Have you ever had a woman leave even if the sex was amazing for you both?

[lizardking82]

Women seek for that type of bond all their lives and sometimes, even when it's there, they still leave. Ever had that happen to you? Or you think there is no such thing as good sex when/if she leaves?

 

[Who Dares Win]

Awfully they never leave in my case even when the sex sucks (which is most of the times), would be great if they do.

 

[marmel75]

Women seek for that type of bond all their lives and sometimes, even when it's there, they still leave. Ever had that happen to you? Or you think there is no such thing as good sex when/if she leaves?

Yes...when I was in elite shape I had several times where I met and banged chicks and they couldnt stop tslking about how amazing I was in bed(like almost every conversation they dropped some type of hint) but would fall away after 4 or 5 times because they told me that they were starting to really become attached and wanted to stop before it got to a certain point because they didnt see it going anywhere long term(they thought I was untrustworthy because of my muscles)

 

[sosousage]

Women seek for that type of bond all their lives and sometimes, even when it's there, they still leave. Ever had that happen to you? Or you think there is no such thing as good sex when/if she leaves?

yeah she was getting at least one orgasm every time she visited my home and she also talked weird stuff out of excitation during sex like "i love you" "omg i always want to do this position" "what other creepy things you want to do with me" "daddy"
but i ignored her birthdays and every of her invites to club (i cant dance so not my place).
she broke up when i ignored her on valentines.

in fact i was ready to go with her on valentines day but she pissed me off ignoring me day before so i ignored her as well as a revenge.

 

[djthiago1]

Reason why this happens; is because sex simply isn't as important for women as it is for men. You hook a woman by conquering the head, the body simply follows.

 

[wifehunter]

At the end of the day 'amazing sex' is still just sex. Without a spiritual/emotional bond, it won't last long. And, it's what separates us from the animals.

 

[The Duke]

Women seek for that type of bond all their lives and sometimes, even when it's there, they still leave. Ever had that happen to you? Or you think there is no such thing as good sex when/if she leaves?

I had a girl that I started talking to on POF on a Friday Afternoon. By that evening I had her phone number and turned the conversation very sexual, very quickly. We were texting back and forth every few minutes, next thing you know she is sending me naughty pics. At midnight I was on my way to her apartment for sex.

We had awesome marathon/rough/wild/hot sex until the sun came up. I wore her out so she couldn't take anymore. Fell asleep with her then I woke up and left 3hrs later. Maybe I should have taken her to a nice breakfast? ahhh hell no. The sausage link and gravy I stuck in her bun should have been adequate.

The next day out of nowhere I start getting angry text messages. I was the devil. She hated me. Blamed it all on me. Told me never to talk to her again. It was all her trying to put me down because she was ashamed of herself. I was quite proud of myself! That was one of my finer moments. I spent no money, seduced a girl, and starred in my own porn movie all in a day's work!

A week later she texts me and pretends her episode of anger never happened....lol. I didn't respond.

 

[lizardking82]

After a long time LOL last night, I saw a dream with my ex and since I was reminded of her, and together with that, I got reminded of how good the sex was and how she left anyways "because she didn't feel the same" and this topic came to mind.

 

[Andrewdiceclay]

I've had a lot of girls climax and want to see me everyday for the next week. I have a life so that doesn't happen and they get upset and leave. For " not paying enough attention". So yes, they do leave. You never really know why with women.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Yup because at the end of the day she could make herself squirt without me. Also depends on her level of experience etc. Oh well, bye Felicia.

I've had to drop a few as well actually. That's not a fun situation but I'm sure it will happen to you someday and you'll figure it out.

Agree with Howie too, some of my best nights were just raw as fück.( no pun intended). Raw meaningless, no emotions, fwb sex.

 

[Mazer]

Variety really is the spice of life. I have learned you need to come up with new and kinky sexual stuff every single ****in sex session to keep her interest or she will go elsewhere. Similar to 1st dates where you think to yourself we just had a great date and boom, she never contacts you again. Maybe the sex wasnt that great for her.

I am seeing this nurse right now, who is about a hb6 who has one hell of a sexual appetite. Probably the best bangs I have ever had. A lot better than hb9's I have had sex with. I asked her to come over last week with the hottest shoes she has in her closet. I have a shoe fetish. She showed up with some red high heels with some bedazzle bull**** on them. We went out to dinner, she took her one shoe off, and rubbed my **** with her foot through the entire dinner and then went back home and ****ed her with those shoes on. This week she is coming over wearing a blonde wig. The following week I might mention something about inviting her female for a threesome, which I have never experienced. Keep her guessing every single session.

We have amazing sex but I am already looking for her replacement because there is nothing like new vag and seducing a new woman, she probably thinks the same way.

