with a LTR, relationship, being with 1 women your entire life.

It's just you need to be YOU all the time! And you need a women who understand that!

Nothing is perfect guys, so stop protection your ego.

Jump in, you might be happy for the rest of your life.

If you screen for all détails, you are not better than the women who eject at the first step.

Man are féminine, Women are manly... Its a 21th century reality.

The important part is you remain in control.

It's easier indeed when "nesting everything that aint perfect female" but perfection doesnt exist... The guys who LTR and plate spin will know what i talk about.

Anyway it's a female world, so the more manly you are the more you'll get quality

The 1% rule is a law of nature

Women tries to "weird you down to their will in time" and control everything.. Only the 1% survive

It's not reality.

It's insanity.

Women are out competing with the men for the corner office while cratering her Smv. Teens and 20s is chasing Chad's. Then it's baby fever. It's time to play hours.

No thanks. I am good. I will go get Bae on the early side of 20. Not Chad's booty call and raising some other man's baby.

No. There's nothing wrong with liking or loving a woman. It's what people call a ltr these days is pathetic.

Girls got bastatd children duff men, escorts level kill count and some chump is playing homemaker.

It's often I see Bae on tinder out for D and bf is watching her kid.

Masculinity is pathetic these days. No kidding the gene pool is being weeded out. Some men don't deserve to procreate.

 

[Roober]

Que

Would you view it as normal and healthy for a woman to have 60 one-year relationships?

To be honest, I'm not even sure how to respond to this due to the naivete of this response. People (men and women) try new experiences and sometimes they don't align with their values or goals. There is no reason to waste anyone's time in a relationship that is bound for failure. Would you stay with a great company or career path if you knew it was not good for you?

Dating someone for a year or two is not a knee jerk reaction, that is plenty of time to understand where the relationship is headed and whether or not you should continue.

Your goal should be to figure out how to be the dumper, not the dumpee. And I dont mean with an egotistic knee jerk reaction to mishandling a situation, but because you are level-headed enough to understand the your best course of action. When you get to that point, you will have @Macaframalama problem... too many good women to choose from instead of complaining about half of the human race.

That has nothing to do with red pill, it has to do with proper self actualization and realizing the source of the issues is very rarely the environment.

 

[Roober]

Not naive but maybe you don't know what your principle is?

Naive and a gaslighter. Are you sure your ex was the bpd?

From psychology today...
"In the case of narcissistic personality disorder, narcissists feel they are totally okay, and think that everyone else has a problem. This is called ego-syntonic behavior. It is very difficult to get a narcissistic gaslighter to get help through counseling — because they think you have the problem, not them. Projecting behavior can get to the point where a gaslighter delusionally believes that they are being persecuted by the victim — when in fact the opposite is true."

 

[Roober]

I made a point about logic and you insulted me, called me, crazy, then projected that I was the one gaslighting...

I did not insult you, please google the definition of naive. And I did not call you crazy.

It is well understood that women mirror behaviors of their partner, so I posed a question for you to consider. And it also made me ponder about those individuals which diagnose their exes with bpd wigg absolutely no clinical psychology background.

I do apologize if you feel insulted as that was not my intent.

 

[Reykhel]

Your bad!

laraiders inner child screaming out after being unravelled!!! Notice the grammar mistake!! The child's error.....

@Roober you called that beautifully and very level headed. I saw no insults at all.

Yet he was insulted? This is the ugly side of the red pill. Men who hide behind the red pill truths and use it to project their
own inner demons, hatred, psychosis and disorders.

Men who start threads such as "the sickness of women......" or "my bpd ex..." and repeat those threads over and over again...........
and they do end up being, just like @MidnightCity says...just as bad, if not worse, than the feminists....

They become emotional vampires. Value thieves who delusionally believe that they offer value in the really world just because the
likes of @guru1000 said to them in a thread "you are the prize boy"

 

[mrgoodstuff]

laraiders inner child screaming out after being unravelled!!! Notice the grammar mistake!! The child's error.....

@Roober you called that beautifully and very level headed. I saw no insults at all.

Yet he was insulted? This is the ugly side of the red pill. Men who hide behind the red pill truths and use it to project their
own inner demons, hatred, psychosis and disorders.

Men who start threads such as "the sickness of women......" or "my bpd ex..." and repeat those threads over and over again...........
and they do end up being, just like @MidnightCity says...just as bad, if not worse, than the feminists....

The become emotional vampires. Value thieves who delusionally believe that they offer value in the really world just because the
likes of @guru1000 said to them in a thread "you are the prize boy"

Alot of men do offer actual "value" . And alot of other men actually don't offer "value".

Women don't necessarily give pvssy due to "value". They give it due to attraction.

 

[Reykhel]

Alot of men do offer actual "value" . And alot of other men actually don't offer "value".

Women don't necessarily give pvssy due to "value". They give it due to attraction.

Man, my comment is connected to several comments threaded between roober and laraider.......look back
at those comments and read my comment in context.

It's like you have responded to a stand alone statement