Have you ever had a woman leave even if the sex was amazing for you both?

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I've had them leave as well. Sex doesn't make the woman stay. Making an emotional imprint will make her stay. Sex can be a contributing factor, but it cannot be the entire basis of making an emotional imprint.
Hey Des, do you have any prior SS post links about how to best make an emotional imprint? I have my thoughts but would like to read what you have to say on it. Especially if it's a new girl, and not someone you got with way back per your High Score Theory.
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Hey Des, do you have any prior SS post links about how to best make an emotional imprint? I have my thoughts but would like to read what you have to say on it. Especially if it's a new girl, and not someone you got with way back per your High Score Theory.
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I think I read in that thread it's about the emotional roller coaster, full range of emotions. I disagree with this theory, I've taken girls on a wild ride that they just wanted to get off and never look back.

IMO, it's about creating unique emotional experiences, but positive ones. Don't give them lots of turmoil, why even go to such extreme lengths to hook a girl you don't ultimately want to be with?

This is the area of game I don't like, the manipulative selfish side. If she's not "the one" let her fly the fvcking nest and find someone who does want to live happily ever after. Are we tyrants hoarding souls? That's the opposite of what a good man of integrity is. Be happy these girls left, be happy they are free to pursue happiness and not be stuck in a web of your fvcked up ego boosting game.

Why care about a high score of a girl who isn't going to be the mother of your children? Let them all fly guys, you've had your turn now focus on the present.
 

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I think I read in that thread it's about the emotional roller coaster, full range of emotions. I disagree with this theory, I've taken girls on a wild ride that they just wanted to get off and never look back.

IMO, it's about creating unique emotional experiences, but positive ones. Don't give them lots of turmoil, why even go to such extreme lengths to hook a girl you don't ultimately want to be with?

This is the area of game I don't like, the manipulative selfish side. If she's not "the one" let her fly the fvcking nest and find someone who does want to live happily ever after. Are we tyrants hoarding souls? That's the opposite of what a good man of integrity is. Be happy these girls left, be happy they are free to pursue happiness and not be stuck in a web of your fvcked up ego boosting game.

Why care about a high score of a girl who isn't going to be the mother of your children? Let them all fly guys, you've had your turn now focus on the present.
If your description of the emotional imprint is accurate, then you don't necessarily need to manipulate. Just being a DJ means saying "no" once in a while and not putting up with BS or crap from a/your woman. This alone, them not getting their way 100% of the time, is enough to create the emotional swings Des is talking about. As opposed to the beta male who says yes to everything so he doesn't get dumped.
 

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If your description of the emotional imprint is accurate, then you don't necessarily need to manipulate. Just being a DJ means saying "no" once in a while and not putting up with BS or crap from a/your woman. This alone, them not getting their way 100% of the time, is enough to create the emotional swings Des is talking about. As opposed to the beta male who says yes to everything so he doesn't get dumped.
I'm either mad high or this has no relevance to what I was saying, or even what this thread is about. Not trying to be rude OG but what are you saying? We all know saying No is essential. I'm saying what the point of playing the high score game to collect souls of females you have no business thinking about?

BTW I stupidly popped some molly and I'm rattling around at home and have work in 7.5 hours.
 

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Hey Des, do you have any prior SS post links about how to best make an emotional imprint?
I wrote about it years ago in this post:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/the-inner-workings-of-women-emotion.101067/

I think I read in that thread it's about the emotional roller coaster, full range of emotions. I disagree with this theory, I've taken girls on a wild ride that they just wanted to get off and never look back.
It really depends on the woman. Some will only require a ride on the kid's rollercoaster, and some will require a ride 400 feet in the air. In other words, some women have a need for intense drama to feel intense emotional fluctuation while others will need very little. It all depends on how much drama they create for themselves in real life. She will let you know when you're going too far. If you ignore her signals that you're going a bit too far, she will want to get off the ride.

why even go to such extreme lengths to hook a girl you don't ultimately want to be with?
Do it for practice. When you encounter a girl you actually DO want to be with, you'll know how to hook her. It's like when an aspiring DJ needs work on approaching or number closing, he should be doing it for practice with girls he don't necessarily want so he becomes good at it. Practice makes perfect.
 

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