Paying for sex vs paying for a date

[Jaws]

There are two opposing sides to this debate.

On one hand you have men who believe paying strictly for a prostitute who will have sex with anyone is the same as taking a woman on a date you pay for.


Difference is, anyone can pay to have sex with a prostitute. Not every man willing to pay for a date will get to have sex let alone a date with a non-prostitute just because he's willing to pay for the date.

 

[wifehunter]

Neither, if you care about your health.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

There are two opposing sides to this debate.

On one hand you have men who believe paying strictly for a prostitute who will have sex with anyone is the same as taking a woman on a date you pay for.


Difference is, anyone can pay to have sex with a prostitute. Not every man willing to pay for a date will get to have sex let alone a date with a non-prostitute just because he's willing to pay for the date.

I find dates to be boring and a complete waste of my extremely valuable time to try to discover whatever stupid magic code will impress some dumb b1tch.

And then after wasting an hour of my time and making me fvcking pay for it, she's not even gonna put my d1ck in her throat? No thanks.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I find dates to be boring and a complete waste of my extremely valuable time to try to discover whatever stupid magic code will impress some dumb b1tch.

And then after wasting an hour of my time and making me fvcking pay for it, she's not even gonna put my d1ck in her throat? No thanks.

Richard...

While I don't agree with paying for sex. I can see a few situations where it is actually "manning up". What if you were on a long drought. I think paying for it a few times would be better than complaining about it or jagging off.

 

[ohrein]

Nah, she pays for the date and you have sex with her. She's paying for a night with me.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Nah, she pays for the date and you have sex with her. She's paying for a night with me.

And when does that happen? And if it actually does, what makes you worth it to her?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Richard...

While I don't agree with paying for sex. I can see a few situations where it is actually "manning up". What if you were on a long drought. I think paying for it a few times would be better than complaining about it or jagging off.

I'm just tired of trying to figure out these wh0res brains. Especially when I basically know they're nonsense anyway. No time for it. I have a business to build.

 

[Von]

I'm just tired of trying to figure out these wh0res brains. Especially when I basically know they're nonsense anyway. No time for it. I have a business to build.

Than stop asking the same questions and go build it (your business)

You have a lambo you need to afford.

To OP:

Depends what you want and how you do it.

A hooker might be indeed cheaper, if you blow money on dates.

A hooker cost is the saving time and "date" to go straight in the sex

A date is about "courtship" and building intimacy until you have a lay.... Its how you manage your "game" and "date"at decides which is more "money-saving"

Eventually, dating is cheaper in the long run cause she will give you "free sex" if you did the short-mid run well. Its like running a business

A hooker will always cost you, no matter what but results are guaranteed

What's great about dating is when your game is high enough that the women pays for everything and you get free sex.

Overall dating at multiplate level is expensive.. So a hooker might save you Time and money (That's why alot of high end top tier money Maker do them.. They want sex, company, but dont have time)

I make a point of keeping my date to the nicest/cheapest possible for maximum impact. The game will take care of the rest.

If you are not game aware like poster here.. Or complain just to complain. You might prefer the "pay for lay" .

Anyway, a girl who doesnt ask for money to lay... Is usually someone who likes you

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Than stop asking the same questions and go build it.

You have a lambo you need to afford.

To OP:

Depends what you want and how you do it.

A hooker might be indeed cheaper, if you blow money on dates.

A hooker cost is the saving time and "date" to go straight in the sex

A date is about "courtship" and building intimacy until you have a lay.... Its how you manage your "game" and "d'aller" that decides which is more "money-saving"

Eventually, dating is cheaper in the long run cause she will give you "free sex" if you did the short-mid run well.

A hooker will always cost you, no matter what.

What's great about dating is when your game is high enough that the women pays for everything and you get free sex.

Overall dating at multiplate level is expensive.. So a hooker might save you Time and money .

I make a point of keeping my date to the nicest/cheapest possible for maximum impact. The game will take care of the rest.

If you are not game aware like poster here.. Or complain just to complain. You might prefer the "pay for lay" .

Anyway, a girl who doesnt ask for money to lay... Is usually someone who likes you

Stop talking to me.

Who the fvck do you think you are to tell me what to do?

And what the fvck do you think I do every fvcking day while you do some retard sh1t.

This is another reason I hate talking to other guys. They always try to talk some tough guy sh1t.

 

[marmel75]

A) you will be paying a hell of a lot more for a prostitute thab a date unless you are banging some nasty skank or act like Big Gumby and try to throw beta bucks at then.

B) the sex will be nowhere near as good

C) This is the act of a straight up loser.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I believe in all depends on your finances, your look and if you appreciate the date itself or its just a mean to get sex.

Its also important if you seek sex itself or validation through sex.

Your finances matters because if you are a billionaire, its no big deal to spend 50 euros for a date even if you dont get any sex, thats like spending 20 cents for an average guy, no big deal either case.

Your look matters because unless you are a delusional forum character, we all know how girls are faster to give themselves to hot guys while average guys need to "game" them.
Feel free to check all the tinder experiments done using male model pictures or just think about some hot guy you know, you will notice that no matter what, he can do no wrong.

Finally if you just have to release your load you need a female body and thats all, if you like the challenge or need a further "achievement unlocked", you clearly will chose a decent girl over an escort.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I'm just tired of trying to figure out these wh0res brains. Especially when I basically know they're nonsense anyway. No time for it. I have a business to build.