 

[fabiodriven]

My very first post on this forum! A friend of mine started a red pill thread on the forum I frequent (which I sorely needed), which then led me to the book "The Rational Male", which then led me here.

I am a reforming AFC, a bad one, to the letter of the words. I have done literally just about everything wrong the entire time I've had experience with the opposite sex my whole life, save for one thing.

Sex. I have a natural knack, something I didn't figure out until the age of 24, and I also didn't realize how well-equipped I am until that time either. I'd been with a handful of women sexually prior to that time, but not in this capacity. This one was different, ridiculously hot and a brain between her ears. "The one", lol! Well what I learned with her (she was far more experienced than myself), was that I could have been in porn. I thought she was kidding when she used to say that, it took me years and many more reviews to realize she wasn't kidding. I think part of the appeal is the surprise. I've always been a skinny little fvcker (working very hard on my body right now), I can't dance, and I've always been as Betamax as they come. I was like the beta mascot, so one wouldn't expect this kid to bang you sideways. One would be sorely (wink) mistaken in that assumption.

I'm convinced it was the sex and the sex only that kept us together for five and a half years, at least for the most part. I'd be willing to bet in the last days of her life if she were asked who the best lover she ever had was, it would be me. However I still got dumped regardless, and the sex was only improving with time.

After she left I went through my typical suicidal AFC sobbing, then a couple of years later I landed another LTR sa-mokeshow. Again, another experienced young lady. She's six years younger than me and we started dating when I was about 31 or 32 or something, but again, we went to places she'd previously never been, and I'd be willing to bet she's never been back to. That's not to say there isn't a variety of some other sort she's experienced in the time being that hasn't tickled her fancy in some way I never could, but she will never forget me, this much I know. Once again though, I did get dumped. This particular mate was an absolute psychopath though, and I take no responsibility for the outcome of that relationship.

So in my experience yes, absolutely they will leave even if the sex is mind boggling. Both of the examples given have never had an issue picking up men, all they have to do is leave the house, so walking away from anything has always been a very viable option for them. I'm learning it's been an option for me all along as well and hope to put that to use sooner than later.

 

[Spaz]

After saving money and buying up that expensive LV handbag she so craves and love, in time she again "leaves" that handbag for yet another handbag.

Why does she do it?

 

[Trump]

Women seek for that type of bond all their lives and sometimes, even when it's there, they still leave.

Because women care about use, not sex. If you are useful for her, she will come back. If you are worthless to her, she will likely leave.

Women won't give up image/status/novelty for "good sex". Not to say women don't enjoy it, but its a very very small part of the equation for them.

 

[Draper]

Yes...when I was in elite shape I had several times where I met and banged chicks and they couldnt stop tslking about how amazing I was in bed(like almost every conversation they dropped some type of hint) but would fall away after 4 or 5 times because they told me that they were starting to really become attached and wanted to stop before it got to a certain point because they didnt see it going anywhere long term(they thought I was untrustworthy because of my muscles)

This.
When they feel that they won't get commitment from you they usually leave after a while no matter how great the sex ist.

 

[ubercat]

Shock horror you can actually use romance as well guys. It doesn't all have to be about working your way through the pornosutra. Sometimes I think we're a bit too quick here to throw all things blue pill out the window.

I sing to my girlfriend and read her stories in bed. Remember it's just like parenting. Anything that gives you that Daddy frame works in your favour

 

[Masculinity]

Women seek for that type of bond all their lives and sometimes, even when it's there, they still leave. Ever had that happen to you? Or you think there is no such thing as good sex when/if she leaves?

Yes I had two women--with whom I had great sexual relationships--leave:

1. The first was a girl who grew up in a religious family. She said the sex "was too good" and that she wasn't supposed be banging because sex was to procreate, not to recreate.

2. The second one was very open and wild (sexually speaking). However, she had a religious and conservative social
circle that shamed her for having sex with me without pursuing marriage.

 

[MrWood]

When they feel that they won't get commitment from you they usually leave after a while no matter how great the sex is.

actually... it's BPD, her fear of closeness/commitment

 

[Desdinova]

I've had them leave as well. Sex doesn't make the woman stay. Making an emotional imprint will make her stay. Sex can be a contributing factor, but it cannot be the entire basis of making an emotional imprint.

 

[Murk]

every girl i was with, the sex was amazing. of all the drama i’ve had with women sex was never an issue. But no matter how good the sex is, eventually girl logic always wins out and if things like cheating, ignoring, and generally not being treated like some women feel they should, then any girl will eventually walk away if she has any sense of self esteem.

Exactly that. The great sex will just prolong the inevitable, if you're not treating her well enough she eventually comes to her senses.

It's funny, I thought me and my ex had the best sex until a new girl came along and put so much more work in with a much better body, but the emotional connection isn't there so although technically the sex is better, it's way less fulfilling. Sex is so much about emotional and mental connection than the physical.