Yea , I experiment in the past with silence after set up the date, and got last minutes flaked, one after the other . Than changed it to text one or two message a day until the date day, and flaking dropped dramatically. keeping the "line open' will keep her IL high until the date.(asuming she had HIL to begin with).
were you worried this comes off as needy or hungry? Im getting flakes/nocontact also if I wait a few days after asking out...
It's not twice a day but one string of few funny, easygo messages back and forth.
It depends on what you are sending. If you dont send needy texts you wont be viewed as needy
I just puked a little in my mouth when I read this.
To be clear this is NOT what I'm advocating. Too many people view stuff as either black or what...
It's pretty common. Heck, Corey Wayne suggests the same. However, do as you may.
Keeping communication open has NOTHING to do with confirming the date. Nothing at all. Completely different things.
I don't really follow many writers or writings. Mainly, personal experience, trial and error.I did at one point like anyone else. The guidelines as written are for noobs, but way outdated imo, as well as playing a scared game. The best and quickest way to learn social dynamics and calibration is by going out and doing. Trial and error. Some think it's allot to take in at once as newbie, but if the Marine Corp can take an 18 year old kid and teach him to remain calm under fire with a drill sergeant screaming in his face, surely it's not asking allot for a newbie on SS to get out and start experimenting, learning context and getting comfortable in social interactions with the opposite sex. Men are playing defense way too often and leaving the ball in the hands of women. It takes allot of L's to fine tune this chit and a man will lose allot of them, regardless of how good he gets at this, or he should if he's always trying to raise the bar, as he should be.
We can agree to disagree. You can chit-chat once you get the woman and she starts to reach out to you. Chit chatting before can do more harm than good. But, as always, do as you wish and experience. Every woman is different. If you chat/text on the phone instead or more than meeting in person, then you run the risk of having her look at you as a friends, not a guy she'd like to fvck. What Corey states, in this case, has worked best for me in NYC. The chatting and texting game, was lack luster at best.
A woman cannot be interested through text. She's only interested by what her actions say.
Wait, you thought you had a date? You were the only one that thought that my friend.
Then you made it worse by chasing.
She doesn't care.
Confirmation that she doesn't care.
Nope. Women actually increase their interest level when you don't chase them. Problem is pal, she was never interested in you. You didn't go on a date. You didn't kiss her. You were just some guy she reluctantly gave her number to in hopes that you would go away.
I would think constant barrage of texts. Whatcha doing, thinking of you, when can I see you again, good morning sweetie, good night babe, etc... Shows a person has no life and not working to improve it. I think. Just what I've read in books and seen on Youtube.