As long as you don't let them Rob you . When their your friend they'll be cheap or free . Head should be $60 and sex $100-$150. Anything higher and she's robbing you .

 

[RichardTheFrog]

You have hundreds of posts whining about how to attract women and then you say dating is a waste of time. You're a lying hypocrite.

I've never whined once on here.

Maybe you take expressing anger as whining.

 

[skinnyguy]

Than stop asking the same questions and go build it (your business)

You have a lambo you need to afford.

To OP:

Depends what you want and how you do it.

A hooker might be indeed cheaper, if you blow money on dates.

A hooker cost is the saving time and "date" to go straight in the sex

A date is about "courtship" and building intimacy until you have a lay.... Its how you manage your "game" and "date"at decides which is more "money-saving"

Eventually, dating is cheaper in the long run cause she will give you "free sex" if you did the short-mid run well. Its like running a business

A hooker will always cost you, no matter what but results are guaranteed

What's great about dating is when your game is high enough that the women pays for everything and you get free sex.

Overall dating at multiplate level is expensive.. So a hooker might save you Time and money (That's why alot of high end top tier money Maker do them.. They want sex, company, but dont have time)

I make a point of keeping my date to the nicest/cheapest possible for maximum impact. The game will take care of the rest.

If you are not game aware like poster here.. Or complain just to complain. You might prefer the "pay for lay" .

Anyway, a girl who doesnt ask for money to lay... Is usually someone who likes you

That’s theoretical.

Lots of guys are in sexless relationships. Sex is never guaranteed with your wife or gf

 

[mrgoodstuff]

That’s theoretical.

Lots of guys are in sexless relationships. Sex is never guaranteed with your wife or gf

 

[ohrein]

And when does that happen? And if it actually does, what makes you worth it to her?

Not gonna pretend it's a common occurrence but I have had it happen a few times. Had one woman who'd drive two hours to come spend the night, would pay for everything when we were out and would send me gifts. She was a bit older and only like a HB6 but still!

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I've never whined once on here.

Maybe you take expressing anger as whining.

It is whining.

 

[Jaws]

A) you will be paying a hell of a lot more for a prostitute thab a date unless you are banging some nasty skank or act like Big Gumby and try to throw beta bucks at then.

B) the sex will be nowhere near as good

C) This is the act of a straight up loser.

Sure buddy. Oldest profession in the world going back millennia. The most honest transaction possible between man and woman, trading sex for resources and cutting thru all the BS. High caliber athletes and politicians use escorts all the time to avoid dealing with the stress. But now doing it is this modern concept from the last 100 years known as being a "loser" that you keyboard warriors throw around to subcommunicate that you're a winner!

I guess the billionaire athletes and politicians should look to you instead, a chest thumping super alpha on the couch, with 5,600 posts in 6 years on an anonymous PUA forum.

Let me guess, you bought Jason Capital's "Status" and Corey Wayne's "3% Man", and after dropping the only $497 you had you can't admit it was a waste of time, so now as a coping mechanism you convinced yourself you can bring the most unattainable 10 on the planet to her knees with your tight "game"?

I wonder, do you talk about your SoSuave resume when DHVing?

 

[corrector]

Sure buddy. Oldest profession in the world going back millennia. The most honest transaction possible between man and woman, trading sex for resources and cutting thru all the BS. High caliber athletes and politicians use escorts all the time to avoid dealing with the stress. But now it's this modern concept from the last 100 years known as being a "loser".

High caliber athletes and politicans also use drugs, in particular anti-anxiety or other types of drugs and don't actually do much to constructively contribute to society. An athlete may be distracting entertainment, but that doesn't build society. A politican could be in it for the money and not be operating in the best interest of society. Just because THEY use escorts doesn't mean anything. Are you kidding me? Politicans molest children in sex parties and get away with it, but if a normal person does it then they go to jail. You want to use them as an example?

How about this one?

https://nypost.com/2010/10/26/charl...t-plaza-hotel-in-coke-fueled-rampage-sources/

What a miserable type of life to be. He loses his wallet and cell-phone and he lost his mind. It's all that he had that defined him as a human being, right? God forbid he is away from his money for just a second, lol! It makes you wonder what you define as a loser. How about the poor veteran who fought in past wars for the country that's homeless and begging for change. No wonder your country is all messed up.

 

[Jaws]

@corrector The point is these people are not losers. They may be reckless or even crazy, but a politician or athlete by definition is among the elite. And the pay for sex all the time.

Paying for sex is not necessarily a loser act. Sometimes it's just easier to cut the crap between the sexes. And let's be honest, when you put aside all the BS peddled by liars like @guru1000 and @marmel75 who are trying to sell you on magic pills and law of attraction nonsense, or just chest thumping like the bully in middle school who was overcompensating for something, throw the outdated concept of game and let's get right down to it.

With this absolute rubbish market of women, what is easier?

Option A: Send out 200 messages in order to get 10 numbers from tatted up single moms with bad attitudes, get 5 replies, which turn into 2 dates. Maybe 1 flakes and other shows up. You have to wine and dine her while she looks at her phone all night and she may reject you anyway at the end of the night. $250 gone and nothing to show for it. Do this once per weekend and in a month and it's $1,000 down the drain.

Option B: Fly to Vegas or Amsterdam for the weekend. The flight and hotel costs you $500 total for 3 nights. Find two quality, clean escorts who charge $200 an hour. Offer them $250 to make it good. You spent $500 to lay two beautiful girls and got to visit a new city. Total damage $1,000.