I am sensing crabs in a barrel...
Richard, start working on your physique, which will take time, but also begin working on your conversations. Start with small chat with clerks, random encounters, etc. Read some Dale Carnegie, and other leadership boosk, they will help gain understanding. Then you have to put it into practice.
It seems there is a significant amount of jealousy regarding your funds, which I really don't understand. It's like golf, if you lie about it, you are only hurting yourself. I don't think the Lambo is necessary, the pics are solid for now, just work on your mind and your body.